20 Ways To Make My Boyfriend Miss Me And Want To See Me Again

by Michelle Devani

Do you wish your boyfriend made more of an effort to see you?  

Are you wondering how to make him miss you more? 

I have listed some techniques to help with this problem below, but the truth is: it’s a problem that needs to be fixed at a core level. 

If your boyfriend truly loved you, this wouldn’t be a problem plaguing your relationship. 

I used to experience the same issues with the men I was dating. 

I always cared more than they did! Although they seemed to be smitten with me in the early days, this lust faded pretty quickly.

It was a painful experience - and it felt like it was never going to end!

Thankfully, I was able to turn this troubling set of circumstances around - and I want to explain how I did it. 

It all started when I stumbled upon some priceless advice about a man’s ‘Hero’s Instinct’

This is a primal psychological trigger held by most men - and it has a tremendous impact on how they perceive their romantic partners. 

When a woman can learn how to activate this trigger, she can allow him to experience intense feelings of joy, power and purpose.

These are the emotions that men are desperate to feel in a monogamous relationship. By becoming the woman that can consistently unleash these powerful feelings, he’ll begin to feel an unbreakable connection with you. 

This is a powerful psychological process - but it’s easy enough to unlock these feelings within a man once you’ve learned how to do it (read my personal story to learn more about how it works). 

Once you’ve got this process mastered, you won’t have to worry about convincing a man to hang out with you any more. 

Still, I’ve included some more tips for you below.

Ways To Make My Boyfriend Miss Me And Want To See Me

Have you ever openly admit to your boyfriend that you miss him? The chance of that would probably be pretty low. Women are known to be mysterious and often keeps things to herself. She wants to be wanted and loved without having to shout it out to the world.

This will then make you question how you can make your boyfriend miss you. You can find all the ways here:

1. Make Him Feel Comfortable Around You

make him feel comfortable around you

You must have asked yourself, ‘What are the ways to make my boyfriend miss me and want to see me?’ Well the thing is you just have to make him comfortable around you. If the two of you haven’t met in such a long time then your boyfriend could be feeling a little bit awkward. Make sure he is feeling comfortable when he’s with you as comfort will be something that he will remember when he misses you. Tell him these Cute Things to Say to Your Boyfriend to Make His Heart Melt.

2. Talk To Him Without Asking Too Much

Talk to your boyfriend about anything that has been going on in his life. Listen to what he has to say. Show him that you are interested to know all about it. By being a good listener, you will make him miss your presence all the time. Remember not to ask too many intruding questions as that could be a turn off. Don’t be so suspicious of him as he might think that you don’t trust him as well.

3. Compliment Him

Who doesn’t like to receive nice compliments? Your boyfriend deserves it from you. Compliment him when you happen to see him. You don’t have to give too much and it doesn’t have to be so exaggerated. It’s enough to compliment on his clothes or his haircut. Even better, you can just say that meeting him has helped you forget all the tiredness you’ve been feeling for this week.

4. Frequently Text Him

Make some time to text your boyfriend every morning. It can just be a simple morning greeting. You can say, “Hey love, have a good day!”. Here are some more Things to Say to Your Boyfriend to Make Him Feel Special over Text.

It’s a definite mood booster to receive a text from the girl he loves the most in the world. It’s very thoughtful to text him in the morning as that means you immediately think of him when you wake up. Other than that, he’ll remember the text for the rest of his day.

5. Smile

Best believe that happiness can be contagious. When you’re happy, other people can feel it too. So whenever you meet your boyfriend, give your best and sweetest smile to him. Make him know that you’re so happy to have him as your boyfriend. Your smile will be imprinted on his mind forever and he’ll never goes by a day without thinking of you.

6. Give Him His Favorite Things

Get to know your boyfriend’s favourite things. It could be related to his favourite food, show, hobby or any other thing. Get those things for your boyfriend once in a while for no reason at all. He’ll appreciate the gesture as a thoughtful one. Whenever he looks at the things you’ve given him, he will surely think you. 

7. Do What He Likes

Another ways to make my boyfriend miss me and want to see me is to do what he likes. Every guy has a thing that he really likes from his girlfriend. For instance, maybe he likes a certain way you dress or tie your hair. When you meet or see him, do those things that he really likes from you. When he remembers these little moments, he will miss you.

8. Don’t Respond Too Quickly

You can do this as a bit of a tease for your boyfriend. In this modern age, it’s so easy to just text or call your loved one. To make your boyfriend miss you, wait for a while to respond to him. Give him some time to yearn for a reply. That will make him miss you and want to talk to you even more. In other case, he might instantly want to meet you as he misses you too much.

9. Look Good In Front Of Him

look good in front of him

When you’re going out to meet your boyfriend, look your best. Pay attention to how you look. You may want to appear as attractive as possible to him so that he can’t take off his eyes from you. This will make him very happy to be the guy who gets to be with her. You may want to know these unfortunate Signs Your Boyfriend Doesn't Find You Attractive Anymore

10. Don’t Send Out Too Many Messages

Sometimes you will feel the urge to send a lot of messages to your boyfriend because you miss him too much. But hold yourself back. It’s okay to send him those messages but remember to limit yourself.

When you text him too many times, he might get bored and annoyed. That’s the opposite of how you want him to feel. You want him to miss you not get sick of you. So, give a lot of space in between your messages, enough to make him miss you. Be on the lookout for the Signs of a Bad Boyfriend Material.

More Ways To Make Your Boyfriend Miss You

Try out these other ways which might work for you.

  1. Give your boyfriend a surprise so he knows you’re always thinking of him.
  2. Wear your favourite perfume so that he misses your scent.
  3. Make your time together very valuable.
  4. Give him one of your belongings as a reminder of you.
  5. Tell him lots of jokes to make him laugh.
  6. Reminisce about the fun times together with him.
  7. Plan a vacation together so he’ll have something to look forward to.
  8. Cook him his favourite food.
  9. Send him recent and flattering pictures of yourself.
  10. Occassionally make him jealous a little bit.

Also know all the Ways to Make Your Boyfriend Fall in Love with You Again.

Good luck trying these tips to make him miss you. Never do anything too much and remember not to hurt his feelings in any way possible.

Michelle Devani
My name is Michelle Devani, and I've been helping people with their relationships since 2003. In 2017 I decided it was about time I started a blog on the topic, and since then more than 2 million people worldwide have read my relationship advice. Drop me a comment below to let me know what you think.