Are you heartbroken over a recent break-up?
Are you desperate to reconnect with your ex?
Are you looking for some clever tricks to relive your love with him once again.
If so, you’re in luck because this article contains 35 simple and sweet things to say to your ex- boyfriend to get him back.
First though, before you explore this list, it’s very important for you to read the next sentences carefully.
Your chances of rekindling a connection with your ex heavily depends on whether he’s moved on.
And there is no real way of knowing whether he has or not.
At least there never used to be…
However, recently I discovered a powerful online tool that has changed all that.
It’s a powerful yet discreet online communications tracker tool.
This clever online service will help you discover who your ex-boyfriend has been messaging and calling.
You’ll also see whether he’s downloaded any dating apps, whether he has new contact details, what online services he’s been using...and more.
It’s completely discreet; he won’t find out you’re tracking him.
And more often than not, this tool will create a clear picture as far as whether he’s moved on or not.
If he hasn’t, that presents you a great opportunity to swoop in and win him back.
Read on for our list of things to say to win back your ex’s heart.
Are you looking to get back with your ex-boyfriend? Unsure what to say to get him back?
If you want to get him back and make him want you all over again, you are going to have to do more than just bake him a batch of cookies. You’ll also want to right the wrongs that you can; most likely, he won’t want to come back if you have not changed but needed to.
The key to getting an ex-boyfriend back is not only in the actions you take, but it’s also all about the things you say. What interests one man may not interest another, though. You may have to get a little creative as you think of the right things to say to your ex-boyfriend to get his attention.
Today, we will look at the top sweet things to say to your ex-boyfriend to get him back. Plus, we’ll look into whether it’s even a good idea to contact an ex-boyfriend once the two of you are broken up, and when the best time to contact your ex is. We’ll cover the top tips when trying to get your ex back, too.
This saying gives you a chance to explain what he means to you. It’s a nice way of saying that you are happy that you had the opportunity to be with him when you did. Plus, you are letting him know that you still think the world of him.
This is an adorable thing to say; you are letting him know that you not only miss him, but you also think about him so much that you are having trouble thinking about anything else.
If this is true, it’s a very nice way to let him know that you are interested in being more than friends, because you have never been as happy as you were when the two of you were together.
I love this one; it says that you made a mistake by ending everything you had.
Do you feel like he kind of takes you for granted?
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What a special thing to say to your ex! You are letting him know that even though things are over, you still feel lucky for getting the time you had with him.
Aw! What an adorable saying! You are letting him know that he still means the world to you, and you will forever have a connection together, regardless of what the future holds.
This gives him an opportunity to ask you what memories meant the most to you. Plus, you will be on his mind after this message. He’ll probably even start to think of fond memories that HE had when you were together.
Have you ever actually experienced this? I know I have! It sucks waking up and realizing it was all a dream. Have a little faith that he might want you back after a message like this.
This is a very sweet thing to say to your ex to let him know that he is someone special to you.
I think it’s a smart move to ask your ex an open-ended question like this. It will encourage him to respond, and you can gauge his viewpoint on the relationship’s current status.
If you have gone through some therapy and realized where you went wrong, this is the perfect thing to say to your ex. Just be prepared in case he takes you up on this offer. You may want to write down what you’d say to his response to this saying.
In this one, you are letting him know that not only do you think he’s the best, but you also cannot find anyone who is even close to how great he is. The compliment doesn’t hurt either!
This is a great opening for him to respond in a positive manner. He may be touched by this saying because you are speaking from the heart.
Letting him know how you feel about him is smart and may give him the chance to say the same about you!
This is another very sweet thing that you could say! He’ll hear this and start to think of the good times the two of you shared together.
What a perfect opportunity to gauge how he still feels about you! Just don’t lose hope if he doesn’t respond or says that he’s taken (or another reason why he thinks you can’t be together again). There is plenty of fish in the sea (and even more in the ocean), and you will find someone else.
Whether your ex is interested in restoring your relationship, or not, this is a good thing to say. You want to be sincere in your apology, letting him know exactly what you believe you did wrong. If nothing else comes of it, at least you have experienced some kind of closure.
Maybe you are an excellent listener; you can fill in those words with whatever you struggled with when you were together. This shows you have recognized your problems and have now changed.
What a sweet thing to tell your ex to let him know he is still on your mind!
If you feel like this, you should tell him; he will be flattered, even if nothing comes of it.
The word “almost” is crucial here because your story didn’t have a happy ending, but it does show he’s on your mind!
This is a similar saying to the last point. Give him a chance to know how you are feeling right now.
How sweet and romantic! Tell him how he has made you feel deep inside.
This is a great opener for him to explain what he thinks and feels.
If the end of your relationship was your choice, you are letting him know that you are still interested in working everything out.
This is a very special saying that shows you are appreciative of everything about him.
Be honest; if you think things could turn out differently this time around, just say so.
Let him know that he is still on your mind from time to time.
Don’t be too forward, but if you feel like this, go ahead and tell him. What’s the worst that could happen? He may block you or ignore your message, but at least you gave it a shot.
Explaining your feelings as raw as they are, shows you can be vulnerable.
Everyone loves compliments! Why not say something like this to him?
Again, I love open-ended questions; most people cannot resist answering them even if it’s hard to do so.
Show complete love and support with this saying.
While this may not be true, it sure is something romantic to say to him.
Being honest about your feelings is a positive thing. You are showing you do want to be together again.
Okay, this is a little cheesy, but being in love just brings out the cheesy side of us!
Help him reminisce about the good times you shared and remind him of how great he used to think you were.
How did things end between you and your ex-boyfriend? Did you agree to take a break and try to get back together with one another? Why did you and your ex end things? Did he physically or emotionally cheat on you? Reasons like that may be unforgivable. If you cannot let something go, you may not want to contact him at all; you may be better off finding a new boyfriend.
On the other hand, if you broke up because you felt like the relationship was just getting boring, or you found a better way to occupy your time, there is hope that he may come running back to you. If you want to get your ex-boyfriend back, the smartest move is to figure out why the relationship ended how it did. Get to the bottom of that, and you may be able to repair things.
As you think about getting back with your ex-boyfriend, ponder over what went wrong in the relationship, and if you aren’t sure, one way to find out the answer is to ask your ex. He may be able to clarify why the relationship ended the way it did. I would suggest starting to talk via text messages. That way, the two of you can sort out the truth and consider getting back together.
It’s always a smart idea to wait to talk to your ex until you have done some serious self-help. There are probably some things that didn’t go as planned in the relationship, meaning it usually takes two people to cause a breakup. So, what part did you play in your breakup? The first step is identifying why things went wrong. Make sure you think about your part in everything.
After you have discovered why things went bad, it’s time for some self-discovery. In what ways did you contribute to the end of the relationship? Were you too clingy, needy, manipulative, or too argumentative? Whatever the reason, make sure you own up to your part. Try to figure out how you can change your negative traits that led to the demise of the relationship.
Even if you and your ex don’t restore things the way you hoped, you will be improving yourself for the next guy that comes along. Wouldn’t that be nice - to be healthy for the next person who comes into your life? You can get to the root of your problems and begin finding ways to improve yourself with the help of a trained psychology or therapist. They know their stuff!
According to Psychology Today, you should wait to try to get your ex-boyfriend back in your life only after you’ve done some therapy so that you can figure out your part at the end of the relationship. A trained therapist can be a great buffer in your relationship, helping you come up with new ways to communicate in your relationship and build trust once again.
If you decide to go to therapy, you can learn a lot about yourself and what you should say to your ex. It may be that you need to apologize for something you did wrong in the relationship. Getting back with him may take more work on your part than you realize. Consider seeing a trained therapist to sort through your issues, feelings, and disappointments.
Therapists are great at helping people get back to the root of their problems and resolve them in the smartest way. What would be most beneficial, is if the two of you went together to counseling. You could always go by yourself at first; then, go back to the trained professional together when your partner’s ready to join. He may learn just as much as you at your sessions.
The most important aspect of communicating with your ex is your sweet attitude. Don’t bring up past issues that have already been resolved. Say things that will want to make him get back with you. You don’t want to be nagging or use sarcasm too much. Have an optimistic attitude, look toward the future, and don’t bring up the past unless it’s an imperative part of your past.
When you send your old partner text messages, make sure to do it when you are in a good mood. You don’t need to talk to him at all when you are stressed, being obsessive over your past relationship, or feeling anxious because you can’t get your ex-boyfriend to respond in the way you wish. Rekindling your fire may take more time than you wish, but stay positive.
Sometimes, just giving him space and time he needs is the best option, especially if your breakup was recent. He may start to wonder what you are up to and why you aren’t trying to win him over again. Be a little mysterious, and when you give him space, do so in a respectful manner. For example, don’t hang up the phone in the middle of a conversation.
When deciding on sweet things to say to your ex-boyfriend to get him back, you should always consider what you would want to hear from your ex if the roles were reversed. Put yourself in his shoes and think about what you want to hear. Then, say those things.
One way to get your ex-boyfriend’s attention is to happily move on with your life; find a new boyfriend who will spoil you with attention. Another way to get his attention is to look extremely hot when you see him; he’ll come running back when he sees your beauty!
He will do things to get your attention; he may even ask you to get back in his life, send you text messages day and night, or even ask you out on one or more dates. He may ask you what you are doing for the rest of your life.
You probably cannot know for sure if he will come back, but there’s a good chance he will want to get back with you if he asks you out on dates, always wants to spend time together, or gets jealous when you flirt with other men or women.
Sometimes, you can tell when you will be able to get your ex back; other times, you may have to rely on your ex-boyfriend to get jealous or miss you a lot. This could take a few weeks or even a month. Each ex-boyfriend is different.
What is your opinion on the best sweet things to say to your ex-boyfriend to get him back? What would you like to hear from your last boyfriend to get him back? I’d love to hear your secrets to get him back! Please share in the comments!
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