27 Hurtful Signs A Scorpio Man Is Not Interested Anymore

by Michelle Devani

Are you worried that a Scorpio man is not interested in you as he used to be?

Do you fear that your relationship with him is coming to a close?

This is the guide for you, if so.

It features 27 signs that a Scorpio man has lost interest in you. More importantly, it features proven formulas for winning him back. 

Before we explore this advice though, it’s important for you to read the following sentences with great care.

The key to saving a relationship with a disinterested man is to figure out why he’s not interested any more. 

Has he met someone else? Is he overwhelmed with work? Is something else stressing him out?

Discovering this will make it a lot easier to reconnect with him. 

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Read on for the clearest signs that he has lost interest in you.

What Is A Scorpio Man Like?

Are you head over heels in love with a Scorpio male? Boy, it’s tough not to be crazy over these loyal, passionate creatures. They help us see the world in a whole new light with their curious nature. 

So what happens when a Scorpio male acts weird and seems confusing? Is it possible he has lost interest in what used to be his favorite subject - you?

Today, we will look at the top signs a Scorpio man is not interested in. That way, you will know exactly what to look for in your Scorpio man. Do you think he has found someone else? 

If a Scorpio man has lost interest, he usually will let you know; if not through words, his actions will explain it all. It may be time to move on if your Scorpio man is no longer interested. 

But, let’s not rush to judgment. There’s always a chance that something else is going on in his life that is causing him to act in a strange and unusual way. We’ll explore the entire topic today! Let’s dive into the subject now! Are you ready?

what is a scorpio man like

Scorpio men are very passionate, persistent creatures. They are extremely nosy; they want to know everything about the person they are interested in - even the things that don’t matter. For example, your man might ask you why you had eggs for breakfast as if there is some great story behind the mystery of why you had eggs instead of toast for breakfast!

They love information and knowledge; they are just curious people. Scorpio men want to know all about you; they can be super intense about it, too. What’s funny is they are not the same way. Scorpio men don’t mind keeping their mystery a secret. Because of their piqued curiosity, it is odd for a Scorpio man to go quiet all of a sudden. Why is he ignoring you, or being quiet?

We’ll get into that, but let’s continue talking about the allure of the Scorpio man. He is a confident person, someone witty and charming with the intellect to support his personality. A Scorpio man is also quite focused and strategic with everything he does. He pretty much doesn’t let one thing get by him without an explanation. A Scorpio guy always has a reason.

What A Scorpio Man Likes In A Woman

Because a Scorpio man enjoys learning all about the person he is interested in, he wants a woman who can tell great stories and entertain him for hours. If you are wondering if your man fits the profile, look at some of the signs in the last section. If you see one or more signs mentioned, I bet he is a classic Scorpio. He probably loves learning new things!

The Scorpio man especially loves learning about the woman he’s keen on. He may show off his wit and charm as he attempts to woo her. He’s pretty sure of himself, so if he isn’t interested anymore, you will see the signs that he is no longer interested in you and is perhaps interested in someone else now. If you are in a serious relationship, it stings; I know!

Before jumping the gun and saying your Scorpio man is not interested in you, let’s look at the signs that prove it. He may not want to spend as much time together, but it may not mean the man is not interested; he could have just gotten very busy with work. There’s always a possible explanation for his behavior, so let’s look at the signs with an open mind.

Top Signs A Scorpio Man Is Not Interested

1. He shows interest in other women

If your Scorpio man is talking about other women to you, he clearly doesn’t respect you the way a boyfriend should. Don’t let him disrespect you, though. Explain that you find this topic to be unwelcome and would appreciate it if he would focus on you rather than on other women. 

Hopefully, he gets the hint. If not, you may want to start shopping for a new boyfriend!

2. He’s no longer excited to be around you

Scorpio men are full of passion and romance; they are excited to be around because they are always ecstatic to see the girl of their dreams, which is ideally you! If he treats you more like an errand than a wonderful surprise, you may want to reassess the status of your relationship; you don’t deserve to be treated that way.

3. He hints that things aren’t working out

If he has brought this up more than one time, it’s not really a hint. He probably is just not interested any longer. It is probably best if the two of you part ways to find someone more suited for the both of you. 

4. He doesn’t listen to what you have to say

Scorpio men love to listen because they are incredibly curious people. If you have found a Scorpio man who finds anything other than you interesting, then he is probably no longer into you. Make sure you give him back his stuff when you end things. 

There is no hard and fast rule that says you have to break up, but it’s headed in that direction, in my opinion.

5. He gives you the silent treatment

he gives you the silent treatment

The silent treatment is not the norm for a Scorpio. He may have other things on his mind or something, which is fine. We all get busy from time to time, but if he can’t pay attention when you are around each other, there may be more to it than he’s letting on. Why would he not want to listen to the fascinating facts you have to talk about?

6. He becomes a pessimist around you

Scorpios are naturally optimistic creatures. They enjoy finding the positives in life. Do you feel like less of a priority to him? Is he mean or rude to you when he’s hanging out? That is uncharacteristic of a Scorpio. 

You may be looking at a breakup situation in the making; find out the facts by asking him what’s going on. You’ll feel better by being honest.

7. He’s rude and sarcastic with you

Again, Scorpios are not naturally rude, sarcastic creatures. They are positive, optimistic, happy people. They are sure of who they are and love shining their heroic lights on the ones who they love. If he’s changed his tune, there may be more to it than you know. Find out the truth by being open and honest about your concerns.

8. He’s stopped hanging out with you

An absentee boyfriend is unacceptable. Is he hurt or missing? If something happened to him, that’s a serious situation that you need to get to the bottom of, but if you can track his phone or see him posting on social media, his absence should not make your heart grow fonder; it should actually be doing the opposite - growing the two of you apart!

9. He’s not trying to get to know you better

Since Scorpios love learning new stuff, even if it’s from the person they always talk to, it is odd behavior for a Scorpio to quit asking you questions about yourself. He may be going through something private. If that’s the case, it’s okay, provided he snaps out of it or shares what’s really going on - eventually. Give it time if you think this is the situation.

10. He flirts right in front of you

This behavior is unacceptable and rude, no matter what your zodiac sign is. Is your boyfriend flirting with other girls in front of you? Why do you think he’s doing this? Ask him those questions and get to the bottom of the issue. You definitely do not deserve to be treated like this, so tell him to respect you or get out of your life.

As harsh as that sounds, it may be the right course of action for your situation. I would give him a chance to explain himself and to voice my disapproval. Then, if it happened again, I’d tell him it has serious consequences (depending on how serious your relationship is). Couples counseling may be the best option here.

11. He’s mean to you, always picking fights for no reason

Is your boyfriend or husband going through something you are not aware of? Give him a chance to explain why he’s behaving like this. If it continues, don’t beg to stay in a bad relationship; move on!

12. He seems to hurt your feelings on purpose

he seems to hurt your feelings on purpose

Often, we do hurt each other but not on purpose. We have stress or problems and nail whoever is in our pathway. However, if he is purposefully hurting you, realize that you do not deserve to be treated that way. Either find someone who will do right by you, or make some boundaries clear with your man, so he knows what’s acceptable.

13. He rarely talks to you anymore

Scorpios are talkative people because they want to know the reason for everything. They have a reason for every action they take, so when you do something they do not understand, they feel the need to get to the bottom of it. If he’s stopped talking, something in your relationship has changed, and you need to know what.

14. He tells you he is unhappy in the relationship

Once this shoe has dropped, it’s time to take active measures. For example, you may want to try couples counseling or therapy to get to the bottom of his unhappiness. A trained therapist can help you figure out what happened and give you tools and exercises to try at home to work through your problems.

15. He treats you like a chore or duty

You never want to feel this way with anyone; don’t let anyone make you feel as though you are not a worthy person to be spending time with. If you feel as though you are a chore that he is forced to take care of, have a heart-to-heart talk about the situation. You don’t want to be in a relationship where one party feels trapped.

16. He always has an excuse for everything

A positive, viable excuse is one thing, but having an unlikely excuse for being late for dinner, missing out on your birthday party, or forgetting to call to let you know he’s not going to be making it over for some reason - all of that is not acceptable. Don’t listen to excuses; watch what he does, not what he says he will do.

17. He’s stopped showing interest in your life

Since a Scorpio man is always excited to get to know the girl they are crazy about, silence is unusual. Why did he quit asking you questions to learn more about you? Why hasn’t he asked about your day in weeks? Why would he rather watch television each day than talk to you about anything and everything? Go ahead and ask him!

18. He does not pay you compliments anymore

Since Scorpios are very sure of themselves and confident in their choices, they are proud of the stuff they own and the people they have chosen to spend their life with. That means he is happy that you are in his life. So, if he isn’t telling you that anymore, something is up. Make sure you find out why he doesn’t seem glad about you now.

19. He has stopped wanting physical intimacy

Scorpios love sex and passion. He may be going through a stressful period with work, or maybe his health isn’t 100%. Has he mentioned either of these possible excuses to you? If not, you really should talk to him about the lack of sex in your love life. You need to make certain he isn’t getting it from someone else!

20. He is rude to you in front of other people

Another unacceptable behavior you should not put up with, being rude in public is humiliating. You don’t have to talk about this in public unless he continues to embarrass you in the same social outing, but when you get home, explain why you are upset if he hasn’t already figured it out. He needs to know he’s crossed a line.

21. He has closed body language when you are together

Closed body language is characterized by folded arms, crossed legs (facing away from you), and not being able to look you in the eyes - to name a few. Watch closely for these signals that there is something going on in your relationship that isn’t for the best.

22. He’s slow in responding to your texts or social media messages

he's slow in responding to your texts or social media messages

Your Scorpio man may just be busy right now, but if he has made it a new habit to ignore you or take his time in responding, something strange is going on. He may be with a person he doesn’t want you to know about and is being rude to you by giving them attention while ignoring you (who should be more important to him).

23. He’s stopped being affectionate

Since Scorpios love sex and touching, stopping affection altogether is a bit odd. I would discuss this with him if it’s been going on for a while to find out why it’s happening.

24. He’s giving you the cold shoulder

Does he seem emotionally distant? Ask him why he is upset with you. If he acts like nothing is wrong, you may have a serious problem, especially if it continues to happen.

25. He says hurtful things to you

Is he being cruel on purpose? He may be in a situation at work where he is getting the bad end of the stick. If it’s a work or other issue, get to the bottom of it. Then, explain to him that he’s taking his stress out on you. 

26. He has stopped asking you out

If you know from friends or social media that he is fine and going out with other people, it’s time to call it quits. You don’t deserve to be dropped like this. Dump him first!

27. He has dropped off the radar altogether

Ignoring you is just never acceptable. Find out what’s going on and why you are being ignored. 

What To Do If Your Scorpio Man Is Not Interested Anymore

If you have determined that your Scorpio man is not interested in you anymore, it may be time for you to take action and end the relationship. If he is keeping himself distant from you already, he may have already moved on and considered the relationship over. If you haven’t seen him in a few days, it may be easier than you think to get him out of your life. 

If you were head over heels in love with your Scorpio man, it will hurt for some time. Just try to face it head-on but don’t let it shake you too much. You can take a few days to realize that this man is not interested in you any longer and that the relationship is over. Sometimes, we need a little time to come to terms with our new reality with someone, but you will get through this.

In the meantime, treat yourself to a wonderful spa day, and enjoy spending time with your best friends. 

FAQs

How do Scorpios act when they like someone?

Scorpio men are passionate and curious creatures who want to know everything about the woman they are dating. If you have a Scorpio man wrapped around your little finger, he will want to spend time with you and may fall in love quickly.

How do Scorpios feel when ignored?

Scorpio men feel empty and lost when they cannot spend time with the person they really like. They enjoy quality time with the one they are interested in; a Scorpio guy who is ignored may find someone else to pique his curiosity because he needs the mystery in his life.

How do you let a Scorpio man know you're interested?

Make sure you talk to him a lot. He may not spend as much time talking to you, but he’s a great listener and will enjoy living in the moment as you tell interesting stories. As you talk, make sure you ask him questions to get him to open up. 

How do you know if a Scorpio man misses you?

A Scorpio will send you love letters, call you while you are away from each other, and tell you how excited he is to see you the next time you have available. If a Scorpio guy really misses you, he’ll find a way to spend time with you.

Do Scorpios like to kiss?

Scorpio men love to kiss and make love; they are intense creatures who enjoy sex a lot. They look for women who are interested in the same things. If you are trying to win the heart of a Scorpio man, fall for his charming and loving nature.

To Sum Things Up…

Is your Scorpio guy giving you the cold shoulder? Do you think he isn’t interested anymore? Has he possibly found someone new? You really should have a heart-to-heart talk with him! 

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Michelle Devani
My name is Michelle Devani, and I've been helping people with their relationships since 2003. In 2017 I decided it was about time I started a blog on the topic, and since then more than 2 million people worldwide have read my relationship advice. Drop me a comment below to let me know what you think.

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