17+ Fastest Ways To Make A Girl Have A Crush On You

by Michelle Devani

Are you the guy who has lots of crushes on girls, but the girls don’t like you back?

Do you often feel clueless about what makes women have crushes on guys? 

Or maybe you think you know, but you’re way off the mark, because your current strategy for attracting women isn’t working at all?

Either way, this guide is going to clear things up for you really well. 

You’re going to learn women are attracted to, and the most effective ways to make a girl have a crush on you. 

Let’s begin with the #1 most important rule to avoid turning women off completely. 

Women want a man who is slightly above them in the sexual marketplace. If you’re making it obvious she can have or - even worse - begging her to be your girlfriend, it does nothing to make you appear like a man worth pursuing. 

In this case, she’s most likely to lose interest in you and start pursuing a guy who doesn’t seem to care about her at all. Maybe you’ve seen this happen in the flesh before!

If you want to know how to behave in a way that makes women chase you, I would strongly urge you to check out this online course called Stealth Seduction. It features a step-by-step guide to subtly seducing a woman in a way that inspires her to chase you.

It was created by some of the most experienced active dating coaches, and I can personally vouch for it too. I would love it if a man approached me in this manner. There’s just something so cheesy, suspicious and low-value about a man that tries too hard.

With that being said, below you’ll find a list of the basics when it comes to inspiring women to have a crush on you.

18 Ways To Make A Girl Have A Crush On You

1. Offer Your Help Without Her Asking For It

offer your help without her asking for it

Ask her what can you do for her but never force her to accept it. Just be supportive to her and go with her flow. Make a difference naturally so that she would not shock over it.

2. Do Something She Doesn't Expect

If you sure that she is showing the Signs That a Girl Likes You More Than a Friend, do something beyond her expectation. Cook her something delicious for breakfast and pick her up from her work without prior notice.

3. Don't Be Nervous

If you are not sure whether she likes you or not, stay cool around her. Just behave and talk as you usually are, try not to stutter or get all sweaty in front of her.

4. Don't Be A Friendable Guy

You don't want you and her are close to the Signs of a Friendzone relationship. Don't act too friendable with her by always being available whenever she needs you.

6. Give Her Chance To Miss You

Girls loves the mysterious side of a guy. Play it cool and give her the chance to miss you by missing her calls and not replying her texts. Soon you will see the Subtle Signs Your Crush Likes You Through Texting.

7. Improve Your Looks

Heart matters more than looks, but it's our face that shown up first, not the heart. Cut your hair, shave, and use a good fragrance to make her loves to be around with you and can't take her eyes off of you.

8. Wear A Good Clothes

Don't wear the clothes that the color has faded or over sized, even though you're a fan of hip hop. A guy who is not dress nicely is actually a sore for eyesight.

9. Shape Your Body

For the sake of the girl you likes, hit the gym regularly. Even if you've never gone into one, try it. Girls prefer guys with strong build muscles than a guy with excessive fat around the stomach.

10. Act Like A Gentleman

act like a gentleman

Every girls love to be treated like a princess. Open the door for her, pull put her chair, and pay the bills. It shows how much you care about them and soon she will recognize the Signs You are Falling in Love in her.

11. Make Her Laugh

Love starts with a laugh. Throw a joke between your conversation to make sure it's funny enough to make her laugh. Witty and sarcastic comments are better than a lame joke.

12. Show Her Your Intelligence

Looks and wealth are not everything. You don't have to show how handsome you are and how many cars do you owned. Show her that you are well-informed about the current issues and affairs. Girls love a guy who is smart.

13. Be A Reliable Guy 

Make a girl feel secure around you. Show her how dependable you can be so she can always rely on you. Always do your best to be one.

14. Keep Your Words

Be a man of his words. Talk the talk and walk the walk. Don't say something you know you'll never do and spread a false promise around. It would be a huge turn off for you.

15. Be On Time

Never ever make a girl waits. She hates it the most. If you plan to go on a date, it's better for you to wait for her an hour to get ready rather than having her waiting for you 15 minutes late.

16. Be Good To Everyone

be good to everyone

Once you try to hit on a girl, she starts to ask everyone around you about him. Be good to your friends and other people so she'll hear only good things about you.

17. Be Funny

Being funny brings many positive things to you. It melts the awkwardness and makes you more relax around her. If you don't know how to be funny, trying a slapstick isn't a bad choice.

18. Don't Insist Anything

If she doesn't want to hang out with you and reject your offer to take her home, don't insist to her. She will not impressed if you are being pushy to her and don't let her make her own choice. There are just many more ways to make a girl have a crush on you.

5 Ways To Know If She Likes You Back

1. Look Into Her Eyes

Since eyes are the window of the soul, look into her eyes and see whether there's a spark every time you see her.

2. She Wants To Help You Back

Just like what you always do to her, she wants to reciprocate it and offers you some help. Emphasize this opportunity to get close to her.

3. She Stalk Your Social Media

Soon you will see the Signs a Girl Likes You on Social Media once she likes all of your posts and leave a comment in there.

4. She Starts To Talk About Personal Things

Your conversation with her becoming deeper, not just a general talks about school or work. She starts to tell you about her dreams and her goals in life.

5. She Touches You Physically

she touches you physically

A girl wants to be close to a guy she likes, physically. Soon she will lightly brush her arm to yours and deliberately touches you when you were walking.


Have you done reading the long list of the ways to make a girl crush on you? If so, surely you have mastered some of the tricks by now and ready to work on it. Good luck to find the ways to make a girl have a crush on you!

Michelle Devani
My name is Michelle Devani, and I've been helping people with their relationships since 2003. In 2017 I decided it was about time I started a blog on the topic, and since then more than 2 million people worldwide have read my relationship advice. Drop me a comment below to let me know what you think.