What Makes Women Horny (19 Things That Make Women Horny)

Last updated on February 14, 2024 by Michelle Devani

Sex is a major deal in relationships, but couples need to have an equal level of sexual need to fully enjoy the act. Many men have healthy libidos and the ability to get horny with sufficient visual stimulation. Many women, on the other hand, require emotional, physical, and visual stimulation to become aroused and enjoy sex. 

The idea that women need special attention before they experience ultimate sexual satisfaction is not a new one, but there are more selfish men than generous ones out there. Women respond better sexually to men who are generous in and out of bed. As such, to ensure that your woman is always in the mood just by being around you, you should express your generosity towards her more often.

Some men have even accepted that the best advice to follow to resolve low sex drive issues is watching porn with their women. However, pornography can only help with the physical stimulation, but still, leave the issue unresolved because you still need to meet your woman’s emotional needs. Moreover, porn flicks are mostly unrealistic, and you’ll be putting more pressure on yourself and your partner to outperform yourselves.

Your relationship will also not survive on only sexual activities because you need stronger factors and feelings to keep both of you going through each cycle in your relationship. So, if watching highly graphic movies with your woman isn’t always healthy, what is?

Have you tried different things to make your woman horny, or wondered what made her horny without you initiating anything? Read on to see 19 things that can make a woman aroused and ways to trigger sexual desires in her.

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19 Things That Make Women Horny 

1. An attractive man

One of the things that make women horny is a man’s attractiveness. If a woman finds you attractive, she thinks you’re sexy. And if she thinks you’re sexy, she’ll probably want to bone you. 

A hot man is a pleasure on its own, and if your physical features are pleasing, she’ll eventually look for other things that make you attractive. While most women aren’t like men who are visually stimulated beings, some women still get horny when they set eyes on good-looking men.

2. A smart man who is not too cocky

a smart man who is not too cocky

Women love men with a brain, not just brawn or sex appeal. So if you’ve been banking on your bulky figure out or chiseled good-looking face to get a woman feeling horny, it might not always work for you.

A man’s sexuality or how a man’s sexuality is sensed by a woman is sometimes related to his intelligence. Women feel proud of boasting that they had sex with a brainy man. No woman wants to boast about a dull man who is only knowledgeable about sex and nothing else important.

Also, a man leaning towards being too cocky can kill a woman’s sexual desire and bring a previously raging libido to zero level. A woman who initially thought of you as sexy can become disappointed if you can’t hold one intelligent conversation.

3. A handyman

Another thing that can make you seem sexy, and make a woman horny is being handy and skilled. If you can fix things with your hands, you can trigger a woman’s arousal. If those hands happen to be strong-looking and attractive, you might have to start turning women down because you can’t keep up with the multiple attention.

Women naturally gravitate towards men who volunteer their time to fix things for them. It’s easier for a woman to do nice things for such a man. Don’t just try this handyman thing just once. Instead, repeat the cycle of helping her around the house and see how turned on she gets.

4. A man who sees to her needs before she makes a request

One thing that can make a woman horny is a man who can predict and provide for her needs before she makes any request. Yes, Women can be dramatic and annoying by displaying unrealistic expectations sometimes. Yet, you need to learn to know your woman properly because she is always trying to do the same for you.

For example, asking how she’s feeling even when you’ve also had a stressful day can soak her arousal and make her want to have sex.

5. Hormonal changes

Women’s hormones can be all over the place at different times of the month, especially during their menstrual cycle. A woman’s body is a network of constant feelings, which is why her actions can be unpredictable sometimes.

Her menstrual cycle controls a bit of how she feels throughout the month, including her horniness. As such, her menstrual cycle and body changes can make her crave sex

Apart from her menstrual cycle leading to her period, there’s also the ovulation period, which triggers the female desire in women. This ovulation period can make women horny because it occurs after a woman’s menstrual period. This is when her body starts preparing to have babies.

If a woman is pregnant, her hormonal cycle, especially in the second trimester, will still be active even though she’s not seeing her period. 

So, she can experience high sex drive and the need for constant sex even though she’s also experiencing pregnancy discomforts. You can already guess that having sex wouldn’t be at the forefront of such a woman’s mind. Even though she is horny, she isn’t crazy about penetrative sex.

6. The way she likes to be kissed

Believe it or not, there’s a wrong way of kissing, and that’s the way the woman doesn’t like kissing. Some men think that only firm or lip-biting kisses can make a woman horny, but that’s not always true.

To make your woman panting with desire, you need to talk to her about how she likes to be kissed. She won’t find it sexy if all she’s getting out of the experience was an exchange of spit. So speak to her before, during, and after each sexual encounter to know how both of you can enhance your sex lives.

7. A man’s smell

a man's smell

Some men smell so good that women wish they could bottle up that essence and take a little of it out daily to ignite their sexual desire. If you know what fragrance works best with your skin and your girlfriend’s mood, you will find it easy to increase her arousal. 

With just a sniff of your magic sexy smell, you’ll find her all dreamy-eyed and ready to tumble into bed with you. Try different colognes until you figure out which one turns her on the most. Then, try this cycle of intentionally wearing the cologne she favors on you. She will come to associate that scent with you anywhere she goes, making it difficult for her to ever forget you.

8. Foreplay outside the bedroom

Women love men who can play with them outside the bedroom. If you don’t have a good rapport with your partner outside the bedroom, you’ll find it difficult to make her respond automatically to you in bed. 

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Sex isn’t a wham-bam affair you can initiate easily every time. At times, sex is hard to pull off, and only the existing connection between you and your partner can get things back on track.

Foreplay outside the bedroom can spark a woman’s sexual drive, build sexual tension, and lead to a satisfyingly responsive desire later in the bedroom or wherever both of you end up having sex

So, if you want to get your girl horny on command henceforth, play and connect with her outside the bedroom.

9. Dirty talking

Sex is dirty in a fun way, and if you want to have ultimate fun, you need to learn how to talk dirty to your woman. To make your girl horny, learn the dirty words that will make her panties wet. 

Try sexting with her, if she likes it, it will prep her body for when both of you see face-to-face. Another way to ensure her sexual desire through dirty talking is by doing it directly with her beside you. 

You can do it spontaneously while watching a regular movie together, or in the middle of sex when you’re feeling really close to orgasm but she’s not.

10. A well-toned man

You can make a girl feel horny with the sight of your body alone. If she adores physically fit men, she can get instantly horny for you. Six-packs can ignite a spontaneous desire in a woman who is sexually obsessed with a well-toned body, so use that to your advantage. 

Ensure that you go topless when you want to initiate sex, and without saying a word, you will sense her desire. Of course, other factors will keep her attraction alive for you, but staying fit is certainly one of them.

11. A well-dressed man

a well-dressed man

Women also consider men who dress well hot and sexy. You can skyrocket a woman’s libido by knowing the right outfit combination to make. If you can match your outfit with appropriate accessories, you’ll have some women eating out of your hands.

Dressing well makes a man look put-together, but also makes his woman want to tear the clothes off him. This happens for men mostly, but some women find this kind of thing fascinating too.

12. Finding her erogenous spots

You can make a girl feel horny by discovering spots that make her hot. You can play with different parts of her body during foreplay or even casual conversations to know what works for her. You shouldn’t wait until penetrative sex time before you start preparing her for your entry.

She will appreciate and feel more satisfied when you touch her body all over and leave her trembling.

13. Paying her genuine and constant compliments

One of the things that can make a woman horny for you is sincere compliments. When you constantly admire, acknowledge and praise your woman’s good looks and actions, she will be the one to initiate sex sometimes. 

Most women lose their sex drive in the presence of a man who talks negatively or authoritatively about women’s bodies or always goes on about them losing weight.

It’s okay to encourage a woman to take care of her physical health because lifestyle factors are closely linked to hindering or boosting sex drive. However, doing so in an unkind way or with the wrong intention is bad and will certainly not earn you her sexual desire.

14. Giving her head

Some men think it’s only bad girls who crave oral sex, but most girls love it. If your woman doesn’t protest you giving her head, orally stimulating her is a totally normal thing. Women have a harder time reaching a climax with only penetration. 

Even if she has a normal libido, oral sex can make blood flow faster to her clitoris, which will make penetration more enjoyable for her. If you enjoy blowjobs and expect her to give you satisfying ones, you should be able to do the same for her. 

Oral stimulation is a sure way of increasing and sustaining her sexual interest. So, if you’ve been starving your female partners of good oral sex, that may be why they avoid intercourse or frequent intercourse with you.

15. A man who understands her

Beyond the regular things you do to show a woman that you care for her, she wants to be understood. She doesn’t want you to consider her major concerns, overreact or brush aside her needs. 

Most importantly, she wants you to be able to tell when there’s something wrong with her before she says a word.

She expects these things because they are things she does for you naturally. Knowing that you’re putting in extra effort to make her comfortable and happy can make her get turned on.

Sex with such a woman will go beyond satisfying each other’s libido because your behavior outside the bedroom already makes her feel deeply desired.

16. An available and present man

Women want attentive men, not men who appear to be present yet distant. When you give your girlfriend quality attention instead of more attention that shows absentmindedness, her sex drive for you will be high.

Even if her libido hits a temporary roadblock, being attentive, available, and present will swiftly put her in a good mood.

17. An affectionate and kind partner

an affectionate and kind partner

It is easier for a girl to freely give herself to a man she likes a whole lot. Of all the things you do to make a woman like you, if you aren’t kind to your partner, sex will either be a chore to her or something she does just to please you.

If your attitude towards her is negative, her libido will be low most of the time.

18. Intermittent distancing

Distance does make the heart fonder sometimes. Distancing might not be something either of you do intentionally or regularly, but it can be advantageous in a way. 

After being away for a while, you’ll miss each other, and her body will be in the mood for sex even before she reunites with you. You can also use the opportunity in between to spike her arousal and stroke her libido through voice stimulation.

19. A man who is actually competent in bed

Any woman will be glad to be with a man who knows what he’s doing in bed. A sexually competent man will easily know how to work her body and stir her sexual appetite even outside the bed.

As such, your sexy glances, hot stares, and meaningful touches can make a woman horny. If she’s slept with you before, her body will do the reminder for her.

FAQs

How can I turn my girlfriend on fast?

If you’re already ready for penetrative sex but your girlfriend isn’t in any way ready, you have to slow down. If you try to penetrate her when she’s not wet and ready for you, you will hurt her, and you certainly won’t enjoy the sex.

Except you don’t care about whether she enjoys it or not, or whether you hurt her or not, you should take the time to pleasure her.

If you’ve been patient in the past and learned about her body, you shouldn’t have much trouble locating her pleasure points. If this is your first time with her, don’t sweat it either. You can talk to her throughout the process.

The goal is to know what pleases her, so ask her what part of her body makes her tingle. Touch her experimentally, then attend more boldly to the parts that made her writhe and moan.

When in doubt about what works for her, you can place more focus on her vagina. That is bound to turn on most women faster than anything else.

What clothes turn a girl on?

Clothes do not have a mind of their own, and so, they are ordinary until someone puts them on. However, clothes have a way of leaving impressions on others, including your girlfriend. Everything about you should appeal to her, and your outfits are part of the whole package.

Girls generally just love it when men are properly dressed. From a three-piece power suit to a sharp blazer work over the appropriate dress shirt, you can leave your woman hot and bothered.

Sometimes too, it’s not about the clothes, but your sexiness lies in the way your clothes fit your body. So ensure that your suit isn’t hanging off your body or looking ill-fitted on you. With the right clothes, you can put your woman in the mood for sex.

What do girls like in men?

A woman goes into a relationship for different reasons, one of which is that she likes the man. What one woman likes in a man can differ from what another woman will like in the same man.

Something as minute as a man’s smile can make a woman melt for him. On the other hand, the likeness is in stages, but necessary for all stages of a relationship.

To deepen the connection between her and a man she likes, a woman begins to look for more substantial factors that can make her freely commit to the man.

As such, if his smile is good but he is lazy and can’t provide for himself, a self-sufficient woman will dump his ass without hesitation. To know what a woman likes in you, pay attention to her reactions to you in different scenarios.

Do girls like quiet guys?

Different girls like different kinds of men, including quiet ones. If you’re naturally reserved, you’ve probably had problems with asking women out or finding a woman who understands your personality.

Contrary to popular opinion, an outgoing woman can be attracted to a quiet man, and a quiet man can be drawn to a vivacious woman.

The important thing is that your personalities are complementary. Relationships are hard enough without putting up with people who don’t understand the way you think and see things.

When there’s no compatibility or understanding on both sides, the problem goes beyond whether the guy is reserved or not. As such, be sure that you can handle the high energy level of an outgoing girl.

What things impress girls?

Men have always been hellbent on impressing the women they like and go out of their way to do so. Women love flowers, chocolates, and all the other grand romantic gestures that men make.

However, women are also impressed by the unexpected, non-flamboyant, and original actions of their men.

If you’ve always given her flowers or sent her favorite food to her workplace, you might want to throw in a bit of surprise for her. A relationship can become boring, and require something new to spark life into it.

Whatever you introduce or give her doesn’t have to be extravagant or expensive, but rather, thoughtful and special. Nothing impresses a lady than something specially crafted or prepared for her only.

In Conclusion 

When there is mutual attraction, honesty, vulnerability, and acceptance between a couple, sexual performance and satisfaction will be one of the easiest parts of the relationship. 

The physical demonstration of your love, and sexual techniques are secondary to the foundation of trust and understanding that should exist between two people in love, or willing to share physical intimacy.

Once you can build these blocks of trust with consistency, you’ll feel more confident in your ability to turn your woman on in different ways.

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