How Do You Know If A Scorpio Woman Likes You, And How Does She Flirt? (11 Vital Clues)

Last updated on June 12, 2024 by Michelle Devani

Are you confused about where you stand romantically with a Scorpio woman?

Is it difficult to read her body language or any other signs that she likes you? But maybe you get an inkling that she does?

This is more common than you may think! Scorpios are often regarded as the most complicated signs to understand, as far as their emotions and their behavior. They’re far from simple beings. 

Thankfully, there are some behaviors to look out for when evaluating whether they have a crush on you or not. These are listed in the guide below.

Before we get into these though, let me give you an important tip that will give you the best chance of winning this woman over.

Maintain a bit of mystery. 

Spoiling, supplicating and simping won’t get you anywhere with a Scorpio - or with many women at all!

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Of course, this Scorpio might already be daydreaming of going on a date with you. Let’s take a look at some of the telltale signs that this is what she wants.


11 Signs A Scorpio Woman Likes You And How She Flirts

Is there a Scorpio woman you fancy? Or do you feel a hunch that a Scorpio girl likes you, but you are unsure of the signs or how to interpret her body language? You are not alone. This challenge is more common than you can imagine, and that’s because the Scorpio sign is complicated in itself.

Scorpio women are women of extremes; there are no in-betweens with them. They are either in or out, hot or cold, making them complicated beings to deal with or understand. You see, on the one hand, Scorpio women are self-sufficient and they love independence. But on the other hand, they can be possessive and extremely jealous, which stems from their unwavering passion for whatever they set their minds to achieve. 

Despite the Scorpio woman’s contradicting traits, it is not impossible to interpret the signs a Scorpio woman likes you or is flirting with you. In many ways, these signs stand out from how other women express their love or flirt with you, which is why it can be confusing at the start, but once you know them, they are easy to read. 

In this article, I will reveal to you 11 not-so-subtle and subtle signs a Scorpio woman likes you and how she flirts.

1. She agrees to go on a date with you

she agrees to go on a date with you

When it comes to dealing with a Scorpio woman, one thing is sure - she is straightforward. Whether you choose to call her a straight shooter or a no-nonsense lady, the endpoint is that the woman does not have time for games. As such, she will never start something she is not willing to continue. 

In this case, you will never catch a woman out on a date with a man she does not like or see herself dating long-term. If she has no interest in you, she will reject you outrightly even if it hurts or makes her look bad. So, just as a Scorpio will sting itself before surrendering to defeat by another animal, the Scorpio woman will rather end things with you than pretend to like you.

Therefore, if she agrees to go out with you or offers to take you out, it is a clear sign that she likes you, or at the very least, sees potential in you. 

2. She gets inquisitive

As already mentioned, the Scorpio woman has little to no time for games, and if she’s interested in you, she will want to know as much about you as early as possible. That’s because she wants to see if you are worthy of her time and commitment before letting down her guard or taking the relationship any further.

So don’t be surprised if you find yourself doing most of the talking in the early stages of your relationship. It is not because she has nothing to say, but because she is eager to learn more about you. 

On that note, if a Scorpio woman likes you, she will go the extra mile to understand you by asking questions. But if she doesn’t like you, she will not ask you questions, let alone show interest in what you have to say. 

3. She breaks the touch barrier

Unlike most women who worry about initiating the first physical touch with a guy, the Scorpio woman does this effortlessly with a guy she likes. You can tell she is flirting with you from how often she touches you. Whether it’s on your shoulder, hands, or chest, the answer is simple - she enjoys your company and does not want to let you go.

The Scorpio girl isn’t scared of PDA. Instead, she sees it as an affectionate way to express her feelings. So if she likes you, be sure to expect a lot of PDAs, from holding your hands to using her eyes to flirt with you and smiling seductively from across the room.

4. She always wants to take care of you

Despite coming off as a tough cookie, the Scorpio woman has a caring and nurturing spirit buried within her hard exterior. She is quick to offer her assistance to those she loves and will hate to see you struggle. 

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Women who fall under this star sign tend to be excellent partners because not only will they love their family intensely; they will fight with anyone and anything that tries to hurt them. As such, when a Scorpio woman falls for you, she will always want to take care of you - from the small gestures like getting you to lunch to grand gestures that involve her making sacrifices. 

5. She shares her interests

When dealing with Scorpio women, there is one thing you must understand; the dating phase is not a time for fun and games. They take it seriously as everything they do, say, or question is all about ensuring compatibility

Remember that this woman is cautious and likes to take things slowly before establishing a relationship. As such, she will want to know if you are both compatible emotionally, physically, and perhaps, spiritually. This could translate to her inviting you for activities and events she enjoys to see if you will also like them.

You see, the Scorpio woman does not easily let people into her world. So if she shares her interests and passion with you, it means she likes you and wants to be sure you are compatible.

6. She lets you in on a secret or something personal

she lets you in on a secret or something personal

Scorpios are one of the fixed zodiac signs, meaning that they are slow to change. They take their time when making decisions, especially when it comes to matters of the heart. So if it seems like you have been the only one revealing details about your life and she is still a mystery to you, relax because as things progress, she will eventually open up.

When a Scorpio girl likes you, she first starts by asking questions to get to know you, and when she is satisfied with your responses, she will progress to unraveling herself to you. This could be her telling you a secret or something personal, intimate, or embarrassing. This is her way of testing your affection and commitment level

The Scorpio woman does not handle rejection very well. It hurts her, so she will prefer you do it early on in the relationship. By revealing her not-so-glamorous side, she is giving you the opportunity to walk away if you can’t handle it. However, if you choose to stay, from this point on, you will notice that your conversations will become more mutual because she trusts you.

7. She is openly jealous and possessive

If you have come this far on the list and are still yet to understand the intensity of a Scorpio woman, then here’s another chance to grasp it. When a Scorpio girl likes you, she expects you to commit to her; it is all or nothing. Therefore, she will get jealous when she sees you with other women and might start to act possessive.

This zodiac sign is territorial, and as such, when a Scorpio likes you, she will be openly jealous if she sees another woman show you the slightest affection. 

8. She relaxes with you

Scorpios are usually serious and intense, making them brilliant strategists who deliberate with their decisions and plan for the future. Therefore, it is unlikely that a Scorpio woman will let down her guard for just anyone, except you have won her heart, and she likes you.

Because Scorpio women do not relax easily, you can be confident that she has strong feelings for you and is considering a committed relationship if she relaxes around you. In this case, she will be comfortable sitting quietly with you and communicating freely with you. 

Additionally, the initial feeling of being tested or under surveillance will disappear because she will be spending a great deal of time with you and has now accepted you as a natural part of her life.

9. She remembers everything you tell her

The Scorpio woman is a great listener. So when she likes you, she does not just ask questions for conversation’s sake but concentrates and hangs onto your every word. This is why it is easy for her to remember everything you say. After all, you can’t possibly remember things if you never listened.

You see, the Scorpio woman does not rely solely on physical attraction when choosing a partner. Instead, she relies on a combination of your physical, intellectual, and emotional attributes and knows that listening is the best way to understand what a person is made of.

Her listening skills and good memory make it easy to catch you in a lie, so don’t bother being dishonest with this girl because she will always know.

10. She sends you affectionate and flirty messages

she sends you affectionate and flirty messages

While it is true that text messages can never replace face-to-face communication or quality time, there is still a lot that can be analyzed from this form of communication. You can watch a Scorpio woman flirt from the way she texts. 

When she likes you, she will send you cute messages filled with love or friendly teases. However, if she believes your relationship can progress further, she can get flirty and send intimate messages. 

All these are signs that she likes you and likes the idea of being with you. The idea behind sending you these flirty messages is to make you share in her imagination of what physical intimacy would be like.

11. She demands a permanent commitment

After everything has been said and done, the ultimate goal for a Scorpio woman is to find a stable and loyal partner to form a permanent commitment and live with forever. So while she likes to take things slow, she does not entertain casual relationships, flings, or situationships. 

When a Scorpio woman likes you and believes you are compatible, she will eventually want something permanent, irrespective of her religious, political, or cultural beliefs. She wants something legally binding that makes her know that you are committed to each other.

Also, it is important to know that this woman is intensely loyal and will expect the same in return. So when she marries, it is for life, and she will not condone infidelity or an open marriage.


How do you know when a Scorpio woman likes you?

When a Scorpio woman likes you, she becomes exceptionally observant and attentive to what you do and say. She will want to spend time with you to learn as much as she can about you, from your likes to your dislikes, interests, and personality. To her, attraction is more than the physical, so she wants to form an emotional connection with you.

How do you know when a Scorpio is flirting?

When a Scorpio is flirting, they can be audacious, impulsive, hypnotizing, and possessive. So how do you know if a Scorpio woman is flirting? The answer is in her eyes. Once she has her eyes on you, it stays there until she has your attention and achieves victory.

People who fall under this zodiac sign have an almost hypnotizing and intoxicating sexual allure. They use it to their advantage when flirting to make their love interest go crazy in anticipation of an adventure with them.

How does a Scorpio woman get turned on?

Scorpios are governed by Pluto, the planet of the underworld. As a result, they are turned on by power plays, exploring dominance and submission. This woman does not shy away from getting freaky and exploring taboos. She likes the idea of secrets and mystery, so if you want to turn her on, you can start with a steamy oral session then add sex toys to the party.

How do you tell if a Scorpio has a crush on you?

You can tell a Scorpio has a crush on you from the way they look at you. They will stare at you intensely and look deep into your eyes with love, and you won’t be able to break away from the stare. Asking questions, sharing interests, and supporting you, among other signs, are easy ways to know a Scorpio is crushing on you.

What do Scorpio females find attractive?

The best way to win the heart of a Scorpio woman is to know the magical quality she finds attractive. Loyalty, confidence, and dedication in a man are a big deal to her because she wants to be with someone hard-working, intelligent, and sincere.

In Conclusion

When you first meet a Scorpio woman, she might seem serious and mysterious, but when she likes you, you are in for an adventure because she will be supportive, honest, and devoted to you. I hope you enjoyed reading this list and found the signs insightful. If yes, please leave a comment behind and share it with your friends.

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Michelle Devani
My name is Michelle Devani, and I've been helping people with their relationships since 2003. In 2017 I decided it was about time I started a blog on the topic, and since then more than 2 million people worldwide have read my relationship advice. Drop me a comment below to let me know what you think.

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