Sympathetic Things To Say To Your Boyfriend After A Death

Last updated on June 9, 2022 by Michelle Devani

The wheel of life will keep turning and putting us in positions we never thought we’ll get in. The hardest condition that the wheel of life can get us into is death. What do you do when that happens?

As a loving girlfriend, you need to be prepared to handle all conditions of your boyfriend’s life with love. One of that condition is when he is faced with death. When that happen you need to find the right words. Here are the empathetic things to say to your boyfriend after a death;

1. I’m So Sorry For Your Loss

This is the basic thing to show your empathy for someone and it shows someone that you care in a simple way.

2. I Will Always Be Here For You

Being here means that you are ready to help him great through this. Say this genuinely to take his heart.

3. I Can Be Your Shoulder To Cry On

It helps someone when they have someone to hold on to when they cry.

4. It’s Absolutely Okay To Cry

it's absolutely okay to cry

Do not shame him for crying. After a traumatic experience, sometimes your only reaction is to cry.

5. I’m Going To Take Care Of You

Taking care of him is what he absolutely need because right now he might be too weak and fragile.

6. It’s Okay To Not Be Okay Right Now

Justify his sadness and his jumbled up feelings right now because life can be confusing and sad.

7. Let All Your Feelings Out

It’s important to not bottle things up and to let it out instead. This form of love shows the Wife Material Signs.

8. We’re Going To Get Through This Together

Remind him that you will help him get through this because that’s all that he need right now.

9. It Will All Be Okay In The End

He might be stressed by the sadness but use the Things to Say to Help Someone Who Is Stressed Out.

10. This Too Will Pass

Because of the lack of perspective, sometimes we forget that even the hardest things in life will go away.

11. I Love You So Much

Do the Funny Ways To Cheer Someone Up Over Text and Make Them Smile Again. By saying this, your love will make him warm inside.

12. I’m Always Ready To Help You

i'm always ready to help you

Help will be badly needed by someone who is so broken. Once you say this, he will be peaceful.

13. I Wish I Could Take Away Your Pain

Sympathy is something that really shows the magnitude of your love. This is a great things to say to your boyfriend after a death.

14. My Heart Hurts Seeing You Like This

When he shows the Signs A Man is Emotionally Connected to You, you will feel that pain too.

15. I’ll Hold You As Long As You Want To

To hold his hands or hug him is something that can save his heart and make him calmer. 

16. Just Tell Me If You Need Some Space

Although it can be hard, if he asks for some space, you need to follow his wishes.

17. I’m Sure She/He Will Be Looking Over You From Above

Tell him that the person who passed away is peaceful in heaven right now.

18. It Might Not Be Okay For A While, But I’ll Always Be Here To Be With You

Tell the truth but make sure that you say that you’ll hold his hands when times are the hardest.

19. I Admire Your Strength

Strength is shown by how he keeps going on. This is a Ways to Make Someone Feel Appreciated and Loved.

20. This Sadness Is Only A Sign Of How Capable You Are Of Loving

Tell him that this sadness is not weakness.

21. Just Don’t Give Up On Life, Okay?

just don't give up on life okay

Make sure that his mind isn’t worse and worse.

22. I Wish I Can Do Anything To Make You Feel Better

Show him how much you want to help him.

23. This Emotion Is Meant To Be Felt

Tell him that it is okay to feel so sad.

More Tips On What To Say After He Experienced A Loss

When you are faced with a loss of someone you love, you will become empty and sad inside. Which is why to help him get out of that rut, you need to know the things to say to him after he experienced a loss ;

1. I Am So Sad To Hear About Your Loss

This is another simple things to say to your boyfriend after a death.

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2. My Heart Aches With You

It’s another What to Say When Your Boyfriend Asks How Much You Love Him.

3. I’ll Be Here For You if You Need To Talk

A good long talk is what someone needs to heal their heart. 

4. I’m Always Praying For You And Your Family

Prayers are a good way to show your good intention in this hard times.

5. You’re On My Mind, Always

you're on my mind always

Say this genuinely to make him feel peaceful inside.

6. He/She Will Be In Our Heart And Greatest Memories

A loss doesn’t have to be gone forever, you can keep in your heart.

Signs That He Is Getting Better

Recovery from losing someone is unimaginably hard and long, but sooner or later it will happen. When that happens, he will show the signs that he is getting better;

1. He Start Smiling More And More

Smiles are basic signs that someone is being happier. Make sure to keep that smile on his face.

2. Talking About The Loss Doesn’t Make Him Cry Anymore

It still hurts but his loss doesn’t make him have an emotional breakdown.

3. He Start Showing His Love To You

He stops being in his head and start wanting to show his effort to love you.

Death is a hard thing to get over and it can happen to us all. When it happens to your loved ones, especially your boyfriend, you need to be prepared with the things to say to your boyfriend after a death. Once you know that, you can help your boyfriend feel better and even overcome it.

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Michelle Devani
My name is Michelle Devani, and I've been helping people with their relationships since 2003. In 2017 I decided it was about time I started a blog on the topic, and since then more than 2 million people worldwide have read my relationship advice. Drop me a comment below to let me know what you think.
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