Why Did My Ex Block Me After 3 Months Of No Contact On Instagram When We Don’t Even Follow Each Other?

by Michelle Devani

It is a public secret that we might still want to creep our ex’s social media. It doesn’t always mean that we still love them, sometimes it is that hard to lose someone’s who’s part of our life and we all was have been there.

Although we were so confident to break up or saw our partner left us, but looking at our ex’s social media page might still tempting. But our ex must feel the same way. Even though he/ she was very confident to break up from us, they must still miss our present and it is normal.

But what does it mean if he/ she blocks your social media after 3 months of break up or no contact on Instagram? What’s worse is when both of you don’t follow each other. Here are some points that might be the reason:

1. Wants To Move On

want to move on

First, a possible reason is that they want to move on from you. Regarding whatever the reason is, it is still hurtful to receive a message from someone that they want to move on from.

It is sometimes hard even just to see them online. If you notice that your ex blocks you randomly even though you two aren’t following each other, it means he/ she is having difficulty to move on from you.

It is still hard for them to not creeping up to your page just to check you out.

Here's about: How Should A Guy Deal With A Breakup From A Relationship of Over 5 Years?

2. Wants To Create A Boundary

The second reason on why your ex blocks you after 3 months of no contact on Instagram is because he/ she wants to create a boundary. It might be very hurtful that they decide to block you, but it is their ultimate decision which you can’t get involved.

If you want to move on from them and start a new love, this can be a blessing in disguise. Because of him/ her blocking you mean you can’t see their recent photos and life updates or even their new posts with a new lover. You will get used to this situation over time and this is an important part of the healing process.

Here's about: What Is No Contact Rule with Libra Man? How It Works After Break Up?

3. Wants To Start New Relationship And Respect Your Feeling

This might be the most hurtful point, but this can be the reason why he/ she blocks you on social media. It happens when they have found a new love and want to start a new relationship but doesn’t want to hurt your feeling and want to open the door for you.

Here's about: What Are The Benefits of Doing No Contact Rule After A Breakup?

If your ex does this, you don’t have the option and can see this as a positive thing. You can start to search for new love as well and moving on from them.

4. This Is What You Deserve

this is what you deserve

When an ex blocks you on social media, the reason might because they try hard to move on from you or they want to close every door for you. It all depends on how both of you broke up.

If they broke up with you because of how horrible you treated them, then they want to close every door for you to enter their lives again. So, they choose to block your social media instead.

They don’t want to give you a chance to sneak back into their life again or even to stalk on your social media.

Here's about: What Can I Do If I Feel Bored of My Boyfriend but I Don't Wanna Break Up

5. Blocking Social Media Was A Deal After Breaking Up

This might happen to your case that your ex blocks you because it was your deal once you break up with him/ her but you don’t remember it.

You might the one who has the idea to block your ex’s social media and number if you ever broke up with him/ her. This will be a good chance to never look back at the past and moving forward to find a new and better relationship.

Michelle Devani
My name is Michelle Devani, and I've been helping people with their relationships since 2003. In 2017 I decided it was about time I started a blog on the topic, and since then more than 2 million people worldwide have read my relationship advice. Drop me a comment below to let me know what you think.