How To Make A Scorpio Man Stop Playing Games With You

by Michelle Devani

When a Scorpio man is in love, you can bet your bottom dollar that it is going to be intense. However, a Scorpio man has some characteristics that emerge to the surface when he falls in love. He will somehow appear calm and confident.

And that is what makes him attractive. You will also be attracted to his mysterious aura like a giant magnet. But, before pursuing a relationship with him, there is something you need to be aware of.

A Scorpio man can test his partner a lot, like hiding stuffs and playing games; mostly the latter. Checkers, Candy Crush, Spades, and even mind games; he just likes playing any games both literally and hypothetically. Fret not; we have rounded a list of instructions of how to get a Scorpio man to stop playing games. Check it out!

(Also read: How to Make A Pisces Woman Fall in Love with A Scorpio Man)

1. Ghost Texting

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If at some point he suddenly drops off the face of the Earth and you have not heard back from him in a week or even months, do not panic. You will never know for sure what is up with him. It could be that he is seeing other girls or that he is just not into you.

But, whatever it is, that is not your concern. If he still has not returned your texts after a long wait though, you may as well stop dwelling on him and get a move on. A man who constantly leaves you on read just is not worth it. After all, you want a man who will last long and not just disappear periodically.

2. Roller Coaster

A Scorpio man is known for being romantic, so expect him to hold your hand and give you a kiss on the forehead at one night. But, he is also known for being moody, so expect him to be weird and distant the next day, too. What is with the mood swings exactly?

Well, it seems like he is unsure of his feelings towards you or he is just overwhelmed by some other things. But, one thing is certain; you will not know what happens for sure until you talk to him in person. Gently ask him what is up with his roller coaster behavior. Wait until he is willing to open up and have a heart-to-heart talk with you.

3. Pull and Push

If he totally shuts down every time you bring up the common notion of a relationship, then he is playing the pull and push game with you. The worst thing you can do is to put some pressure on him.

It is really important to find out the reason why he is averse to the idea of committing into relationship. It is likely that he is flat-out horrified of commitment or has been hurt in the past relationship.

Threatening him with some kind of ultimatum is not something we would suggest. Instead, give him enough time to see how wonderful you are. However, you have to keep your options open, give him competition as an alternative in case he may never open up to the idea of commitment so that you will not end up heartbroken.

4. Secret Girlfriend

Is he the sweetest guy ever only when it is just the two of you? Are you getting the sense that he is trying to hide you from his friends? Well, it may be a problem.

He is playing the secret girlfriend game with you. If you have been dating for quite a while, then it is an obvious red flag when a man never wants you to meet his friends.

Because if he thinks you are an important part of his life, he will want you to meet his friends so that he can show you off. Next time he mentions his friends to you, ask to meet them.

Tell him you want to come along to a party or gathering he and his friends are going to. If he says yes, then great! Otherwise, just let him go. You are fabulous, and your man should want to bring you around.

5. Super Flirty

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Flirting with other men while you are around him is exceptionally rude, but there is the possibility that he does not even deem it as flirting. All you need to do is confront him about his rude behavior.

Let him know that it is wrong to flirt right in front of you. Make sure you use the word “flirt” so that he knows how you deem it.

So, that is how to get a Scorpio man to stop playing games. We hope you find this article helpful.

Michelle Devani
My name is Michelle Devani, and I've been helping people with their relationships since 2003. In 2017 I decided it was about time I started a blog on the topic, and since then more than 2 million people worldwide have read my relationship advice. Drop me a comment below to let me know what you think.