Signs She Is Not Interested In You Anymore #1 Heartbreak

by Michelle Devani

Falling in love is beautiful, but everything will lost its meaning once you know that she doesn't reciprocate you feelings. Before feeling all flowery in love, you have to make sure whether she loves you back or not. Reading the signs she is not interested in you is important.

Woman is not only speaking verbally, but they use body language and sending indication as well. Bluntly telling a man that she is not interested will be rude, so she is using many signs instead. A man should also be tactful enough to be able to read all the signs, so you won't get a false alarm.

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Unfortunately, not all men have and experience of one sided love so they have a hard a time to be aware of the signs. Here come some help for you. Women are not that hard to read, as they surely send the "not interested" signal all along. Read down the list carefully, you probably find in them in your crush. Umm, hope not.

1. She Doesn't Like Your Touch

This is the first signs she is not interested in you anymore. If you know about the signs she is into you, woman will make a chance to brush her arm lightly with yours. That kind of small body contact is wanted by her. On the contrary when she is not interested, she will avoid touching your body as much as possible.

2. She Always Has A Reason To Reject It

Still referring to the body contact. There would be time where she can't avoid you directly, let's said that it's been too late. Even though in a cornered situation like that, she will always find a narrow escape. She suddenly feeling unwell and excuse herself to the bathroom is one of the example. And this happen every time you try to touch her.

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3. She Refers You On As Her "Friend"

You are going to a gathering with her friends. It's a defining moment, since she will introduce you to her social circle. You also see this as a golden opportunity to get close with her friends. But it's all over when she introduce you as her "friend", and keep makes it clear. A casual friend, without hinting that she is involved in some kind of romantic feeling with him. Come on, we all know the difference.

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4. She Is Ruling The Relationship

she is ruling the relationship

When a woman is not interested, she will never mind about your feeling. Whether you are happy or not, you like it or not, it all doesn't matter to her. She is the main focus of the relationship. Her decision is the rule, and you don't have the right to speak up your mind. She may not that bad, she is just trying to make you lost your feeling and eventually walk away from her.

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5. She Is Just too Busy

Who on earth doesn't want to spend the weekend with the woman he love? A simple date in order to know each other will do. However, her schedule never seem to be free. Say it during weekdays or weekend, she always has some event to attend. She couldn't make time to be spent alone with you. She is never free like, ever.

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6. She Never Notice Your Feeling

So after trying so hard to get her attention, you end up feeling lonely and unwanted. She is just casually leave you without looking back. Not to mention the worst, she didn't notice all of this. She doesn't care whether you heart is hurt or not. At this point, you have to turn around and walk away. You are too precious for her.

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7. She Sets You In A Blind Date With Her Friend

Maybe she is too kind to told you directly, so she find another way to make you understand that she is not interested. One day she told you about this friend of hers, having all the good quality and a true girlfriend material. She said that her friend want to know you better, thus she already reserve this weekend for a date! See how she doesn't mind about other girl liking you.

8. She Prefers Hanging Out In Group 

You want a date, but she always got her friends tagged a long with. All the time. She get bored easily when she is alone with you, so she is telling you that double date is so much fun. It's not she doesn't get your intention. She is making excuses.

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9. She Avoids You In A Group Gathering

So you are in a company dinner with the whole staffs present. You always seek an opportunity to get close to her. You take the seat next to her, hoping you would have plenty of time talk to her. However, she seems to be more interested with her other friends. She make herself busy so that she doesn't have time to talk to you.

10. She Never Put Her Phone Down When She Is With You

she never put her phone down when she is with you

Her phone is much more interesting than you. She has it all the time with her, engage herself in an endless conversation with someone far away. You ended up being left alone, while she seems to be having so much fun with her phone.

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11. She Speaks In A Friendly Way With Other Guys

This is important. A woman will give attention only to the man she is interested in, and will not giving much to the one she is not. If the way she talk to the other guy is friendlier that she did to you, her attention may be driven into the other way. But it definitely not to you.

12. She Constantly Compare You With Someone Else

Next signs she is not interested in you is she always compare you with someone else. She is not shy to tell you how some other guy is better than you in some things. His job, his clothes, his good looks, and any other accomplishments. She never appreciate you for the way you are, and indirectly wishing that you will be more like the other guy.

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13. She Openly Compliments The Other Guy

As if comparing you with other people is not enough, she even blatantly give him a compliments! She highlighted how good he is and wishing that she would get a boyfriend just like him. Its a red light, man. Walk away right now.

14. She Never Get Jealous

You want to test the water by making him jealous. By a simple way. Just like she did, you talk to the other woman in front of you. You want to see her reactions and whether she will bring it up and show her jealousy on your next meeting. But it turns out she act like nothing happen, and that it doesn't mean a thing for her. She simply doesn't care.

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15. She Turns Small Problems Into Something Big

No relationship is going smooth without disagreement. But she always emphasizing the smallest problem and turns it into an endless fight. You never reach any resolutions and the future of your relationship becomes blurry.

16. She Embarrassed You With Her Jokes

Throwing a silly joke about our partner is okay, as long as it is a real joke. But if she make a joke about you with many embarrassing details  other shouldn't find out about, she doesn't care about ruining your images. She's cruel.

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Other Signs That Shows She Is Not Interested In You

other signs that shows she is not interested in you

As if those are not enough, here are some other signs she is not interested in you:

  1. She reject your offer to take her home.
  2. She said you are like a brother to her.
  3. She prefers to split the bill whenever you hang out together.
  4. She doesn't mind about her appearance when she meets you.
  5. She answer your text with short, cutting answer.
  6. She doesn't care when you disappear in the middle of the date.
  7. She doesn't has any future plans with you.
  8. She acts like a single lady, even by her post on Instagram.
  9. You never make it into her priority.
  10. She never give you compliments.
  11. She never texts or calls you first.
  12. She never asks questions. You are the one who do it all the time.
  13. It took her ages to reply to texts.
  14. She change her phone number and doesn't bother to give you notice.
  15. She said that she likes other guy.
  16. She looks indecisive when you ask her for a date.
  17. She ignores you in every situation.
  18. She told you she is busy on weekends, but share an Instagram Story of her movie date with her friends.
  19. She doesn't show up at a lunch you have agreed before.
  20. Your intuition tells you so.

Have you read the signs carefully? Did you find them in your crush? You found those signs she is not interested in you on her? If you did not, it's safe for you to going forward. But if you can relate to the every single item with you current situation. Stop right there, and do not going further before you hurt yourself more and things turn out really bad.

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Michelle Devani
My name is Michelle Devani, and I've been helping people with their relationships since 2003. In 2017 I decided it was about time I started a blog on the topic, and since then more than 2 million people worldwide have read my relationship advice. Drop me a comment below to let me know what you think.