Are you looking for things to say to your boyfriend on your 11-month anniversary?
This is a strange milestone, and it can be difficult to find the right words to say.
But my list of ideas below should help.
However, first off, I want to tell you a personal story that might help to skyrocket your relationship to the next level.
It's the story of how I learned to turn men into putty in my hands.
I never used to be able to keep a man excited about me, and it was the bane of my life.
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In fact, these amazing men are the ones chasing me now...
So what changed?
Well, it all started when I discovered a barely-known aspect of male psychology called the 'Hero's Instinct'.
This primal part of male thinking has a significant impact on how attracted he is to specific women.
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With that said, let's explore some ideas for what you can say to your boyfriend on your 11-month anniversary.
Are you thinking of things to say to your boyfriend on your 11 month anniversary?
That can be a tall order, especially if you aren’t great with words and don’t like writing! You can always purchase a greeting card from the store and let it do the words for you, but it means so much more when you come up with a beautiful message on your own.
While it’s true you haven’t spent years together yet, being together 11 months is no light matter. We don’t have many long-term relationships like that in a lifetime, so it is something to celebrate about. To find the best sweet anniversary message for your love, take a few clues from this article and create your own original piece of work! Your boyfriend will be so impressed!
Just remember that it doesn’t have to be perfect. No one is perfect; just speak from the heart, and your true feelings will shine through in your message for him. He will love hearing the wonderful words you have written about him and your anniversary, and he will probably care about you that much more after he realizes how you feel about him.
Create your own original anniversary poem by heading over to Rhymezone. There, you can enter in any word, and it will provide you with options of rhyming terms you can use to form a cute little poem for your loved one. You may want to talk about how you first felt with him and how you feel now (your love has grown)!
Just remember that until your boyfriend teaches poetry, it doesn’t have to be perfect. Just start thinking of words, find what rhymes best, and put it together. It doesn’t have to be perfect by any means! Sometimes, a cheesy poem is a perfect addition to your anniversary messages. You want him to know you feel like destiny joined you together perfectly!
You can steal some of these lines when crafting a message for your boyfriend, or use a couple and create your own to go with these. You can just reword these lines or use the link above to get the message you want to send across. While it doesn’t have to rhyme, it is awfully cute when it does, right? Enjoy creating a special card or email message of your own!
As you begin exploring your thoughts and feelings, you don’t have to be too hard on yourself. We can’t all be best-selling authors, so find things online or in a book that you can use. There are beautiful quotes everywhere. Everyday Power has a list of over 200 romantic quotes that you can turn into your anniversary quotes or reword them to be your own words.
Try a few of these lines on for size to see if they fit the message you are trying to say to your boyfriend. These aren’t exact quotes from anyone; just rewritten ideas from other people, which works great for an anniversary poem! You also can just reword them to be said in the way that you talk with each other. Get creative, and you’ll do just fine in your anniversary message!
Do you feel like he kind of takes you for granted?
Unfortunately this is one of the most frequent complaints we get from our readers, where they feel they aren't a priority for their boyfriend or husband. They always seem to have some excuse as to why they can't spend some quality time with you like they used to.
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When crafting a beautiful anniversary message, you want him to know how you really feel about him. If you are unsure as to what you are feeling, you may want to go to the store or look at poems online until you feel some inspiration. You are looking for a message that rings true with your feelings. Be sure to tell your boyfriend how he’s changed your life in a good way.
You want him to understand how happy he’s made you and how blessed you feel to have him in your life. You may want to mention what your life was like before you met him and how it’s changed now that the two of you are together. If you are madly in love with him and he feels the same way, it’s okay to talk about the future but take caution when doing so.
You don’t want to scare him off if the two of you haven’t used the L-word yet. If you are still casually dating, I wouldn’t mention love in the card or email you are sending him. Instead, just talk about the joy you feel, having him in your life. He will probably appreciate any words you write. Don’t forget to mention all the wonderful things he’s done in your life to make you happy.
You don’t have to be a published author to speak from the heart. It’s also okay to steal from movies and television shows. He probably won’t even realize where the words you are speaking come from, but he will instead be focused on what you chose to speak about in your anniversary message. You can write anything you want to, provided it is sweet and true.
You don’t want to write, “I love you,” if you aren’t ready to speak those three little words or if he hasn’t already said them. That might make for an uncomfortable moment while he reads your email or card you have created for him. It’s okay to write, “Love, [your name],” at the bottom of the card, though, since you have been together for 11 months now.
Even if you aren’t madly in love with each other yet, you probably do love him as a friend, at least. Because of that, you may want to add that to the bottom of your anniversary message, so he knows these words are coming from the bottom of your heart. You didn’t just slap something on a page, but rather, you took the time to find the right words to express your feelings for him.
Speak from the heart when crafting an anniversary message, making sure that he knows how you really feel about him. You don’t have to rhyme like Shakespeare or write a beautiful poem to express your love on your anniversary. You can just tell him what he means to you. The most important thing is that your anniversary message talks about what he’s done in your life.
It’s okay to be cheesy when you talk about how you feel about your anniversary. You can always discuss the many things you love about him, and be sure you tell him how much you appreciate all the little stuff he has done for you, such as picking up groceries for you when you were sick. It’s the small things that matter in life and shows he truly loves and cares about you.
You may also want to discuss the amount of time you have been with each other. Explain that this anniversary may not be a huge milestone for some, but it means a lot to you. Don’t forget to talk about how you felt when you first met him or began talking to you. How did those moments affect your life and love for him today? Don’t forget to wish him a happy anniversary, too!
When creating your anniversary message, you may be at a loss for words - even WITH all the help of this article, so here is the perfect formula you can use to craft your message.
Tell him, “Happy anniversary, my love!” Make sure you mention how much he has changed your life for the better, that he means the world to you, and that your heart is on fire because of him. Let him know how much he means to you; speak from the heart.
Anniversary messages should talk about the memories the two of you have shared in life. In what ways has he taught you more about love than you already knew? Express your feelings and emotions in your love messages, showing how much you care.
Second month anniversary messages are the same as the first ones. You want him to know how he’s helped you learn more about what love really is. Let him know that you’ve enjoyed the memories you’ve made together and look forward to many more!
Six month anniversary messages should be a little more special because that is quite a milestone. Whatever you decide to do (cook him dinner or surprise him with a romantic massage), make sure you express your love in a meaningful way.
In my book, one of the most romantic things you can tell a boyfriend is, “You have taught me more about love than I could have ever imagined possible.” Then, in your anniversary messages, explain the times you have felt closest to him and when you fell in love.
What do you think are the most romantic things to tell your boyfriend on an anniversary? What has your boyfriend said to you on your anniversary in the past? I’d love to hear your point of view on this subject! Please leave a comment, and share this blog post!
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