Falling in love is beautiful, but everything will lost its meaning once you know that she doesn't reciprocate you feelings. Before feeling all flowery in love, you have to make sure whether she loves you back or not. Reading the signs she is not interested in you is important.
Woman is not only speaking verbally, but they use body language and sending indication as well. Bluntly telling a man that she is not interested will be rude, so she is using many signs instead. A man should also be tactful enough to be able to read all the signs, so you won't get a false alarm.
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Unfortunately, not all men have and experience of one sided love so they have a hard a time to be aware of the signs. Here come some help for you. Women are not that hard to read, as they surely send the "not interested" signal all along. Read down the list carefully, you probably find in them in your crush. Umm, hope not.
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This is the first signs she is not interested in you anymore. If you know about the signs she is into you, woman will make a chance to brush her arm lightly with yours. That kind of small body contact is wanted by her. On the contrary when she is not interested, she will avoid touching your body as much as possible.
Still referring to the body contact. There would be time where she can't avoid you directly, let's said that it's been too late. Even though in a cornered situation like that, she will always find a narrow escape. She suddenly feeling unwell and excuse herself to the bathroom is one of the example. And this happen every time you try to touch her.
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You are going to a gathering with her friends. It's a defining moment, since she will introduce you to her social circle. You also see this as a golden opportunity to get close with her friends. But it's all over when she introduce you as her "friend", and keep makes it clear. A casual friend, without hinting that she is involved in some kind of romantic feeling with him. Come on, we all know the difference.
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When a woman is not interested, she will never mind about your feeling. Whether you are happy or not, you like it or not, it all doesn't matter to her. She is the main focus of the relationship. Her decision is the rule, and you don't have the right to speak up your mind. She may not that bad, she is just trying to make you lost your feeling and eventually walk away from her.
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Who on earth doesn't want to spend the weekend with the woman he love? A simple date in order to know each other will do. However, her schedule never seem to be free. Say it during weekdays or weekend, she always has some event to attend. She couldn't make time to be spent alone with you. She is never free like, ever.
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So after trying so hard to get her attention, you end up feeling lonely and unwanted. She is just casually leave you without looking back. Not to mention the worst, she didn't notice all of this. She doesn't care whether you heart is hurt or not. At this point, you have to turn around and walk away. You are too precious for her.
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Maybe she is too kind to told you directly, so she find another way to make you understand that she is not interested. One day she told you about this friend of hers, having all the good quality and a true girlfriend material. She said that her friend want to know you better, thus she already reserve this weekend for a date! See how she doesn't mind about other girl liking you.
You want a date, but she always got her friends tagged a long with. All the time. She get bored easily when she is alone with you, so she is telling you that double date is so much fun. It's not she doesn't get your intention. She is making excuses.
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So you are in a company dinner with the whole staffs present. You always seek an opportunity to get close to her. You take the seat next to her, hoping you would have plenty of time talk to her. However, she seems to be more interested with her other friends. She make herself busy so that she doesn't have time to talk to you.
Her phone is much more interesting than you. She has it all the time with her, engage herself in an endless conversation with someone far away. You ended up being left alone, while she seems to be having so much fun with her phone.
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This is important. A woman will give attention only to the man she is interested in, and will not giving much to the one she is not. If the way she talk to the other guy is friendlier that she did to you, her attention may be driven into the other way. But it definitely not to you.
Next signs she is not interested in you is she always compare you with someone else. She is not shy to tell you how some other guy is better than you in some things. His job, his clothes, his good looks, and any other accomplishments. She never appreciate you for the way you are, and indirectly wishing that you will be more like the other guy.
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As if comparing you with other people is not enough, she even blatantly give him a compliments! She highlighted how good he is and wishing that she would get a boyfriend just like him. Its a red light, man. Walk away right now.
You want to test the water by making him jealous. By a simple way. Just like she did, you talk to the other woman in front of you. You want to see her reactions and whether she will bring it up and show her jealousy on your next meeting. But it turns out she act like nothing happen, and that it doesn't mean a thing for her. She simply doesn't care.
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No relationship is going smooth without disagreement. But she always emphasizing the smallest problem and turns it into an endless fight. You never reach any resolutions and the future of your relationship becomes blurry.
Throwing a silly joke about our partner is okay, as long as it is a real joke. But if she make a joke about you with many embarrassing details other shouldn't find out about, she doesn't care about ruining your images. She's cruel.
Do you feel like he kind of takes you for granted?
Unfortunately this is one of the most frequent complaints we get from our readers, where they feel they aren't a priority for their boyfriend or husband. They always seem to have some excuse as to why they can't spend some quality time with you like they used to.
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As if those are not enough, here are some other signs she is not interested in you:
Have you read the signs carefully? Did you find them in your crush? You found those signs she is not interested in you on her? If you did not, it's safe for you to going forward. But if you can relate to the every single item with you current situation. Stop right there, and do not going further before you hurt yourself more and things turn out really bad.
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