How To Know If An Aquarius Man Is Serious About You (19 SureFire Signs)

Last updated on June 11, 2024 by Michelle Devani

Are you wondering if an Aquarius man is serious about dating you exclusively?

It’s tricky to know this because an Aquarius man is just as mysterious as the element he was born under; the water. 

Still, once you’ve cracked him, an Aquarius man is very emotional and good at showing his love.

That’s why I want to help you understand what’s going on in his mind. The guide below reveals 15 ways to discover whether an Aquarius is serious about settling down with you. 

However, perhaps the question on your mind is actually: how do I make him serious about me? If so, I need you to read the following sentences carefully. 

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It’s called the ‘Hero’s Instinct’ - and it’s well worth learning how to activate this line of thinking in a man. 

Once you do so, it releases intense feelings of power, purpose, joy, love and meaning; all the feelings that men would love to experience in a long-term partnership. 

Naturally, if he is enjoying these overwhelming emotions around you, he’s going to keep coming back to you again and again. 

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Of course, it may be that this amazing Aquarius is already serious about dating you. Read on for my list of signs that this is the case.


Is He Serious About You?

Are you noticing a shift in your relationship with your Aquarius man? Is he frequently exhibiting signs that he wouldn’t show on regular days? Does he appear more goofy and affectionate than normal? 

Then, it is possible to feel like his feelings for you mirror yours. In any serious relationship, both parties should be able to tell, at some point, how they feel about each other.

However, Aquarius men can be enigmatic sometimes. You could be here, feeling like he’s the love of your life, while he’s just enjoying himself and not really taking things seriously. Plus, since he’s under the air sign, that makes an Aquarius man in love quite hard to read. Since you’re in a relationship with an Aquarius man, you’ve probably noticed how his character depends on his feelings at the time. 

Plus, his logical nature makes it hard for him to fall in love, so it’s normal if you want to know if he’s ready for a serious relationship. 

If you think you’re meant for each other, then you’re absolutely right for wanting to know if your man is in love with you, and the depth of those feelings as well. This article will help you with tips on how to know if an Aquarius man is serious about you. 

19 Ways To Know If An Aquarius Man Is Serious

1. He Is Completely Into You

he is completely into you

An Aquarius man is caring and empathetic towards other people but, he’s at the same time kind of self-absorbed and naturally withdrawn. As such, it is a bit hard for him to be completely invested in someone else.

If your Aquarius man starts to show signs that he sees you and only you, it means he is serious about you. He will want to have both intellectual conversations and fun times with you. When you’re out in the public he doesn’t see any other woman because his eyes are on you all through.

2. He Is, First Of All, Your Best Friend

An Aquarius man in love doesn’t just wake up, see a woman, and fall in love with her. He will, first of all, be her friend and get to know her to the point he can consider her as his best friend.

Most Aquarius men hardly make the mistake of falling for a woman until they make sure she is in love with them too. For love to happen for an Aquarius guy, he has to be his woman’s confidante first. 

If your Aquarius man boldly calls you his best friend, then it’s highly likely that he is serious about you and the relationship. 

3. He Has Your Sole Interest At Heart

Aquarius or not, any man who claims to love you would have only your best interest at heart. You’re on the road to pain and heartache if the man you love doesn’t care about what concerns you.

Luckily for you, you’re in love with an Aquarius and, more often than not, an Aquarius man serious about you will put your interest first before his own. 

An Aquarius is naturally non-committal and so, he wouldn’t joke with someone he has decided he wants to be committed to. Therefore, he’ll focus on your needs and make sure he relates with you with care. 

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4. He Makes You Feel Like You Can Depend On Him

If your relationship with your Aquarius boyfriend started on a casual note, you may develop feelings for him, yet hide them because you’re afraid of getting hurt again.

If your Aquarius man is serious and in love with you as you’re with him, he will build a safe relationship with you that makes you see him as dependable. You won’t be scared to be vulnerable with him and share your deepest thoughts and concerns without the fear of exploitation. 

5. He Wears His Heart On His Sleeves For You

he wears his heart on his sleeves for you

If you’re familiar with the normal traits of an Aquarius guy, you would know that he isn’t one to express mushy and soft feelings. At the beginning of your relationship, an Aquarius boyfriend would show the necessary amount of care but his aloofness would be obvious to an extent too.

When his care for you progresses, he will become warmer and more caring. However, when he is completely in love with you, he won’t find it hard to express his affection in words and deeds. His commitment to you won’t be in words only because he is a doer, not a mere talker

6. He Is A Different Person With You Than He Is With Other People 

If your Aquarius boyfriend is usually composed and laidback around his friends, especially if he keeps sophisticated friends, he will simply become relaxed and goofy when you’re alone with each other. 

His facial expressions would be more open and he won’t act guarded around you because you’re his favorite person in the world. Acting differently from you doesn’t make him a deceptive person or one with a split personality. Instead, it reveals that you bring out his cheerful, and playful sides in place of his aloof and overly serious ones. 

7. He Is Open About His Future Expectations 

To know if an Aquarius guy is seriously considering a future with you, he won’t be sketchy with his plans. When you ask him, he won’t hem and haw about what he wants for both of you in the long-term. 

He is a laser-focused man who knows what he wants. If an Aquarius is acting sketchy with you about your position in his life, he doesn’t see you as a part of his future.

If, on the other hand, your boyfriend is always ready to discuss the way forward about your relationship, he is serious about you. 

8. He Makes Sure You Have A Say In His Affairs And Things That Concern Both Of You

While he is usually in control of his emotions and affairs, an Aquarius man doesn’t feel less manly when he asks his woman for advice or includes her in the decision-making process.

If he sees you as someone he wants to spend the better part of his life with, he will bring you in on every vital decision he has to make. Even though he’s not obsessed about planning, an Aquarius man likes to plan things because he doesn’t like any form of disruption and that's another reason he’ll involve the woman he loves.

9. His Trust In You Is Explicit

As a self-assured man who is confident in his ability to succeed with little or no help, the Aquarius guy doesn’t trust easily. Not that he’s incapable of trusting anyone but, he just doesn’t see any need to.

If an Aquarius man finally falls in love and is planning to settle down with you, he takes the issue of trust to another level. He will believe you and everything you tell him. If anyone tries to say otherwise about you, he won’t believe it because he has chosen to trust you not to betray him. He expects the same thing from you and so, he is broken when you break that trust.

10. He Is Interested In Knowing Your Family And Friends

he interested in knowing your family and friends

Just like his interest in knowing you and making you his sole focus, your Aquarius man will want to know your parents, siblings, and closest friends. He doesn’t ask all his girlfriends to introduce him to their family members, he will only do so if he’s deeply interested in you.

If your Aquarius boyfriend doesn’t ask to meet your siblings or he deflects the invitation to meet your friends, he isn’t as into you as you thought. If he is eager to meet your folks, this Aquarius man is serious about you. 

11. He Takes You To His Family And Introduces You As The ‘Special One’

The fact that your Aquarius boyfriend doesn’t talk about his family all the time doesn’t mean they don’t mean the world to him. Although he doesn’t commit to people easily, he is devoted to his family and he loves them. If he takes you visiting his family and bosom friends, he rates you high in his heart.

If he introduces you as not just his girlfriend but his special one, you can rest assured that you’re exactly that to him and he wants your relationship to go to the next level. 

12. He Makes All Efforts To Know You Better Every Day

An Aquarius man in love with you won’t stop with only basic knowledge of who you are. Instead, he will probe deeper to know what makes you tick, how you think, and what hurts and makes you happy. He will want to know your wild and all your silly imaginations as well as your goals and visions.

Above all, he won’t stop being interested in you because you’re already his girl. He will strive to know you daily because he is aware growth happens every day. 

13. He Is Passionate About Your Self-Development

Any man not ready to stay long in your life will be fascinated with only what you can do for him now, not minding how there can be a possible future for the both of you. 

An Aquarius guy goes all out for any woman he cares about and so, he will see that you don’t remain stagnant in the same position he met you. He might appear a bit pushy in his approach because of his strict personality but, he'll explain his actions. He won’t put much effort into seeing you improve unless he sees you as the woman for him.

14. He Makes You Feel Like You’re A Crucial Part Of His Life

If he doesn’t care much for you, an Aquarius man won’t make you feel any more special than his other friends. The only difference between you and them would be sex, romance, and intimacy.

However, if you’re a serious part of his life, you’ll feel it in the things he says to you and the way he acts towards you.

15. He Wants To Be Around You All The Time

he wants to be around you all the time

An Aquarius man is confident in his skin and doesn’t need to be around people all the time. He is a social being who can retreat whenever he wishes. However, with you, he’s more demanding about the amount of time he spends with you because he can’t bear staying away for a long time.

Don’t take this for a weakness you can exploit, he's this way with you because he loves you and takes his responsibility to you seriously. 

16. He Gets Jealous Of Other People Trying To Monopolize Your Time 

Again, the Aquarius man isn’t normally the jealous type because he doesn’t fall in love easily. However, when he falls, he does so wholeheartedly that he develops intense feelings of attachment to his woman.

If you notice that your Aquarius guy has started acting jealous about the hours your job takes from you or, how many hours you spend with your girlfriends, it doesn’t mean he’s become immature, it means he’s very much in love and serious about you. 

17. He Isn’t Ashamed To Practice PDA With You

It is not every time you will find men expressing public displays of affection. For the Aquarius man, it is even harder but, if he’s in love, his guard will be down with you and he’ll be free to practice PDA without any self-consciousness. 

You must have noticed at the beginning of your relationship that he would only hold hands in the confines of your homes or when you’re in a private place in the restaurant. However, he’s now holding hands and kissing you in public, that’s a good sign he is proud to be with you.

18. He Tells You He Loves You

An Aquarius is a man of his words and he won’t throw the ‘I love you’ words at you unless he means them. It might take a long time before he says the words but, when he does so without any pressure from you, you better believe he wants and adores you for real.

19. He Proposed To You

It is a huge deal if your Aquarius man proposes to you. Proposing to you is the ultimate sign of his commitment to you and he's saying ‘I want to be with you forever regardless of our differences’. All the other signs this Aquarius man had been showing you was leading to this moment.


How does Aquarius act when they like someone?

An Aquarius doesn’t jump in headfirst when they like someone. They try to befriend the person first to test if a relationship with such a person will be to their benefit or if it won’t be worth it. 

How do you know if an Aquarius cares about you?

An Aquarius cares about you when they give you more attention than they do to other people. Another sign is that they will make your plans theirs just to see you excel.

How do you make an Aquarius man miss you?

You can’t make an Aquarius man miss you if you don’t mean anything to him. You must have built trust in him to the extent that you’re the one person he wants to talk to all the time.

How do you make an Aquarius man miss you like crazy?

Aquarius men don’t go crazy about people often but, if an Aquarius is in love with you, he will become so sensitive about his feelings for you that he wants to see you every day. All you need to do to make an Aquarius miss you like crazy is to make him love you.

Where does Aquarius like to be touched?

Like every other man, Aquarius men have different quirks and body parts that stimulate them to frenzy. You can either ask your Aquarius partner how he likes to be touched or discover those places with time.

In Conclusion

Knowing the signs an Aquarius man is serious about you is like knowing when any other man adores you but, the knowledge of each man’s peculiarities makes figuring things out easier. 

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Michelle Devani
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