We understand how you’re feeling and created this article with quotes and sayings to make you feel better. Below are 101 quotes for when someone doesn’t care about you in the same way you care about them. You can either use these examples or create your own quotes from the ideas given here.

101 Quotes About Caring For Someone Who Doesn’t Care About You

1. “I’m never going to be embarrassed for caring too much. People are going to whisper no matter what I do, so I’ll rather remain who I am.”

You should never feel inferior for being who you are. If someone doesn’t appreciate it, then you should leave.

2. “I’m trying my best to stop caring about those who don’t pay attention to me. I’m going to enjoy life to the fullest without feeling bad. It’s what I truly deserve.”

You should embrace every bit of your life without caring what others think, especially those that don’t care about you the same way.

3. Happiness comes when you stop caring about the wrong things. The best thing you can do is to forget about the past and focus more on the future.

If you dwell too much on the past, you won’t be able to move forward. It’s necessary to focus on what you want instead of people that don’t care.

4. It’s normal to forget about your priorities when you’re thinking about someone else. Look at yourself in the mirror. Don’t ignore yourself any longer.

No one will take care of yourself like you can. While you’re trying to care for someone else, don’t neglect yourself.

5. Most times, people settle for less when they know they deserve more. Don’t give someone your mind when all you wanted was their heart. Fight until you get someone better.

Just because someone didn’t care for you doesn’t mean no one else will. You need to find someone better.

6. ”Never complain that I became heartless. I only learned to use my heart less the moment you became so distant.” 

Any relationship that’s hurting you demands distance. Don’t stay in a scenario that threatens your peace.

7. Never feel bad for wanting something more. You need to realize that you weren’t with the right person to give it to you.

If a person doesn’t care anymore, it proves they weren’t the right one for you. Don’t feel bad when they leave.

8. ”I won’t waste my tears on what the world thinks of me. I’ll stop caring because they’re going to keep talking regardless.”

Having this realization will give you the strength to tackle the world. You’ll live life on your terms irrespective of what anyone has to say.

9. ”The most important thing to me is going wherever my heart wants to go, and I see nothing wrong with that.”

There’s no harm in following your heart, especially when it’s leading you in the right direction. Don’t let others persuade you otherwise.

10. ”It’s truly a wonderful thing to care about others. If you push me away, I’ll go. But I’ll never change who I am.”

Being empathetic is a beautiful thing. Never allow one negative experience to change how you’ll behave in the long run.

11. Just because one person disappointed you doesn’t mean you shouldn’t care anymore. You’ll find someone who will truly appreciate you.

It’s a common notion that the best ones always come last. Keep hanging in there until you meet the perfect one for you.

12. An essential part of growth is leaving the past behind. If you want to move forward, don’t fight for those that don’t care anymore. Stop caring about them and you’ll feel a lot better.

Letting go of certain people isn’t easy, not you have to do it for your inner peace, 

13. Stop caring about what the world says. The ones who will truly care about you are on their way. You simply have to be patient. 

Patience is crucial in the journey of life. If you want to meet the right one, you’ll have to wait until you find them.

14. Never let anyone treat you like second best. You deserve all the care the world has to offer. Keep searching until you find the right one.

If a relationship makes you feel less than, you shouldn’t be in it. You deserve all that you want and even more.

15. Fake people will always try to keep up with appearances. Real people won’t care anymore if you try to walk over them.

You don’t have to pretend to be on good terms with anyone. If things aren’t working, you should be real with them.

16. The best thing you can do to your haters is to ignore them. Stop caring about what they say or think. It’s the greatest power you can ever have.

Your haters will always have a reason to criticize what you do. Don’t let them have the advantage.

17. If you truly want to be happy, you have to ignore some little details. Not everything demands your attention and you should realize that.

You’ll live life fully when you stop trying to make everything perfect. Forget about the little details and enjoy the moment.

18. You should always do what’s best for you. People's choices will always be theirs. Focus on yourself because you’re the most important person to you.

You should always be a top priority in your life. Don’t lose sight of yourself while trying to make others happy.

19. The best thing you can do is to allow the wrong people out of your life. If they want to leave, it shows they were never meant for you in the first place.

It’s actually wonderful when the wrong people leave. You’re only creating space for the right ones.

20. It’s a thousand times better to give up on someone who doesn’t care than hold on to them. The more you try to make them change, the more you’ll hurt yourself and regret trying. 

It’s much better to give up on something that’s hurting you than hang on to the pain.

21. “As long as what others are saying about me isn’t true, I’ll stop caring about them. They might think it hurts me, but I don’t even mind what they think.”

You shouldn’t care what others are saying. As long as they’re not true, you have nothing to worry about.

22. “It’s easy for people to want you when they’re alone and not when you’re alone. I don’t want that type of relationship anymore.”

If someone only needs you when they’re alone, and not when you need them, then the friendship isn’t worth it.

23. “I don’t mind if I fail trying to show how much I care. I’ll keep doing what makes me happy without caring what others think about me.”

Building a relationship might hurt more than you expect. But you should never stop being you just to please other people.

24. The best way to live freely is to stop holding on to people who don’t care anymore. They’ll only make you care less about everything, including yourself.

The worst thing that can happen to anyone is when they stop caring about themselves. Understand that you’re an important character in your story.

25. If you waste your time trying to please others, you’ll only regret it in the long run. Live your life on your own terms irrespective of whether people care or not.

It’s draining trying to please others. It’s much better to live life the way you want and ensure you have all you need.

26. The easiest way to lose sight of your life is to focus on other people’s decisions. Remember that your life is as crucial as anyone you’re paying attention to.

If you lose track of what you stand for, you’ll unknowingly be living other people’s lives. Ensure you focus on yours as much as possible.

27. It’s much easier to say you don’t care anymore than actually implementing it. However, it’s a crucial thing to do if you want to lock out someone that hurts you.

Choosing not to care is a tough decision. Nevertheless, if it will help you overcome the pain of being neglected, you should do it either way.

28. “If I had the superpower to stop caring, I’d use it every day. I’ll prevent myself from feeling certain things and being sensitive to people’s actions.”

You don’t have to care about everything people say. Not being sensitive to their words is indeed a superpower.

29. “I’ve waited for you to finally start showing me affection. I’ve waited far too long and now I don’t care anymore.”

If someone fails to reciprocate the attention you give to them, it’s important to walk away and try to find someone else.

30. Many people think those that stop caring are mean and heartless. Actually, they’re the most vulnerable, and not caring is a way to protect themselves from getting hurt again. 

You should always protect yourself, especially from those that don’t care about you. 

31. The moment you stop caring, the easier it will be to ignore their actions and keep moving forward. You should never let anyone tie you down and prevent you from entering the next phase of your life.

Moving forward is essential at every step of the way. You should never allow someone's negligence to keep you at one spot. 

32. Life is much better when you learn how to forget people. Understand that they’ll talk whether you like it or not. Therefore, it’s essential to live life on your own terms instead.

You don't have to keep thinking about certain people. If they're not thinking about you, then you shouldn't be doing the same.

33. The most miserable people are those who keep caring when they shouldn’t. If you want happiness in your life, you shouldn’t care anymore. Allow people to go whenever they want to. 

Being happy lies in your ability to let people go when they want to. You don't have to keep holding on to someone that doesn't want to be around.

34. It’s difficult to keep fighting for someone you don’t care about. Therefore, get rid of those emotions and you’ll be a thousand times better.

If you tackle your emotions, you'll find it easier to stop fighting for that person to stay. Get rid of those feelings and you'll be much better. 

35. The hardest thing to do is to fall out of love with someone that used to care about you so much. Once they turn cold, it’s hard to admit that things have changed forever.

It's indeed painful to see someone become cold suddenly. Nevertheless, don't try to hold on to them if they truly want to go. 

36. It’s very essential to stop worrying about those that don’t think about you. You need to focus on what’s more important, which is you.

You'll always be an important person to you. Never forget that while trying to please another person.

37. “I care too much about those who don’t care at all. But not anymore. I’m going to stop caring because I don’t want to waste my time any longer.”

If you spend all your time caring for people that don't care, you'll end up feeling tired and stressed out in the end. 

38. The most important thing is to love your company like you’re the best person in the world. Don’t care about what others think and you’ll truly live a happy life.

Your company is more important than any other thing. You should be comfortable living by yourself if you want to live a happy life.

39. Cowards are those that make you fall for them when they don’t have the intention to commit. 

If you notice that someone made you care about them only for them to desert you, you don't have to wait around any longer. 

40. “I truly don’t care what anybody says. Anytime they tell me I can’t do something, that’s when I want to do it more.”

You shouldn't be limited by other people's words. You should define your life on your terms and make the most out of it.

41. “The major reason I don’t care anymore is because I gave someone my heart, but they gave me back in pieces.”

It's okay to lock out your emotions especially if someone has broken your heart before. Never let people get the best of you. 

42. If you find the right person, don’t stop caring about them. Hold them tight and decide never to let them go. Those ones are hard to find. 

When you find someone that's truly willing to stay, hang on to them for as long as possible.

43. Maturity isn’t determined by age. There are a lot of fake people in adult bodies who think not caring is cool, when it’s not.

Not everyone you meet will be as mature as you think they are. If they think caring isn't cool, you should move on to someone better.

44. The hardest thing to do is waiting for someone to love you back. It’s much better to be happy by yourself without needing someone to complete you.

You don't need to wait for someone to push you away before you choose to leave. If they won't be there for you, you should go. 

45. “You shouldn’t get mad because I don’t care like I used to. You should be sad because I used to and you took me for granted.”

You should hope for happiness without certain people in your life. If they won't make you happy, you should find someone better. 

46. People will judge you and it’ll hurt. The best way to safeguard your happiness is to stop caring. Let them keep talking, but don’t waste your time thinking about them.

It's easy for people to judge without knowing the full story. Nevertheless, you should allow their words to affect you. 

47. Many fake people think they have everything figured out. But the truth is, if you don’t care about someone today, you’ll regret it later on. If you neglect others today, you’ll want their attention later on.

Fake people often want to deceive others, but you shouldn't let their actions get the better part of you.

48. If you have a problem with me, it shouldn’t be my problem. I’m only doing what I think is best, and you shouldn’t try to hurt me in the process.

When other people have a problem with you, it shouldn't be your problem, as long as you know you're doing what's best for your well-being. 

49. Love should always be a decision. Love who you want without caring what others think. No one should push you out of your decision, especially if it’s a good one.

Loving others is much better than hate. If anyone has a problem with it, it shouldn't affect you. 

50. When everything goes south, the best you can do is to stop caring and simply move on. You shouldn’t care what anybody says.

Quotes and sayings like these are often the best. You should never let someone else's actions get the better part of you. 

51. The easiest way to fall out of love is to stop caring too much. Redirect your affection towards yourself and try to be happier without certain people.

Sayings like these will make you live yourself even more. If you always need others, try to be independent instead. 

52. Life is indeed beautiful. As you grow older, you learn to care less about certain things and focus on what really matters. This, in itself, is the beauty of life.

Quotes and sayings about life will show you the beauty of living without caring too much. 

53. The greatest way to liberate yourself from other people is to stop caring. It might hurt at first, but in the long run, you’ll be thankful you made that choice.

Sayings like these will prevent you from making regrettable decisions. Despite the hurt, not caring will make you happier. 

54. The greatest advice anyone can give you is to live life on your terms. Don’t stress about what other people think. It’s your life, not theirs.

If you want to live a burden-free life, you should heed to sayings like these. Live life on your terms without caring what others think. 

55. If you want to maintain your peace, you have to be willing to turn off your emotions towards certain people. They don’t deserve some parts of you so you shouldn’t give it to them.

Sayings like these will help you live a peaceful life. Not everyone deserves every aspect of you, so you need to lock your emotions out. 

56. When there’s no reason to care any longer, the best you can do is to pack up and leave. Don’t settle for less when you know someone won’t reciprocate your love.

You can talk to someone hoping they change, but if they don't, it's best to move on. 

57. Caring about everything will burn you out faster than expected. You should neglect some people especially when they don't care about you in return.

Quotes and sayings like these will help you channel your energy to the right source, which is caring about yourself even more. 

58. “I’d rather be on my own than push too hard. If I see my presence isn’t welcome, I’ll act like our relationship never existed.”

You don't have to talk to people that don't appreciate your presence. You should be aware when it's time to leave. 

59. “It’s impossible for me to care about those that don’t bother to think about me. I’d rather stay alone than choose to hurt myself with you.”

It's much better to stick to yourself than be with someone who doesn't care about you. 

60. You should start caring less about what people think. It’s a great attribute that most people wished they discovered early.

Sayings like these will help you choose a better way to live without getting heartbroken. 

61. If someone treats you like you don’t exist, better believe them. Don’t convince yourself they’ll change when you clearly see how they feel about you. Instead, stop caring about them.

It's easy to see how people feel about you with their behaviors. Once you notice, it's best for you to move on. 

62. Not caring doesn’t make me a monster. I just chose not to safeguard my feelings because you didn’t care about them enough.

When someone fails to care about you, it's only logical for you to safeguard your heart. Don't let anyone make you feel guilty for protecting yourself. 

63. If you start caring about the world too much, you’ll lose hope in yourself. Focus on yourself regardless of what anyone thinks.

The best way to go through life is without fear of what others think. Never lose sight of yourself while trying to please others. 

64. Knowing when to stop is an important thing. You just turn off all your emotions and choose not to care as much as you did. It’s the best way to protect your heart.

It's crucial to know when to stop fighting. If someone isn't giving you the same energy, you should pull back. 

65. If you truly want to live, you have to accept that some people won’t care for you as much as you do. Don’t hate the process. Embrace it and love yourself even more.

Don't beat yourself up because someone doesn't care. It's merely a part of life. Embrace it and keep on loving yourself. 

66. You don’t need any permission to live your life how you want. You’re in control of your decisions and you should always do what’s best for you.

Doing what's best for you cannot be overemphasized. You're the one living your life so you should live it the best way. 

67. “If you don’t care, then I won’t. I’ll treat you like you don’t exist to prevent myself from getting hurt.”

It's okay to treat someone like they never existed. This will help you get over the pain they've caused. 

68. “It’s easy for you to judge me when I start caring less. But where were you when I poured out my heart to you? You can’t care for me only when I’m not around.”

One-sided friendships are always a burden to the party trying to make things work. You have to realize when enough is enough. 

69. People will always take your kindness for granted. The more you have hope that they’ll change, the more they’ll take advantage of you. Never allow someone to use you to the extent that you can’t think for yourself anymore.

It's crucial to realize when someone is taking advantage of your kindness. Don't allow such situations to go on for too long. 

70. You need to stop worrying about what others think of you or you’ll forever remain in their shadows. You're unique and different. Embrace every bit of yourself and start living today.

The more you care about someone that doesn't recognize you, the more you'll stay in their shadow. Choose to live on your own terms. 

71. “You might think it’s bothering me, but I could care less about what you think. Some things mean nothing to me and nothing can change my mind about it.”

It's crucial to put your foot down when someone keeps playing games with you. Tell them that they can't break you any longer. 

72. Once you realize there’s no need to stay any longer, you shouldn’t keep holding on. Don’t wait till your love slowly dies. Walk away before you lose faith in yourself.

The more you hang on to a negative situation, the more you lose hope in yourself. Never let that happen. 

73. “It’s one thing to decide to leave someone while it’s another thing to truly make that happen. Even though it’s painful, I know it’s the best decision for me. I’m going to make it happen at all costs.”

Leaving someone should become a priority when the situation is too painful. You need to protect yourself at all costs. 

74.”I don’t hate you. I’ve simply grown to accept the fact that you’re not the one for me. I don’t have to make you change. I just have to walk away before your actions break me.”

There's a difference between despising someone and refusing to let their actions break you. You should always choose the latter. 

75. “Sometimes I act like I don’t care, but deep down, I still don’t care. I don’t want to be with someone who doesn't even bother about my well-being.”

Some people might mistake your empathy for weakness. Don't let that happen. Always do what's best for yourself. 

76. This is just a reminder that what other people think about you is really not your problem. You have better things to think about, so you should focus on them instead.

Your life should always be a priority. Never allow other people's actions to make you lose focus on yourself. 

77. “My greatest heart desire was to see you reciprocate my affection. It felt even better when you didn’t because I finally knew what I had to do — focus on myself.”

It's much better for people to show you their real selves than pretend to care about you. At least, you'll know where your priorities lie. 

78. “I don’t care what anybody says about me because the more I care, the more it breaks me. I’d rather have peace than be unnecessarily kind to others.”

The more you focus on others, the more you'll lose sight of your purpose. Never let that happen. 

79. “It’s best for me to stop wasting my time on people who don’t feel the same way about me. The more I channel my energy to the right sources, the better my life will be.”

Always choose to focus on what's more important in your life. 

80. People's choices should never affect you so much. If someone chooses not to care, it should be their problem, not yours. Focus on yourself more than anyone else and you’ll truly be happy.

True joy comes from loving yourself more than what others think of you. 

81. Someone who doesn’t care about you shouldn’t get an extra thought in your head. Stop caring about what they think and start focusing more on yourself.

There should always be space in your head for what really matters. 

82. When you stop dreaming, that’s when life starts to end. When you stop caring, that’s when love fades away. When you stop sharing, that’s when friendship truly starts dying.

You should keep dreaming and living because these things guarantee having a fulfilled life. 

83. The truth is that no one likes it when you’re comfortable in your own skin. But at that point, you won’t care what anyone thinks any longer.

Being comfortable in your skin is the greatest superpower anyone could ever have. 

84. Choosing to forget about someone isn’t wrong. It makes you brave. Protecting your heart should always be your top priority no matter how hard it may seem. 

You don't have to hold on to those hurtful memories any longer.

85. Stop wasting your time trying to get the attention of someone focusing on something else. Instead, look to the more important thing, which is you. Always remember that you’re a top priority in your life.

If you lose sight of what's more important, you'll forever live in someone else's shadow. 

86. “Sometimes, it’s when I say I don’t care any longer that I actually care the most. Nevertheless. I don’t have any choice left but to do what’s best for me and move on.”

Moving on actually hurts more than people think. Nevertheless, it's the greatest freedom for a broken heart. 

87. “If you suddenly realize that we haven’t talked in a while, I hope you realize that I didn’t stop caring. You’re the one who pushed me away and I had to leave.”

People often realize their mistakes when it's too late. Don't wait until they realize it. Move on. 

88. “I’m not afraid of hate because it only motivates me to be better. If you decide not to care about me, I’ll act like you never existed in my life.”

You should never be afraid of someone hating you because of your choices. 

89. “I don't have to maintain a friendship with someone who doesn’t care. If you can’t reciprocate my affection, it’s best for me to move on and find someone better.”

There'll always be someone out there ready to reciprocate your love and affection. 

90. The more you try to please others, the more you lose yourself in the process. If you truly want to be free, your heart's desire should be to stop caring about what others think of you.

Pleasing others only makes you lose sight of who you truly are. 

91. Even if you forget about our friendship, I’ll never stop being me. Your actions won’t change who I am, and neither will it make me less of a great person.

If someone neglected your empathy, it shouldn't stop you from being who you are. 

92. Trying not to impress someone isn’t wrong. But there’s always a problem when you start caring too much and no one seems to appreciate it. In that case, you should always look out for yourself instead. 

You should strive to impress but always know your limits. 

93. The bad part about holding on to someone for too long is that you don’t seem to realize when they’re no longer there. It’s important to maintain your peace of mind by walking away when you need to.

Don't hold on for too long because you won't realize when the person's no longer there. 

94. If you stop caring about someone who doesn’t care, you're not doing anything bad. You've only realized things before it got too late.

Never feel guilty for protecting yourself from potential pain. 

95. The last thing you should do is to bother about those that don't care at all. You’d be wasting your emotions. You should forget about them and focus on more important subjects.

It's much better to think about what really matters.

96. The moment you stop caring is when things truly get better. You’re choosing to focus on the more important thing, which is you. There’s nothing better than that.

When you focus on yourself, you'll have your own freedom. 

97. Not everyone is worth fighting for. If someone won’t appreciate the efforts you make, it’s important to walk away. Don’t try to win them over because it'll only end in heartbreak.

You should realize when it's time to stop fighting for a broken friendship. 

98. “Even if you forget about my efforts, the truth still stands. I won’t feel bad about caring for you. You’ll only regret that you took me for granted.”

In the end, people often regret losing the good ones. 

99. When you start ignoring someone you used to give all your time to, they’ll notice and want you back. Sadly, they only miss you when it’s beneficial to them.

Quotes and sayings like these will make you strive for better friendships. 

100. It’s never a crime to stop caring for someone who doesn’t care in return. 

It's much worse to stay with someone that doesn't appreciate what you do.

101. “I gave you all the love in this world and all you did was to make me look stupid.” 

You should never let someone take you for granted for too long. 

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Do you consider yourself to be quite good at meeting girls in real life, only to get regularly flaked on or ghosted?

Maybe you're able to attract lots of matches on Tinder but unable to convert any of them into dates? 

In both these scenarios, your texting is nearly always to blame. 

It's a shame because it is possible to make a woman MORE excited to meet you by texting, once you know how to do it properly.  

In this guide, you're going to learn some tips to make a woman OBSESS over you through text message. 

And I'm going to share the most important overarching tip with you right now. 

It is SO important to leave a bit of mystery when you're flirting with a woman, whether that's through text message or face-to-face.

When you 'hit on' her too blatant and make it obvious that she can have you, it makes her feel as if you're below her in the sexual marketplace, and women will only want to date guys who are on their level or above them. 

So, what's the best way to make your intent known without being too blatant about it. 

Well, the answer to that question can be found in this course on 'Stealth Attraction'. It's taught by some of the most experienced dating coaches in the game at the moment.  

I was lucky enough to browse through the Stealth Attraction course myself, and I must say: This is how women want to be approached. 

It's annoying for all of us when men don't understand the concepts in this course, because it ruins what could have been a huge crush. 

Remember, this concept when you read the rest of this guide, which focuses on winning girls over by text specifically.

Tips To Use When Texting Girls

Today, you’ll spend more time getting to know someone via texting than you will be talking to them. Whether it’s through an online dating app, on social media, or through a mutual friend, you’ll find yourself texting someone more as the two of you get to know each other. That’s why it’s important to have amazing texting skills. You want to show off your charm, be amazing and do it all without her hearing the tone of your voice or seeing the expression on your face. 

If you want to make a girl fall in love with you via text message, it’s not that hard. All you have to do is remember to use these tips when you’re sending text messages back and forth. 

1. Ask her when she’s free

If you want to go out on a date with a girl, open the door for that conversation. Make sure that you have gotten to know each other for at least a few days first. She’ll love that you’re willing to discuss things and that you want to meet her. 

Make sure that you are respectful if she doesn’t want to meet right away. Some girls prefer to get to know someone a little bit more before meeting in person. If that’s the case, tell her that you’d love to go out to dinner when she’s ready. 

2. Text her within a day of meeting her

There’s a general rule that you should wait three days before sending a girl a message. Today, women expect men to text them sooner than that. Waiting three days will instantly lead to her thinking that you aren’t interested. Instead, text a girl a short “I had a great time and would love to see you again!” within a day. 

3. Consider having a playful attitude

While it’s important to be serious when the occasion calls for it, you also have to be able to play around. Consider asking her some open-ended questions, such as “If you could have any superpower what would it be and why?” to start a silly conversation. 

4. Ask open-ended questions

When you ask a person a yes or no question, it can kill the conversation. Instead, text a girl open-ended questions to keep the conversation going longer. 

5. Make texting her back a priority

When you’re going to text a girl, you don’t just want to text her casually in your free time. That’s a great way to let her know that she’s not a priority. You can also give the impression that you’re playing games. 

Instead, try to text her back more often. If you can’t have your phone on you while you’re working, try to check it at lunch. It’s a great way to show her that you’re interested in her. 

6. Don’t blow off what she’s saying

This seems like a given, but it happens. Sometimes, it happens unintentionally. You ask how her day was. She tells you about her day. Then, it reminds you of something and you start talking about yourself. She feels like you don’t care about her day. 

Instead, take the time to text her about what she’s telling you. When you spend time talking about what she said in her last message, it shows that you care and that you’re listening to her. 

7. Avoid WYD texts

This is guaranteed to lead to dull text conversations. The natural answer is “not much, you?” Do you see how uninteresting that is? Instead, make an effort to spice things up. 

8. Make her smile

As a girl, I would rather go out with an okay-looking guy that can make me laugh versus a super hot guy that is serious all the time. Sometimes, you need to stop thinking about texting a girl and how to send the perfect text messages. Instead, just send her a funny TikTok video or a meme. She’ll instantly be more interested in you once you make her smile. 

9. Ask her opinion

Believe it or not, there are still plenty of guys that do not care what a woman thinks. It will instantly make her smile if you ask her opinion on something. 

This is a great way to get a conversation going when you’re texting a girl too. Find out what the girl is interested in, and then ask her a question about it. She’ll send you paragraphs of messages. 

10. Text about cool things

Those getting-to-know-you questions will only get you so far. They can also get boring after a while. You need to find some cool things to talk about with a girl too. 

This can be a bit challenging in the beginning when the two of you are still getting to know each other. Pay attention to her reaction when you mention certain things like the news or beautiful places to travel. 

11. Keep her interested with different topics

Telling her about your great life is a wonderful idea. However, she doesn’t want to hear about your job all of the time. A girl will even get tired of talking about beautiful places like Bora Bora at some point. Instead, keep the conversation both fun and interesting by switching things up. If you’re not sure what to say when you’re texting a girl, here are some good conversation topics: 

• Astrology
• Crystals and their purposes
• Plants
• Animals
• Traveling
• Hobbies
• Favorite foods, places to go, etc. 

Not only will this keep the conversation going, but it will also help you learn a lot about her. 

12. Send her a good morning text

When you text girls and want them to fall head over heels, you want to make sure that you send a good morning text. For example, tell her “good morning beautiful.” When you text girls first thing in the morning, it’s definitely going to put a smile on their faces. 

13. Send a paragraph on occasion

When you text a girl, you’re bound to stick to your personal texting style. For some, that’s short sentences. For others, it might be long, detailed paragraphs. Guys that fall into the first group should make an effort to text a girl a paragraph every so often. Girls love to get a paragraph telling them everything that you love about them. 

Writing a paragraph requires a little bit of thought if you’ve never done it before. You should text a girl what you love about her. Even if you think she’s pretty, don’t focus too much on her appearance. It makes you sound shallow. In fact, don’t focus too much on any one thing. Instead, make each sentence something different that you love about her. 

14. Don’t forget the good night text

When you text a girl, the conversation naturally comes to a stop. However, that doesn’t mean that you’re done texting for the day if you want her to fall in love with you. Before she goes to bed at night, make sure to send her a good night text. 

This shouldn’t simply say good night. Tell her that you hope she sleeps well, too. 

15. Don’t use pet names too soon

If you haven’t met the girl yet, she’s not your baby. Instead, call her by her name. Then, after the two of you meet and hit it off, you can start safely calling her pet names. 

Breaking out calling her sweetheart or baby too soon can be a huge turn-off to a girl. It can also imply that you’re more interested than you are. Right now, stick with calling her by her name or preferred nickname. 

16. Use proper grammar

Some people don’t mind when you don’t use proper grammar, but others do. Make sure to at least use question marks at the end of a question. Using proper grammar when texting girls can also make you look more educated and professional, which is something that girls love. 

In general, the older a woman is, the more she appreciates proper grammar. This also includes useless abbreviations, such as using the letter Y instead of typing out why. Avoid misspelling words if you can. 

17. Let her set the tone

When you’re texting a girl, you should mirror the way that she texts. This is how you let her set the tone. If she uses emojis at the end of every message, you should use an emoji here and there. When girls text longer paragraphs, they appreciate getting them back too. How fast she responds is how fast she expects you to respond. 

18. Don’t just compliment her looks

Texting girls involves a lot more than simply telling her that she looks pretty. Complimenting her is always a great idea, but you don’t want to focus on her looks. Instead, tell her what else you like about her. It could be that she’s smart or always knows cool facts about things. 

This doesn’t mean that you should never compliment her looks. If you’re Facetiming, there’s nothing wrong with telling her that it’s great to see her face. Any time it comes to a girl's face, timing is a great time to compliment her. 

19. Send the longest message while she’s sleeping

This is one of the best tips you’re going to hear. Girls love getting paragraphs. It’s even better if she’s asleep. As soon as she wakes up, she’ll check her phone. Then, she’ll read your paragraph and start the day with a smile on her face. It’s the perfect way to make her fall in love. 

20. Don’t overuse punctuation and emojis unless she does it first

Remember that you want to match her tone. So, if she ends sentences frequently with several exclamation points, it means that you can too. If she doesn't, the overuse of punctuation can be overwhelming. This same rule applies to using emojis. Don’t put multiple smiling faces unless you see her do the same. 

21. Text her for a reason

To find out what she’s doing is not a good reason to text a girl. Instead, you should be texting her with a purpose in mind. Do you want to ask her out on a date? Are you trying to learn more about her? When you keep this in mind, you’ll realize it’s one of the best tips that you need to follow. You’ll instantly start steering the conversation toward that goal, eliminating awkward silences too. 

22. Make her wait a little at the beginning

It might sound like a dream come true to have someone right there to text all day, but emotionally healthy girls that are looking for a healthy relationship aren’t okay with that. They’d prefer it if you have a life outside of them. You need hobbies, a job, friends, etc. 

That means that you shouldn’t have time to immediately text back. If you’re not busy and in between jobs, either find something to do or at least wait to text her back. 

You should match her texting speed, but not until after the first date. This is one of the best tips for making a girl fall in love over text that you need to remember. 

23. Role play

When you role-play over text, it doesn’t have to be sexual. You can both get into character and have some fun with this! Check out this article for more tips on role-playing over text. 

24. Avoid double texting

If it takes her a minute to respond, don’t double-text her. Triple texting is even worse. Even if the girl did like you, it’s going to fade away when you come off as needy. This is another reason why guys need to have a life outside of their relationship. You can’t depend on a girl to keep you entertained all day. It simply isn’t going to work out. 

Instead, put your phone down after texting a girl. Find something to do. Then, go back to it later. Or at least don’t look at it again for fifteen minutes. Go do something fun to keep yourself distracted. 

25. Compliment her the right way

Every girl loves to get compliments. However, there are plenty of guys that send generic compliments. For example, calling a girl pretty or sweet. These are probably the same messages that the girl has in her inbox from random strangers too. You don’t want to have anything in common with them. 

Instead, you want your compliments to stand out a bit. Make sure that she realizes that you notice her, and things about her when you compliment her. Tell her that you love her new purse or that she does a great job dying her own hair. Send her messages that let her know that you love how friendly she is. Texting that message will help you stand out, and let her know that you notice things about her. 

26. Be sweet

We still live in a society that is packed with toxic masculinity. Guys are under the impression that they have to be strong and tough all the time, including when they are texting a girl. That isn’t the case. Granted, a girl loves a guy that is big and strong. However, there is nothing wrong with being fun, silly, or sweet either. 

For example, send her pictures of you smiling. Share a sweet story that is guaranteed to warm her heart. Tell her a funny joke every once in a while. Send her a message that is a sweet poem or song lyric. There are ways that you can still be manly and sweet at the same time. Finding that balance is essential to getting a girl to fall in love over texting. 

27. Show her how great you are

Every guy wants a girl to know how awesome they are. Unfortunately, this can lead to sending one message after another telling her how much money you make or about your great personality traits. Don’t do that. It’s going to make you look cocky. 

Instead, you want to show a girl how fun and amazing you are. Send her text messages to get her to go out on a date with you. Then, make sure that the two of you have fun. Don’t constantly tell a girl how great you are. Instead, tell her what you love about her. 

28. Don’t brag

Even if you’re proud of yourself, try to avoid mentioning your accomplishment too much if you mention it at all. For example, saying things like “Looks like I’m the top donor at my charity again!” sounds arrogant. It also makes you look like an attention whore. You are texting a girl to get to know her and have some fun, not to get her to stroke your ego. 

29. Avoid jokes that could be inappropriate or offensive

There’s nothing wrong with having some fun with a girl. There’s also nothing wrong with telling a girl a funny joke. However, what you consider funny she might find offensive. Avoid jokes on topics that people might not find funny, such as race, religion, or politics. It’s a great idea to stay away from controversial topics such as abortion, gun control, etc. as well. Once you get to know a girl better, you’ll find out what style her sense of humor is. 

30. Make a mental note when she tells you something

If a girl takes the time to talk to you about something, that’s a good indicator that it’s important to her. Remember things that she tells you, especially if it’s about her life. This could be her job or favorite color. Remembering intimate memories or stories that she shares with you is especially important. If you don’t, she’ll assume that you aren’t interested or don’t pay attention. 

Then, show her that you remember by mentioning it to her. Ask her if she’s ever taken her pet to a certain spot, and make sure to call the pet by its name. Inquire about things that she mentions. For example, if she says that a family member is sick, ask her how they are doing the next day. This not only shows that you were listening, but it also shows that you care about her. That’s how you get her to care about you through texting. 

31. Don’t just tease her all the time

Being playful is wonderful. It shows her that you can have some fun. Telling jokes and smiling are also great. However, you can’t rely on playful teasing to get you into and through a relationship. In fact, this single tactic can actually keep you from a relationship. 

Girls like a guy that can be playful. However, they prefer a relationship with guys that can communicate. You should be able to speak about your feelings and properly communicate your ideas. This includes when something bothers you. If all you’ve got is being playful, don’t expect her to stay interested in going on a date for long. 

When you do tease her, don’t be insulting. We’re not in grade school anymore. Saying she’s cute for a blonde and that you usually prefer redheads is not going to earn you brownie points. Instead, it can make her wonder if she’s even your type. Avoid that type of teasing. 

32. Try calling her

Sending long texts is a great idea, but you need to call her every once in a while. As the two of you move towards a relationship, you’ll find that you should be texting, calling, and spending time together. After so long, she’ll start to wonder why you don’t call her or FaceTime her. It’s natural for people to call other people when they are excited about something, so make sure to do just that. Then, she’ll reciprocate and call you when she is excited about something and wants to share it with you. 

It can be a bit awkward to randomly call someone if you’ve never spoken on the phone before. You can make it more comfortable by asking if you can call them. Another great idea is to say that you would love to hear her voice. Then, see how she responds. This can tell you whether she is on board with talking to you on the phone or not. 

33. Let her know when you have to go

Don’t leave a girl wondering. It’s common for guys to stop texting in the middle of a conversation to make a girl wait. However, this can be seen as rude. Imagine if you were having a conversation in person, and she just suddenly stopped responding. You would find yourself wondering what was going on. She’ll think that you lost interest or don’t want to speak to her anymore. Don’t make a girl think that. 

Instead, let her know when you have something to do. Close the conversation out by telling her that you have things to do, and you’ll talk to her later. If it’s close to your bedtime, tell her that you are about to get some rest and you’ll talk to her tomorrow. If you don’t, she’ll get tired of wondering whether you still have an interest in her or not. 

34. Flirt with her

If you want to make your way out of the friend zone, you need to flirt with her every once in a while. This can also show a girl that you have an interest beyond just being friends. You want her to know that you like her as more than a friend. 

Learning how to flirt with a girl over text is essential to make a girl fall in love with you. You can’t touch her like you normally would in person so you have to make up for that. Use lines like “Make sure you get plenty of rest for when I see you tomorrow” to make her smile. If you can make a girl smile, you’re flirting with her. You can also use flirty emojis like the faces with heart eyes to make a girl smile. 

35. Don’t mention sex all the time

I think it’s important to know whether you and someone else are sexually compatible before moving forward. However, you don’t want to mention sex all the time. This can easily make a girl think that you just want to sleep with them. She’ll think that you’re just excited about the possibility of her in the bedroom and don’t want to date her. Forget about getting out of the friend zone if you don’t express that you like her for more than sex. 

If you do mention sex, make sure that you mention other cool things too. Tell her what else you like about her. Let her know that you enjoy her personality or are fascinated by her hobbies. 

FAQs

In Conclusion

If you hope to make a girl fall in love with you, these are the best tips to follow. Remember, you should text her with the goal of getting to know her better. What else should a guy keep in mind when texting a girl?

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Their potential for interesting conversations is second to none. They always have a plan for food and don’t even get me started on the sex. If you are hooking up with a stoner, it’s not abnormal to start considering a steadier arrangement, like a relationship based largely on how enhanced everything feels with them.

Before you give in to that urge, though, take it from someone who’s been on both sides of the table and just don’t date a pothead. Here’s why:

11 Reasons Why You Should Never Date A Pothead

1. They spend all their money on weed and munchies

It’s simple. Good weed costs money and you wouldn’t exactly be a pothead if you didn’t take lots of it. A typical regular marijuana user also likes to have all the necessary (and often unnecessary) paraphernalia – your ashtray, tips, crusher, bongs, vape, roller, bowls, etc. These things are also not cheap, plus there’s always a new one you want.

Then there’s the actual stuff you do with the high. Some strains literally get you high while some relax you, but they all give you the munchies. This means a revolving door of takeout, snacks, drinks, more snacks, home-cooked meals, just about anything that can go in the mouth. 

Given it takes an extra ounce of discipline for a cannabis user to even keep functioning as normal, making up for the constant expenditure can be challenging. For a non-trust fund baby that can make them financially unstable at best, putting it on you to pitch in to save them from money troubles sometimes.

2. You’ll always be playing second fiddle to their first love. – M.J

A true pothead believes more in his pot than anything else. They may not say it, but the only thing your stoner boyfriend or girlfriend considers indispensable is their green. Don’t get me wrong, they may genuinely enjoy your company, maybe even fall in love with you, but if push comes to shove and they have to rate, you won’t win.

You simply won’t be their sole priority ever. If they have to choose between splurging on a date with you and securing their next smoke, the only instance where they pick you is when there’s an alternative source. Their mood, plans, your sexual life, and generally everything a typical dating relationship involves will revolve around marijuana with a pothead.

3. You only get the complete package when they are high

Whatever they use to reel you in, whether it’s the life-changing sex or how funny they are, you can’t count on them to always give. In other words, life is only as good with a pothead as their current stash. 

They are not just less fun sober, sometimes it’s like being with a whole different person. It’s not that they cannot do the same things they do high before blazing, just that the promise of doing it in an enhanced state slaps better.

And that’s all well and good when there’s a steady supply, but on occasions when money or the plug fails, you learn just how much weight marijuana pulls in their daily life. Without it, in place of your chill boyfriend or girlfriend, you get a grumpy, restless guy or girl who doesn’t know what to do with their mood swings.

4. They will smoke all your weed then eat all your food

If you are a pot smoker yourself, dating one means neither your weed nor your food is ever safe when they are around. Stoners like to share all right, but it’s a big difference between passing the blunt during one hang and having someone constantly run you out because they want it every time they are around. The same applies to the voracity with which they come after your food.

Whether or not you are partial to Mary Jane, if you are not big on sharing, dating a pothead who loves the same things as you will take some getting used to, at best.

5. You are constantly around temptation

As I said earlier, the whole point of taking marijuana is living the high. You are happy, open, content, yet craving things. The problem is that regular marijuana use puts one at risk of becoming a slave to the base instincts it pushes to the surface, such that you begin to live for the high. 

Subsequently, chasing that feeling becomes the only thing that truly excites the stoner. Thus, a cycle of consuming marijuana, getting horngry, and finding a release somehow (often through masturbation or sex) forms. Dating a pothead means regular exposure to all these plus their hedonistic tendencies, which can rather quickly sway your stance.

If you don’t smoke, you can accidentally eat an edible and suddenly realize “weed isn’t that bad.” You may not become a 420 activist right away, but between all the food, fun, and orgasms you may have no choice but to share in, one can get carried away. 

6. The lethargy tends to rub off on you

If you spend a lot of time with someone, it’s natural to subconsciously pick up on some of their qualities. Unfortunately, it’s not just the ‘good’ effects of marijuana that people in relationships with stoners tend to share in, but the undesirable as well. A true stoner is nothing if not one with their couch, especially those who take indica-dominant strains. 

Now, their lifestyle may seem low-maintenance and hip at first, but if it doesn’t chase you away when it gets old, it’ll likely rub off on you. Enthusiasm will be in short supply in such a relationship, that’s for sure, because a chronic cannabis smoker isn’t interested in much else, let alone motivating a whole other person.

If you are lucky, you can sit on your ass together all day, rolling up, eating, having sexy times until you wake up one day to realize how much you’ve let go.

7. They will zone out on you… a lot

Marijuana is known to slow cognitive functions like listening and processing information as well as attention span. In other words, your partner isn’t going to be attentive a lot of the time if they smoke weed regularly. They won’t be doing this on purpose, they might even start conversations but trail off in between.

You will have your share of comfortable silences, but a lot of them will be because your s/o is in a world of their own. Meaningful conversations will either get postponed or happen on their terms. 

You will be in the same room and still feel distant because your partner is either too stoned or too sober to talk. Their quietness will make you anxious because you don’t know if they have a problem with you or just high. 

8. You have to deal with the side effects

Faster aging, dependency, paranoia, mood swings, anxiety, depression, lung damage, unhealthy relationship with food, and weakened immune system are some effects linked with the pothead lifestyle. When your stoner date isn’t on edge, you have to deal with their emotional withdrawal. 

They can be so extremely low on energy that it extends to your sex life: taking the popular stoner sexual edge stoners off the table. Or, they can go the other way and literally wear you out.

Excessive cannabis use is also bad for the baby you may not even get to have. Overexposure can knock down your chances of fertility by impairing sperm quality or the development of children produced thereof. 

9. It’s a slippery slope to real drug addiction

Smoking weed certainly has its share of risks, with a high chance of dependency and drug addiction being commonly linked with heavy use. With it, tolerance builds, and you have to take a lot more or try a stronger strain to reach the same level of highness. 

Between that, their general open-mindedness, and hedonistic inclinations, it’s not uncommon for cannabis smokers to crave a different, more intense high, which is where other harmful drugs usually come in. Without discipline, ‘wake and bake’ mutates into a deeper dive into substance abuse which is why marijuana, like alcohol and nicotine, is considered a gateway drug.

10. You risk being judged

We try, but the stoner lifestyle has a way of giving itself away. Most potheads are either the activist type or the ‘bum’ who is always quite literally stoned (read: couch-locked). The former lives and breathes cannabis, from their social media presence to real-life appearance, you can just tell their favorite number will be 420.

The latter may not be quite as vocal about weed, or anything, to be frank, but people around may notice it in the way they smell, act, or look. Either way, if you spend a lot of time with someone who smokes frequently, you sign up to be held to the same standards as them, whatever that is for stoners in your orbit.

11. A pothead can be emotionally immature

Weed lets you escape (or at least postpone) dealing with stuff, if you’ve been doing it long enough, it can be the only way you know how to cope with anything. You’re angry, you want a joint. When someone frustrates you, you crave one. You are faced with a decision, basic or life-changing, and you want to wait till you’ve had a few puffs. 

Fights, work stuff, basically anything that counts as a stressful situation is a reason to roll one. Now, however blissful, it’s normal for a relationship to stress you out sometimes, what with the occasional difficult conversations and generally adjusting to another person. 

For someone who is used to retreating to their own little world, you can see how dating a stoner can pose a challenge in terms of emotional availability and moving forward.

FAQs

In Conclusion

Marijuana, pot, cannabis, Mary Jane, whatever you call it, is a beautiful gift of nature. However, being natural doesn't make it inherently good and can very well lead to addiction. That said, the 420 lifestyle is a choice both for those who partake and those who desire to date them. You either take it or break from it.

Have you dated a pothead before, or are you one yourself? Share your experience along with what you think or realized about them in the comments. Share the article too, if you liked it. 

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You see, learning to cope when missing your boyfriend typically involves you refocusing your mind on other areas of your life that may have been neglected - knowingly or unknowingly. Besides, there's no need to be so sad. Instead, you should see this as an opportunity to explore guilt-free, exciting, and perhaps, once-in-a-lifetime opportunity to have solo fun. 

So, if for whatever reason your boyfriend is away for a week and you don’t know what to do with your free time or how best to cope when you miss him, here are 31 interesting and exciting things you can do to kill time. These activities allow you to learn more about yourself, revive old friendships, and of course, build a stronger bond with your partner.

31 Things To Do When Your Boyfriend Is Away For A Week

1. Stop worrying about how he is spending time away

First things first, stop thinking and worrying! Don't be overly obsessed with what your boyfriend is doing without you. It doesn't matter if he is on a business trip or assignment; the truth is, you will need to trust him. Besides, if you find yourself overly concerned about your partner's activities away from you, it could be a sign of attachment anxiety.

Admittedly, missing and worrying about him is normal, especially if it is the first time being apart for an extended period. Nevertheless, don't let your worry turn into obsession or paranoia, as this could mean you have abandonment issues. As such, you are scared of getting hurt. Instead, accept that your time apart is good for your relationship and use it as an opportunity to enjoy your own company.

2. Talk regularly

You probably already know this, but constant communication is the best way to maintain your relationship even when you are in different cities. 

Healthy communication ensures that you both do not feel left out of each other's lives, and when you are reuniting, it would be easy to catch up on things - like you were never apart. So whether it's text messages, phone calls, or video calls, make sure you talk as frequently as possible.

For instance, you can fix specific times to talk to each other during the day. Perhaps at the start of your day and the end, where you get to talk about your day.

3. Take a short trip

So your man is out of town, and you miss him. Great. However, instead of sitting at home pouting over his posts, waiting for the phone to ring, or counting down till his return date, perhaps it is time to go on a short trip.

Pick a spot within your city or a nearby town and plan a road trip. You could always do this alone or with friends to make it more exciting. Alternatively, you can drive to the outskirts of your city and get lost in the sights and sounds of nature. 

The great thing about going on a trip during this period is that it is guilt-free, and you don't have to feel bad for leaving your partner home.

4. Watch the movie/ show you never agreed on

It doesn't matter how in sync you may be in your relationship, there will always be something you disagree on, and in this case, it might be a movie or show. Perhaps you enjoy watching reality shows, but your partner doesn't seem to understand why you find the lives of wealthy women married to millionaire husbands so interesting. 

Well, great! Now is an excellent time to catch up on all those shows you put off because you couldn't watch them together. Revive the freedom you had in your single days, where you could watch whatever you wanted without guilt or judgment. 

5. Work out and get in shape

Except if you or your boyfriend are fitness enthusiasts, there are high chances that you are not in your best form, and it's understandable. When you are in a relationship and live with your partner, the decision on what to eat does not solely lie on you - it is a collective decision. Therefore, it is easy to struggle with diets and healthy eating because you are more likely to eat what's available.

So in this time, with your boyfriend away, you should consider getting back in shape by adopting a healthier lifestyle. This could mean making more nutritious meals and working out. Besides, exercising can help you feel less lonely about your partner's absence.

6. Learn something new

While you can focus on doing the same things you did while single, remember that the internet is resourceful, where you can learn just about anything for free, from millions of youtube to niche blogs and social media pages, the possibilities are endless. 

Therefore, now is a good time to channel your energy into learning something new or perfecting what you already know. It doesn't have to be something as serious as a course or certification. You can opt to learn how to do your makeup, style your wardrobe, or even dance. 

7. Reconnect with old friends

Sitting at home alone, waiting, and counting down to your partner's return won't make you feel any less lonely or make him return sooner than expected. Instead, you are more likely to feel worse and depressed. So use this opportunity to reconnect with old friends with whom your busy life and relationship did not permit you to spend time. 

This could mean spending extra time with your best friend, planning a visit to your friend's new office, or having a coffee date with them to catch up on your life.

8. Go on a solo date (movie or restaurant)

Have you ever gone out alone, without your boyfriend or friends to accompany you? You probably can't remember, and that's one of the perks of being in a relationship. However, this beautiful perk can become self-destructive if you do not push yourself to learn how to do things independently.

Now that your boyfriend is away for a couple of days, it is an excellent time to go on a solo date for the first time. This can be to the movies, for ice cream, or for dinner. Either way, you will be spending quality time with yourself.

Oh, by the way, don't forget to send him pictures of your outfit and what you're eating. It will make him miss you more, and wish he could share in the fun.

9. Visit the spa or treat yourself to one at home

It doesn't matter that he'll be away for a couple of days or even weeks, the fact is, you miss him, and it is challenging. Therefore, you deserve a treat for going through these emotions - or don't you think so? 

A spa day where you can get a massage, your feet scrubbed, a manicure, and a pedicure might be the answer. So pick up your phone and browse online for a reliable and legitimate spa. 

After all, being away from your partner is challenging, and you deserve some pampering for dealing with the emotions.

10. Enjoy the bed alone

Sure, cuddling with your partner every night is great, but have you tried sleeping freely with your arms and legs spread wide? Exactly, I guess not because if you have, you will know how amazing that too can be. 

Goodbye to sticking to your side of the bed or limiting yourself to sleeping with just one pillow. Now that you have the bed to yourself, it's time to let your legs and hands spread on the bed, and even better, you can now sleep with as many pillows as you like. In your defense, it'll make up for your partner's warmth.

11. Redecorate

Some alone time can just be what you need to realize that your home needs a makeover. I remember being stuck at home during the pandemic and the decor changes I achieved at the end of it all. 

The thing is, when you live with someone, certain things are not apparent to you. However, it is easy to determine how every space, furniture, and item makes you feel when you are alone. Therefore, you might want to consider redecorating your home or getting new furniture (if you can afford it).

This will keep you busy and could also act as an element of surprise for your partner when he returns.

12. Take up extra work hours

Okay, girl, quiet moping around and feeling sorry for yourself. It's time to grind some more and make some money while at it.

It can be challenging to commit to more work hours when your boyfriend is around because you want to maintain a balanced relationship between your work and your romantic life. However, since he is away, now might be the best time to rake in those extra work hours without worrying about who is up and waiting for you at home.

13. Learn new recipes

I bet you are tired of having the same meals every week. However, you have either been too lazy to come up with something new or cannot prepare the meals you would love to have. 

You might want to use this free time to review your meal plan and see where you can tweak it, what you can remove, and what you can add to make your meals more exciting and enjoyable. 

Even better, consider browsing for new recipes for future use or learning how to make your boyfriend's favorite meals. After all, the way to a man's heart is the belly, and this will add spice to your relationship.

14. Clean your wardrobe

Just as we noticed a change in Kim Kardashian's wardrobe when she got together with Kanye West, it is possible that your relationship has had an influence on your personal style - and that is not a bad thing. If at all, it shows that you and your partner are evolving together. 

A good way to deal with missing your boyfriend is by using this time apart to clean your wardrobe. For instance, take stock of all the items you have outgrown, no longer use, or do not like anymore and let them go. 

I have realized that whenever I miss my partner and decide to organize my wardrobe, I am reminded of all the clothes he loves to see me wear, thereby replacing my loneliness with good memories and brightening up my day.

15. Make art or craft to celebrate your relationship

While you could always buy a new throw blanket, dream catcher, or painting from the store, it becomes more sentimental when you make it yourself. So now that you miss your boyfriend, perhaps you should consider getting your hands messy with art and craft projects.

A project like this can help you shift your energy from missing your partner to getting creative. Besides, it will make for a great conversation next time you talk to him, and it'll make him eager to come home and see what you were up to while he was away. So pull out your paintbrush, crochet needle, and color supplies; it's time to get creative!

16. Take stock of unfinished projects and complete them

Whatever happened to your plan to reorganize the pantry, or when do you intend to start using that sewing machine you got at a garage sale? I bet you forgot. That's alright, no judgment. However, now that you miss your partner, perhaps it is time to stay busy with these forgotten plans and projects. 

For instance, if you have always intended to change your room's paint color, now is a good time to get on with it. Turn on some feel-good music that will bring up fond memories of your boyfriend and get painting.

17. Plan a special activity for when he returns

Okay, I'm not going to sit here and tell you not to get so busy that you no longer have to anticipate your partner's return. It's normal to miss him and look forward to when he returns. Nevertheless, you can make this process more exciting and less painful by planning a future activity that you will do together, from how it will happen to where it will happen.

Great examples include recreating your first date, booking a concert ticket, taking up a diet, or starting a new exercise routine together. This way, when you count down, you are not simply counting down till he returns, but you are also counting down to the start of something new.

18. Visit an animal shelter

When humans disappoint, animals won't, especially dogs. Maybe that's a bit too grim considering your boyfriend isn't a disappointment, but you get the point. If you feel terrible and lonely about not being with your partner, visiting an animal shelter can make you feel better.

It doesn't matter if you're a cat or dog person; being around these creatures can be good for your physical, emotional, and mental health. It can help you lose track of time and lower your stress levels, causing you to miss him less.

19. Journal your feelings

Journaling is a great way to train the mind and keep track of your emotional and mental health. However, this time, you will also be journaling it as a cute way to have your boyfriend know how you coped with missing him. 

Get creative with your journaling by creating something special. For instance, you can use a fancy notebook and calligraphy pen to write heartfelt love letters that describe how much you miss him and how you are spending your time apart. In addition, if you're feeling up to it, you can add illustrations.

20. Schedule online dates

So what if your boyfriend is miles away? It doesn't mean you have to miss out on happiness or the joy that comes with talking all the time. Thanks to technology, out of sight doesn't have to be out of mind. 

So, ensure that you take advantage of video chat channels and use them to stay in touch with your man. A great way to do this would be to schedule online dinner dates at a convenient time for both of you. This way, you get to dress up nicely for the video call, order takeout, and talk while eating. It would be just like he was with you there.

21. Volunteer in your community

I know what you're thinking. You're probably wondering what's volunteering got to do with missing your boyfriend. I get it. However, what you may not know is that at this moment, you are not only missing your boyfriend, but you also miss having a companion, and this is where volunteering can provide comfort.

When you volunteer in your community, irrespective of the task, it gives you a sense of pride, confidence and also offers the opportunity to make new friends. Besides, taking up a new challenge can make you stop thinking too much about your boyfriend's absence and focus more on the task at hand.

22. Take up a DIY project

I love DIY projects! Only a few things beat wearing dungarees and dusting off your work tools from the garage on a lovely weekend, and that's because embarking on DIY projects gives you a sense of control.

Perhaps your boyfriend is away on an assignment that is beyond his control. This can make you feel sad and helpless. However, embarking on a successful DIY project, on the other hand, can overturn these feelings into positive ones by making you feel empowered, capable, and strong.

23. Wear his clothes

Cross-dressing can be fun, especially if you pair a few pieces with some of your clothes. So, what are you waiting for? Now is the perfect time to rummage through your boyfriend's wardrobe without restrictions.

Not only will this activity bring you joy, but you can also use it to tease him. For instance, wear his shirt or hoodie and take a picture in it. When he sees this, he might feign annoyance, but deep down, he is happy to see you in his clothes. It will also make your boyfriend terribly miss you.

24. Have a girls' night out

One might think this is set in stone, but having your partner out of town is a great time to spend the night out with your girls shamelessly. Invite your favorite girls and, maybe boys, to your place for an exciting night of laughter, games, dance, food, and of course, drinks.

The great thing about nights like this is that you can choose to go out or stay indoors. Also, if you're on a budget, you can ask your friends to bring something along.

25. Visit your family

If you don't live with your family, chances are you haven't been home in a while. Between balancing your career, school work, and maintaining a relationship, it can be tough finding the time to visit them as much as they would. 

However, now that your partner isn't around, plan a visit to your family if you ever feel lonely or desperate for company. They will be happy to see you and can afford to give you the emotional support you need as you miss your boyfriend.

26. Refocus your energy on decluttering

Let's be honest, when last did you walk into your garage and deep clean it? It's probably been a while. Your excuse has perhaps been the lack of time. Well, now you have it, ample time to declutter, and rearrange some things within your home.

27. Watch his favorite movie

So while your boyfriend's absence can be a good time to binge on the movies and shows you never agreed on, this period can also be used to watch his favorite movie. 

Admittedly, it may not be your favorite or even something you like, but watching it will help you better understand who he is and help you see things from his perspective. Also, it can make you feel close to him and not miss him badly.

28. Go shopping

When you miss your boyfriend, the simple trick to feel better is to refocus your energy on the fun things that bring you joy and happiness. So, if shopping is what makes you happy and you can afford it, then do it. You can also choose to get something for your partner. It doesn't have to be something expensive. Cute socks, a silly mug, or his favorite snack are some items that can put a smile on his face.

29. Get a new haircut

If you're big on surprises or have been dying to try a new look, you can do that now. A new haircut or color that suits you will be a pleasant surprise for your boyfriend when he returns from his trip, considering if it’s been quite some time since he saw you.

Even better, you can ask him for suggestions and see if they align with what you have in mind. That way, he will miss you and look forward to seeing you.

30. Be grateful

You may not know this, but missing your boyfriend isn't a bad feeling in its entirety. On the contrary, it is a good thing because it proves you have a good and healthy relationship. 

Not many people can proudly testify to experiencing true love in a healthy relationship, so for you to miss your man means you have this, and that's a blessing. So, use this time to practice gratitude for all the ways your boyfriend is an amazing man.

31. Do a dance challenge

Dance challenges are a new trend on social media. One might think that because they are so popular, they are easy. On the contrary, learning these dance moves can be challenging and time-consuming. You can take up rehearsing these steps. Not only are they interesting, but they'll also help you stay fit.

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In Conclusion

Missing your boyfriend can put your mental and emotional state on an unstable wave, especially if it is your first time apart. However, you can implement these 31 tips on what to do when your boyfriend is away while waiting for his return. 

I hope you enjoyed reading this post. If yes, please leave a comment behind and don't forget to share.

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Some issues, however, are more serious than others, and having mommy issues is definitely at the top of that list. Many men have these problems and may not even know it. If you're currently dating a mama's boy, I'd advise that you run out of that relationship and never look back. However, some people are way too in love to break up with their partner over this.

If you're in this category, then you need a special set of skills to maintain a healthy relationship and to stay sane while dealing with him. Here are a few tips on how to deal with a guy who has mommy issues. 

7 Ways How To Deal With A Guy With Mommy Issues

1. Understand him

If you’re dating a guy who has a mommy issue and you insist on staying with him, it means you need to come to terms with the whole situation. You’ve got to accept the fact that he’s going to be insecure sometimes until he seeks psychological help, there’s not much you can do about that. So, you’ve got to understand him; understand that being neglected by a mother leads to tough adult life. 

Love and trust are issues he may struggle the most with, so you have to be there for him. If he questions your love for him from time to time, try not to get angry or upset. Calmly assure him that you love him and you'll be there for him no matter what. Bear in mind that this takes a lot of patience.

2. Let him know he can trust you

Mothers play a vital role in a child's all-around development. This doesn't mean that the other parent is insignificant, it's just that a mother's role is so important that neglecting these roles will often affect the child in adulthood. 

Consequently, you may need to do a little extra work assuring him that he can trust you. This does not only involve telling him but also showing him that you’re trustworthy. Keep in mind that this isn’t something he gives easily and he may even secretly test you from time to time. 

If you’re being honest with yourself, the constant skepticism may annoy you, but there’s not much you can do about it. The best you can do is advise him to go for therapy. Describe to him how his behavior affects you, that ought to work. 

If he experienced neglect or betrayal from his mom, he may purposely refuse to believe anyone, especially women. This means it may take a long while to gain his trust, it will require constant reassurance, patience, and effort. So get ready for friction, confrontations, and even a passive-aggressive attitude on his part.

3. Encourage him to get his own space

Children who have a complicated relationship with their mom, grow up to have a strange attachment to her. That's why it's better for them to stay as far away from their mother as possible. If your boyfriend is a mama’s boy, living with his mother would only encourage more dependence. That is something you do not want because he will definitely put his relationship with his mother before you. 

Putting their mother-son relationship before yours means he will side with her on every subject, make you the third wheel, or even discuss details of your relationship with her. It's worse if you live together, having his mom around will make you very uncomfortable and may even take a toll on your sex life.

Although some issues may still arise whether he lives with his mom or not, living apart will go a long way to help. So, try talking him into getting his own place away from his mom. 

4. Set boundaries

As soon as you notice certain behavioral patterns in your partner, you need to set clear boundaries. For example, if your partner is used to being pampered by his mom, he may be under the impression that the world owes him things. 

He may expect you to clean up after him, do his laundry, and excuse his childish behavior. It's very necessary for you to let him know that you are not his mother and you will not play into that role. Define your role and the direction you'd prefer the relationship to move in, then do your best to stick to it so he doesn’t take you for granted. 

Initially, he may attempt to manipulate you or use your emotions to trick you into doing his bidding, but you need to put your foot down. Don’t let his accusations get to you, waiting on him does not mean that you love him. Love involves judicious giving and taking, etc. When he’s with his dear mother he can act like a toddler but when he’s with you, he’s expected to respect your boundaries. 

5. Avoid talking about moms or mother figures

There's a truckload of topics to talk about that don't involve your own mothers, try your best to stick to these topics. This does not mean you should act a certain way when he talks about his family, the idea is to focus more on topics that don't remind him of his neglect or over-pampering.

If your spouse went through some trouble with his mom, you don't want to go on and on about your mom and the perfect little life you had growing up, it would just make him feel worse about his situation. 

For example, when you're having dinner together, that's not the best time to bring up your family's soul food Sundays, going on and on about how delicious your mom's cooking was. This will only remind him of all the things he lacked on the part of his mom. 

6. Do not confront her

No matter how bad things are between your spouse and his mom, it's not your responsibility to confront her about it. Try and stay out of their issues as much as you can; not out of fear but just to keep the peace. This does not mean that you shouldn't support your spouse, just support him without getting actively involved. 

This also applies to the disagreements you have with her, find a way to stand your ground without turning it into a major argument. If you can't stand her, perhaps try to avoid her more. Also, give him a chance to stand up for you, so sometimes try to stand down. 

7. Don’t be afraid to go to therapy or ask for advice

Dating a person who's suffering from the psychological effects of their childhood can hurt your own mental health. If you're being honest with yourself, being an emotional clutch is not easy, you need someone to lean on too. So, don't expect to be a superwoman, seek help.

You could choose to go to therapy at least once or twice a week or ask for advice from people you trust. However you do it, try your best to get help and emotional support. 

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In Conclusion

I hope you found this article helpful. Don't forget that being with a guy who has mama issues is not the easiest thing to do, you've got to be patient with him. Please let me know what you think about this article in the comment section below, and remember to share it with friends.

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What red flags would go away? What signs of deterioration could disappear? Would your relationship be better or worse? How would your lives be different if you weren’t dealing with this?

My hope is that this article gives you the desire to resolve your issues, the stress that is being caused by this emotionally draining relationship. Instead, I want you to have engaging, productive interactions with your partner. I want to increase your awareness of your suffering, too, so that you will realize what a struggle you are facing by staying in this union.

How to Fix an Emotionally Draining Relationship

1. Take a break from the relationship

As you may have heard me recommend in other articles, sometimes, you just need a break from the relationship. Consider taking a three-month break from each other. During that time, do not communicate in any way. Just exchange your stuff, as if the two of you were going through a breakup, and go your separate ways.

I had a serious boyfriend of 10 months, and I was testing him by joking around and saying that we needed to take a break. I mostly said this because I wanted him to commit more and argue with me about what I had just said. Boy, did that ever backfire against me! Instead of him disagreeing with me, he said, “Let’s do it!”

I never actually thought it was a good idea, but it was genius! We decided to take a serious break with no talking for three months, and when the three months were over, I realized that we didn’t really need to be together for any reason. On the other hand, he came running back to me, wanting to get back together. We never did! My choice!!

2. Give each other some space

When you are fighting or arguing, or things get heated, consider taking some space from one another. Go to your car and listen to music, hit the gym, or just go take a hot bath. Shut the door and take some space away from each other to think about what you want to say next. This will give you both time to cool your jets and think things over calmly.

3. Consider focusing on your own happiness

Think about what is best for you. Turn to your support system - friends and family who understand what is going on with you and your partner. Ask them for advice. Consider seeing a therapist if you don’t have a support system. Explain the problems you see in your relationship and ask for help. People will gladly support you!

4. Be patient and understanding

One of the best things you can do is to be patient and understanding. If you can show empathy, the art of putting yourself in someone else’s shoes, you will be able to recognize where you might be having problems and see how to fix them best. You may also just not let these fights or rollercoasters of emotions affect you so much!

5. Determine the reason your relationship is like this

Is it your partner that is causing all of the problems in your relationship? Are you the problem? Do you both fuel off each other? In other words, it is very possible that the two of you are each too emotional and just make the situation worse when you argue or discuss the events of the day. It doesn’t have to be a big argument to be unhealthy.

6. Talk it over with your partner

It is a very smart idea to discuss this problem with your partner. Find out if they agree that your relationship is draining. Are they running into the same dilemma as you are? You will only know if you ask them questions and discuss your relationship issues.

7. Resolve conflict in new ways

If you typically have screaming matches or just talk things to death, maybe try a different approach. Consider writing your partner a letter about what is going on. Send them an email or text message with your thoughts on the subject. If you approach things in a new way, there is a good chance the results will be better.

8. Communicate better

Listening is something that most people do not know how to do. If you have trouble understanding your partner, it may be because you do not know how to listen. To listen effectively, pay close attention, eliminating distractions. Also, show with your body language that you are hearing and understanding their words. Learn to listen!

You should also try to watch what you say and what tone you say things in. If you tend to have a negative tone, your partner is likely to respond in a negative way. Think before you speak!

9. Decide if the relationship is worth it

Sometimes, the time has come to just end things. It’s never the preferred option, but if your partner is causing you to feel emotionally drained all of the time, you cannot continue to live like this without serious damage to your health! Weigh the pros and cons of staying together to decide if your partner is right for you or not.

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To Sum It All Up

Are you in a toxic relationship? What are you going to do about your problem? Are the signs pointing in the direction that you should end things? How did you come to this conclusion? We’d love to hear your take on the topic! Please leave a comment, and share on social media!

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Are you looking for ideas of texts to send to drive him wild with desire? 

If so, this is the right place. Below, you’ll find a wide range of texting to make a man more interested in you. 

But first, I want to tell you a quick story that I think you’ll definitely want to hear...

Recently, I have been studying a psychological routine that quickly makes men OBSESS over you whenever you’re around. 

It’s based on a primal trigger within his mind called the ‘Hero’s Instinct’.

When activated, this psychological trigger releases addictive hormones into his mind that make him feel AMAZING.   

Needless to say, if you can learn how to activate this part of his mind, he’ll become addicted to YOU pretty fast.

I know this because I’ve studied the ‘Hero’s Instinct’ and seen the results for myself. My relationships with men have never been deeper or more meaningful. 

You can discover more about how the ‘Hero’s Instinct’ works in my personal blog post. At this point, few people seem to be aware of this, meaning it’s your chance to stand out from the competition. 

With that said, let’s now explore some ideas to win his interest via text message.

47 Ways to Make Your Crush Fall in Love with You Over Text 

Getting someone to fall in love with you over text is a lot like doing it in person, except with a few tweaks here and there. The convenience of texting makes it accessible to everyone, yet nuances can just as easily get lost in between, leading to possible misinterpretation.

Then again, texting gives you the precious chance of actually thinking before you talk. Unlike phone calls and even in-person communication, you can reply in your time if you need to. Since crushes are historically known to bring out your gibberish speaking abilities, this is a big pro.

But obviously, it takes more than time to move from being acquaintances with your crush to your desired landing point that is their heart. 

Now I generally try not to make promises, but you can count on the following techniques to move you several steps closer to achieving your goal. All you have to do is discern how to apply them to your specific situation.

1. Approach as a friend, not a crush

There’s a way you talk to someone who you are only pursuing a friendship with compared to one you have a raging crush on. The difference might be subtle for some people, but trust me, it’s there. For one, it’s typical to act more flustered with the latter than casual, and that can give you away faster than you can say, Jack Robinson.

Whether you already have a rapport going (acquaintances and above) or the baton falls on you to initiate conversation, it’s integral to your success that you be subtle.

2. Make the first text count

As you know, first impressions are everything in cases like this. If you have a tabula rasa with your crush (as opposed to someone you are already friends with), you are luckier than most so take advantage. 

Most people go with hooking their love interest’s attention with something catchy, but more than just memorizing pickup lines, it’s best to make your intro you. Lay a foundation that sets the tone for the dynamic they are likely to get if you keep talking.

3. Keep the early messages concise

Short and to the point is kind of the whole point of texting, wouldn’t you say? But by that, I don’t mean to go confessing your feelings just yet. Plenty of time to get there. What I mean is not to succumb to temptations to prolong conversations into the late nights except when necessary.

If you’ve had some back and forth going (glance exchanges, TL rapport, etc.), even more reason to keep things brief when you first start to chat. It leaves them curious for more and thus looking forward to their next opportunity to fill in the blanks.

4. Carry your fair share of the chat

Don’t be the passive texter who leaves all the work to their texting buddy and is just there to confirm or deny their thoughts. Trust me, even the most curious person will eventually lose interest if chatting with you takes that much out of them. Make it feel less like work for both parties by simply learning to keep the conversation going. 

For instance, don’t just say hi, but instead, try to make each message worth replying to. If not a question, then a piece of information that warrants their attention. That makes it feel less automated and more animated.

5. Ask them open-ended questions

You can do your best to keep the convo going when you and your crush chat, but at the end of the day, these things work both ways. As I touched on in the previous point, keeping them talking is key to the continuity of your textationship, and open-ended questions help you achieve just that.

However, this isn’t a justification to turn every text session into an interview. Let your questions flow naturally with the context, so it just feels like two people talking rather than you digging for info. If your crush is not just keen on answering but asks some of their own in return, it’s a possible sign of interest on their part.

6. Share memes with them.

Memes are the universal language of the internet. If it’s funny to you, chances are it will make your crush smile too, or at least be confused enough to ask you what it means, i.e., carry on the conversation. If you don’t have much faith in your sense of humor, go with the trending or most shared ones in their location.

Memes are the best ways to show your crush you have a sense of humor and find out if theirs match yours. Don’t go sending every ridiculous or hilarious thing you find to them, though. They can be one of your conversation starters or a go-to when words fail, but don’t overdo it.

7. Use emojis and gifs sparingly

Body language, which is the chief advantage physical interactions have over all other types of communication, is unfortunately no good in texting because you can’t see each other. Thankfully, we have features (emojis, gifs, memes) that come in as close seconds for clarifying the tone of your text, which is all too easy to lose in translation.

However, there’s a thin line between expressing yourself better and coming across as immature. This line shifts with each person, so if unsure, just try to go off of how often they, themselves, use these insertions or generally use them minimally.

8. Mirror their texting style

Mirroring is one of the body language signs of attraction that people can easily pick up in physical settings. Thankfully, these non-verbal cues can be picked up in texting as well, especially by discerning eyes.

You can adopt their use of attachments, language, text back speed, or whatever else you notice. Just try to make it look like a subconscious thing you found yourself doing and not a blatant mimicry. This shows your crush you’ve been paying attention, which will likely make them smile and, hopefully, reciprocate.

9. Find out your shared interests

One of the reasons we spend time talking to people we like is to get to know them better, right? In the process of doing that, keep an eye out for things you happen to both like/have in common. Some people can be shy around those they find attractive and may need a bit of encouragement to relax.

A surefire way to get your crush to loosen up is to maneuver your early conversations towards something they know and like. In return, being able to relate to what they are passionate about gives grounds for instant connection.

10. Share links to unique content

Everyone has their corner of the internet, where they go to find certain content. Yet, no matter how ardent a user is, no one really gets them all. It literally takes people in and out of everyone’s network to share stuff, including your crush.

Every now and then, the algorithm may bring something your way that is relevant to your romantic interest, when that happens, feel free to share with them. It can be about your mutual interests, trending topics, their job, and not just the fun, flimsy stuff. If nothing else, this gives you an excuse to talk to them and further secure your relevance in their orbit.

11. Play to your strengths

Everyone has an area they naturally excel at. Find yours as it pertains to social relations and prioritize them over aspects where you don’t. We can’t all be quirky or hot, but there’s a lot in between, one just has to figure out where on the spectrum they fall.

Some people are effortlessly good with words. Patience might be your thing or intelligence for days. The point is, there’s more than one way to be impressive, and recognizing your strong suit helps you put your best foot forward.

12. Keep things lighthearted

Texting with your crush should be interesting and playful. There is absolutely no reason to be having relationship problems this early on in your interaction. (If they are still a crush, no matter how long you’ve had it, it’s early.)

I’m not saying pretend to be happy-go-lucky if you usually aren’t, but make it a general rule to steer clear of gloom. They are more likely to look forward to your name popping up on their screen when you make them smile rather than depressed.

13. Share pictures occasionally between texts

Unless being anonymous is your whole thing, punctuating your texts with media can be a great way to bring diversity into the mix. Words are great and all, but as made evident with the invention of memes, gifs, and emojis, they are not enough, even in texting.

Sharing jpegs can make up for most people’s top reservation with chatting through texts which is how impersonal it can sometimes seem. Let your crush in on moments in your life through photos and videos, and they’ll learn to do the same (ask if they don’t). Once you make it to this stage, your odds of pulling through improve.

14. Go with the flow

I understand that some people like to know the end of what they are getting into sometimes before even starting. If you are like that, you may need to learn how to be laid-back and just let things flow. Sure, there’s a place for taking the driver’s seat, but sometimes, you let the moment decide.

It doesn’t have to be so deep as to compromise your principles, just a bit of open-mindedness and flexibility make for better-shared experiences than a rigid mindset.

15. Tease them

Teasing is an underrated way to get under someone’s skin, as long as you know where to draw the line. Though a form of flirting, playful jabs can help alleviate romantic tension that may otherwise make you choke up.

Teasing your crush also highlights your confidence which is way more attractive than wearing how intimidated they make you on your sleeve. Plus, what’s the worst that could happen? You hit a soft spot and apologize? Sounds to me like a small price to pay for a chance to get your crush to smile/laugh considering it’s a shortcut to most people’s hearts.

16. Poke fun at yourself too

We all have varying thresholds for being teased, and as such, it can help to temper the seriousness by learning to laugh at yourself too. Let your crush know this is a safe, comfortable space to let their guard down, or your attempt at making them laugh may come across as offensive, even when well-intentioned.

Wherever things lead, whether you end up being friends or lovers, laughing at and with each other bodes well for the quality and longevity of your relationship.

17. Play to their ego

Conversely, if your crush’s sensitivities make teasing them challenging, you can always revert to good ol’ ego massage because who doesn’t like to feel important? I wouldn’t overdo it, though, because flattery is easy to see through, and frankly, can be counterproductive if you want them to fall in love with you.

They are more likely to feel special if you keep your commendation rooted in the truth. This is why it’s safer to do it from the pov of their impact and not based on the pedestal crushing on someone inadvertently makes you place them on.

18. Prioritize unique compliments over generic ones

Compliments, though inherently good, can rub people off the wrong way if they don’t believe you mean it. And let’s face it, we are more likely to feel good about a compliment you know the sender sincerely means than a common over-flogged one they tell everyone.

A way to personalize your compliments is to make it about their craft, personality, and generally non-material stuff, and not just physical appearance. Also, less is more here if you want to preserve the appeal of your approval.

19. Be selectively available

Speaking of preservation, to avoid being taken for granted, you need to ration your entire availability to your crush, not just how often you compliment them. Don't make things too easy for them, or they might get bored. Don't try too hard at anything, and if you are, don't make it apparent. 

It helps to take a step back occasionally to observe your position in this person’s life objectively. The feelings may not be all the way mutual yet, but they still need to be receptive to what you bring to appreciate it fully. In between those assessments, let them have you only in small doses but make it count.

20. Be a dynamic texter

You can’t win someone over by being monotonous and repetitive unless you have it on good authority that boredom turns them on. Don’t, in the name of being careful or whatever, start and end conversations in a predictable manner. 

Show your crush you are a dynamic individual by diversifying the topics you talk about, and they will be more likely to look forward to doing more with you.

21. Don’t be afraid to go below the surface with them sometimes

I know I said being playful and lighthearted does it, but when the time is right, showing your vulnerable side can make your crush fall for you even faster. It shouldn’t happen often, so they actually appreciate it when you decide to get deep.

What counts as below the surface can be anything from a secret in context to an embarrassing encounter you had recently. This not only humanizes you to your crush, it’s also one of the rawest ways to connect as it makes them comfortable enough to share privileged info with you as well. 

On the flip side, it doesn’t have to be emotional/personal to be deep. You can always touch on meaningful subjects like mental health, future plans, space travel, politics, and the environment if that’s more your scene.

22. Incorporate other forms of communication in due time

If we’ve established anything so far, it’s that you can get a whole lot done with texting. Nevertheless, it has its limitations. As I said, the nuances make up a crucial aspect of communication that only the best of texters manage to capture. And that’s not accounting for how the receiver interprets it.

While this form of communication may win when setting up casual sex, phone calls or face-to-face are more suited for more engaging conversations. For one, you don’t have to spend a chunk of time typing and reading epistles, and you can pick up on tone and subtle body expressions.

23. Flirt

Flirting is a non-threatening way to test the waters and let your crush know you’re interested in being more than friends with them. There’s nothing wrong with getting sexy with your crush if you know how and want to, but considering they might not be as comfortable just yet, it’s best to build up to it.

Just as you wouldn’t dive into the deepest ends of unfamiliar waters, best to start simple and then gradually turn up the heat if they match your gusto.

24. Post interesting stuff

If, like most people these days, you chat with your crush on social media, see your posts as an avenue to indirectly acquaint them with your personality. Pro tip: assume they are watching if you are talking and filter accordingly if need be. 

The idea is to give your crush a glimpse of what they’d be signing up for if you grew closer. Exposing them to different sides of your full life is not only more attractive but more sustainable than advertising one genre.

25. Comment privately on their posts

In the DMs, let it go down. Public comments work too, but if you are the type who would rather other people not be in on your romantic interests, you can make your gushing for their eyes only. This will either make them smile and feel seen or weirded out if you give stalker vibes.

Being their turf, if they engage readily and get a whole conversation going from there, know they are either bored or “gasps,” your crush likes you. 

26. Keep the effort ratio close to equal

Even if all you want to do is text your crush all day, this is one of those instances in life where you need to fight your impulse. It doesn’t matter how out of your league your feelings for your crush make them seem, try not to sell yourself short by being overeager.

How? Wait till they reply to your texts before sending a new one, and if you must send a follow-up, make sure it’s warranted and well-spaced. Be enthusiastic alright, but not so much the effort scale tilts heavily towards you. 

27. Pick their brain

People love to play hero to those they care about. Ask your crush for recommendations, advice, and thoughts on any subject they are pretty savvy on, and notice how they react. Someone who likes you back might take that as their chance to shine and be more than happy to come through.

Make sure to keep it light, too. You can ask about shows and movies to watch on Netflix if that’s their forte. Also, music, fun places to visit, books, or whatever they are into.

28. Put them on to good music

I once saw somewhere that bonding over music is a different kind of joy, and I couldn’t agree more. Sharing the same taste in music may not guarantee that you get to live happily ever after with your crush, but studies find it plays a positive role in attraction.

Following the same principle as the familiarity effect, shared preferences convey similar values and personal inclinations. Finding someone with the same taste as you in music can feel like finding kin, so sharing that Spotify link may not be the worst idea.

29. Don't rush things to 'the next step'

When you and your crush start to hit it off, you will likely want to ride the wave as you’re feeling it, and that’s okay. However, you should be careful not to let desire be the sole thing driving your speed if you don’t want it to burn out as quickly.

Unless all you want with them is a casual conversation with sex, leave some things to the imagination. The longer you can manage to do this, the better. Focus on establishing a meaningful connection between you online before pushing to take it offline.

30. Bring up old conversations

If you’ve had some really good time texting with your crush, you can use your old chats to trigger nostalgia in your love interest. “Remember when...” Or you can follow up on a previous conversation you’ve had in the past, perhaps to ask for an update or to genuinely learn more now you’ve grown closer. 

E.g., “Tell me more about [insert an interest they once mentioned in passing], I still can't picture you in [something embarrassing] lmao.” The sentiment is bound to make them smile, but you should also make it fun, so it ends on a light, cheerful note.

31. Keep your goal in mind when you text

Goals keep us on track, and they can be just as handy in texting as they are crucial to succeeding in life. If you struggle with being articulate in your crush’s presence or tend to get distracted once you start chatting, it might help to prioritize your reason for reaching out.

Before you text your crush, ask yourself what you hope to achieve by doing it. To know what they are up to or have a heart-to-heart chat? If the latter, what about? This gives you some direction and keeps you from being a nervous wreck if/when you lead the conversation.

32. Time your messages/read the room

You know your crush. I'm sure you spend a big chunk of your time getting in every detail about them you can get your hands on. Use what you know of them, e.g., their social media persona, to gauge what they might be receptive to and then initiate conversations along those lines.

As for the timing, I’d double-check all my sources before sending a risqué text, for example, or making a sensitive joke. If you are close enough to tell when they are not in a good mood, that might not be the best time to tease them if you value your relationship.

33. Try not to overthink texts

I say this as someone who, most times, sorts through like 9999 scenarios before replying to a simple chat from someone I like. I overthink a lot, and while the trait has its days, often, it's just an unnecessary source of anxiety.

I’m slowly learning to give unfounded concerns and the ones I can’t really do anything about the finger. Seeing as my conversations generally flow better, and I feel less anxious doing that, I’m inclined to recommend blurting occasionally to everyone. 

34. But don't get too comfortable either

Notwithstanding, that it’s okay to be random while chatting is no excuse to let yourself go to the point of putting zero thoughts into chatting with your crush. Don't start complaining, nagging, or acting entitled to them just because you’ve grown a bit closer, either.

I wish I could tell you that consistently letting your crush see you at your worst wouldn’t change anything, but unfortunately, attraction at that level isn’t unconditional just yet, if ever. You have to keep up appearances or risk jeopardizing your chances of taking your relationship any further. 

35. Don't fixate on your crush’s love life

If relationship talk comes up, sure, discuss it and answer their questions but don't go baiting them for information they are unwilling to share. If you must know, ask directly, even if you aren’t satisfied by their response, take it as gospel until proven otherwise.

If they turn out to be a liar, perhaps it’s a sign you shouldn’t be crushing on them. But pending that conclusion, don’t go hounding them for specifics of their relationship with every single person they post, they don’t owe you such explanations at this level.

36. Call them out if they do something that upsets you

Though it may feel like it by the way your heart skips a beat when they pass by, your crush isn’t perfect. They are bound to make mistakes like any of us, and when that happens, your first instinct might be to let it slip but don't.

If your feelings for them are apparent by now, even more reason not to let disrespect slide. Chances are they will respect you more for standing up for yourself. If they don’t, and it comes to choosing between keeping them and your self-worth, I hope you choose the latter.

37. Keep the banter burning

You can't realistically expect to be witty all the time, especially if you are not that extra in real life. But you remember what we said about keeping things light, that should be your default.

Things will happen in between as you grow closer for sure, but you stand a chance to come back from even the worst of them when you make humor your base.

38. Share details of your day and ask about theirs.

If you are already on to a good start with your crush, an excellent way to grow familiarity is by sharing the simple, everyday stuff. It works way better than calculated topics if you are both into it, especially if love is your end goal. 

Give them a look into how awesome your authentic self in all its mundaneness (compared to what you might be comfortable putting on SM.) is. Send pictures of what you are up to on occasion and ask them for some too. Like I said earlier, it adds a much-needed personal angle to your tête-à-tête.

39. Avoid giving TMI

Too much information is the enemy of passion as fleeting as a crush can be. If you don’t want to find out the hard way, I suggest keeping a lot more to yourself than you readily share. Things like how badly your ex treated you or the sad realities of your childhood are conversations you save for your boyfriend or girlfriend, not a crush.

There’s a need for mystery–infatuation’s lifeforce to consider and the potential contempt overfamiliarity causes. Trust me, you don’t want that too soon.

40. You don't have to be them to please them, be yourself

There’s a thin line between adopting someone’s qualities to make them feel more at home with you and shedding your own personality to take on theirs. Unfortunately, this will only leave you crushless and single at the end of the day, with no one else to blame but yourself.

People may be looking for part of themselves in a partner, but I doubt anyone sets out hoping to meet and fall in love with their doppelganger. It takes more than liking all of the same things to be compatible, so not even that is an excuse to don a faux persona.

41. Be attentive to their needs

Show your crush you’ve been listening by using information gained while getting to know them to your advantage. Relating with people is so much easier when you know what they like and don’t like. Learn their love language, and you’ll become the person who doesn’t miss. 

Except you fell for someone in the minority that doesn’t like surprises, imagine all the points you can get for pulling off apt ones back to back.

42. Say/do something that stands out on their birthday

Special occasions like your crush’s birthday are another chance to show you’ve been paying attention. This may not be an easy task to achieve, but finding a way to outdo the barrage of sweet love they will receive from loved ones will stand you out.

It might not be the most expensive gift, but along the same lines as the previous point, try to put some thought into it.

43. Talk about your interests too, including the weird ones

Part of being your authentic self is talking about what gives you butterflies outside of romance. And not just in a “me too” context when your crush discusses theirs. Your hobbies, job, family, and dreams make up a large part of who you are. If you want them to feel just as seen/important as your potential partner, it starts with how you present them now.

44. Arrange for you two to do fun stuff together

Let your crush experience you in a different dimension by looking for exciting activities you can do together besides texting. This can be anything from online dates to pressure-free physical activities like hiking. Bonus points if you pick something you are particularly good at where you can show off your skillset.

45. Talk freely about your relationship status

In all you do, don’t forget to find ways to allude to your singleness before they get too comfortable with you. As your bond deepens, it’s a slippery slope to the friend zone if you don’t make it known that you are interested in something more with them. However, in doing this, try not to seem desperate because there’s no greater turn-off than that.

46. Give it time

Unlike crushes, love doesn’t come at first sight, and neither does it happen overnight. You can do everything right and still not be guaranteed your desired outcome because you also can’t force it. What you can do, though, is give your budding connection time to develop, and maybe, just maybe, something more profound might come of it.

47. Tell your crush you like them

Finally, if you’ve crossed the t’s and dotted your i’s, been nice and naughty, and they still don’t seem to get the hint, it might be time to tell them straight-up. Be confident when you declare your feelings, and of course, prepare for the possibility that they might not be romantically interested in you, even if they don’t dislike you as a person. 

But you never know, they may have also been crushing on you the whole time and just been too chicken to say something.

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To Conclude

How to make your crush fall in love with you over text? There you go. I am confident these tips will help you get your crush and give you one of the awesome and best relationships. Remember, this is just a guide, not a set of hard-and-fast rules. 

Want to drop your own cool thoughts on how to get your crush? Feel free to start a conversation by listing them in the comments. I’d like to hear what you think. Maybe share the link with the people you send memes to, also. If you liked it, they probably will too.

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This might sound like an odd question, but these emotions really aren’t too far separated.

The opposite of love is indifference.

If she’s putting the energy into hating you, it could be that she’s pretending just to get your attention. These mind games are more common than they should be…

Never mind. 

In this guide, I’m going to help you out by revealing some of the most clearcut signs that a woman likes you, but is pretending to hate you.

But, before we start, let me give you a bonus tip that arguably provides the quickest and most effective way to know how a woman feels about you. 

It’s by downloading this powerful online communications tracker tool.

As long as you enter a few of this woman’s most basic details into this tool, you’ll be able to learn who she’s contacting most often, what online services she’s using, and a ton of other details about her recent communications. 

The database that’s delivered to you will blow your mind as far as its levels of detail. 

Plus, it’s 100% discreet, so there’s absolutely zero danger of her finding out that this super-intelligent device is tracking her.

With that said, this woman could already be showing some signs that she actually likes you, even if it looks like she hates you on the surface. 

Scroll down to get an idea of what these signs are.

33 Signs To Know If A Girl Likes You But Pretends To Hate You

You may be working in a busy office with a particular girl always picking on you, opposing the things you say, but buying you your favorite coffee whenever she goes out for lunch break. So, it means that she's there like she's not, and you're confused if she likes you or not.

Not all girls know how to express themselves. They would feel that as a man, you should notice how beautiful they are soon enough to ask them out, or crave to be in a relationship with them. This makes up part of the reasons a girl could pretend to hate a guy when she likes him.

It could also be her way of communicating and saying she likes you. You may be surprised about this, but most girls have some sort of pride attached to their personality and would prefer to be treated as a queen. This is why you see them pretend not to like a guy even when they do.

If you observe well, there could be a girl you’re talking to, who gives you attitude but cares a bit for you. Or, looks out for you, and makes you unsure if she likes you or not. If there is, here are 33 signs on how to know if a girl likes you but pretends to hate you.

1. She makes comments about everything that concerns you behind you

You'd be wondering why someone would prefer to talk behind you when she likes you. This happens a lot, especially with girls that have low self-esteem. They believe they're not good enough to have physical contact with you, so they prefer to do it behind you.

When a girl pretends to hate you, she would say both nice and bad things about you to others without making the mistake of saying them to you face-to-face. This is one of the signs you can use to know if a girl likes you, but pretends to hate you.

2. She’ll reluctantly do the things you say at her time

It's normal for most people to know when you give them a good piece of advice and use it. They would listen to you and be interested in anything you have to say, especially if it plays a big role in the challenges they're facing. 

But, this is different with a girl who likes you and pretends to hate you. She would pretend not to hear or regard anything you're saying at the moment. That doesn't mean she didn't use them to better herself. If a girl does this to you, it's clear that she's pretending to hate you.

3. All her friends would know about you secretly

Girls talk about many things within themselves. A good indicator about you or your personality is when a girl tells her friends about you. She may pretend like she's not interested in you, but she'll talk about you to her friends as often as they care to listen.

You may only get to know this if you and her have mutual friends. If she's introverted, she could tell only her best friend. You could know this if you observe her friend talking to you in a familiar or friendly way, as if you've both met before.

4. She could sound saucy when she’s around you

Some other signs that you should look out for are her actions. Actions speak more when it comes to situations like this. Her body language, speech tone, and general attitude are obvious signs to show how much she likes you and wants to be noticed.

She’ll behave a certain way when she sees you. Even when you come in mid-way into any discussion, her manner of approach to certain things would automatically change. It's a strong sign that she likes you and she's ready to know you if given the chance to.

5. She’ll look out for you

Most women who look out for people don't make it obvious to the people they're looking out for. They could go as far as being familiar with people to know the dangers you're most likely to face in the future.

So, if you notice your lunch being delivered on time even when you didn't ask for it, that could be a lady who likes you but is pretending to hate you. This could be her letting her actions speak more to you. You could try looking for your secret admirer.

6. If you’re into business, she’d refer you to people without your knowledge

For some women, it's not a big deal to naturally touch on different topics of discussion when talking to people. The same thing applies when a girl likes you but refuses to acknowledge that she's interested in you. 

If she has true feelings for you, she'll do her best to make you grow whether you know it or not. women do this for people they care about a lot, whether they reciprocate it or not. This is one of the subtle signals that a girl is pretending to hate you.

7. She’ll indirectly seek your opinion on many things

Women feel secure getting advice from someone she secretly admires. She believes everything he says is magical and good enough to apply to her daily life. If she's interested in starting a relationship with him, she'll go to him with all her problems.

This is another sign you could use to know when a girl likes you but is pretending to hate you. She would always come to you for advice, whether she's dating someone or not. You'd even notice her come to you with minor issues she can solve.

8. Her general appearance would be perfect when she knows she’ll see you

When most women secretly like a guy and would want to be in a relationship with him, they would do anything to get his attention including their physical appearance. You never know, but they'll study you well enough to know how you like your girl to dress.

They'll dress that way whenever they know they'll bump into you on a two-way street. They may not necessarily talk to you but would do everything to make them look attractive to you. That's a good sign that a girl likes you secretly.

9. She’ll always want you around

There's no way you won't want to see your crush around you always. When a girl likes you, this is one of the signs you'll see. It would be more obvious when she needs your attention for a little thing like increasing her phone screen brightness. 

She would always look for something she can use to spend time with you. Even when she claims she's busy, she'd only ask for your help, and not any other person’s. That's a sign to know when a girl pretends to dislike you.

10. When you say something to displease her, she’ll feel really bad

When a girl likes you, she's scared of you seeing her flaws. This is why most girls try to be as perfect as they can be whenever they're around guys they like. They'll talk in ways to please you and only contribute when you're around.

They expect you to only say nice things to them and when you don't, it affects their self-esteem. So, if you notice her mood swings when you say something a bit mean playfully, that's a great sign that she likes you, but is pretending to hate you.

11. She would take care of your belongings when you’re not around

Imagine traveling away from your home and getting back to see your car as sparkling as ever. You could think it's a nice neighbor or one of your good friends, only to hear a girl make an indirect comment about it to you in the weirdest way.

It could make you wonder. But, what you should know is that, no girl would go out of her way to do anything to please you if she doesn't want something from you. If a girl does this, you should see the sign that she likes you secretly.

12. You’ll always have a warning sign from her about bad things

As simple as “be careful out there. There are signs of a possible heavy rainfall” or “be careful not to get robbed.” Those are warning signs from a girl who's making it obvious that she wants you back safe, meaning she likes and cares about you.

This is not behavior from a girl who wants to be just a friend. It comes from the heart and even though she may not say it directly to you, she likes you enough to be in a relationship with her and expects you to see it someday.

13. She could get close to your family if they’re around

Ever heard of stalkers? Most girls know how to stalk the men they like. It doesn't matter if you're already in a relationship or not. They would find out everything they need to know about you from mutual friends or social media.

They could know your family from these sources and get to know them more. You could be surprised to see that quiet coworker at the office helping your mother unpack her grocery bags on a beautiful Sunday afternoon. That's one of the signs a girl is pretending to dislike you.

14. She’ll tell off every guy that comes to her

Have you ever heard of girls putting guys in the friend zone? If yes, you should know that it's always because there's another guy out there that they see themselves with more than the guy who likes them. If you observe this, you'll know.

She would remain single for a while and would give no other guy except you the chance to talk. So, if you talk to her and hear her complain about every guy she meets, she's mean to you, but would prefer to always be around you, that's a sign she's pretending to hate you. 

15. Whenever you talk about your ex or relationship, she’ll pay deaf ears to it

One of the best signs you can use to know if a girl likes you but pretends not to, is her reaction when you're talking about other girls. How does she behave when you talk about your ex, girlfriend, or other girls you relate with?

She could either sound jealous, give a fake smile, keep quiet, or change the topic immediately. This is one of the subtle ways you can tell when a girl likes you and wants to be in a relationship with you, but pretends to dislike you.

16. She’ll try to send off any female friend she sees with you

A girl who pretends to hate you would take off all minor distractions to make her be in the spotlight. If she observes you concentrating on a particular girl or having a best female friend, she'd find a way to reduce the way they relate with you. 

Some girls do this in a friendly way while others do it forcefully. She could go as far as telling you a few bad things to make you relate less with them. This is one of the signs you could use to know when a girl is pretending to dislike you.

17. Her lifestyle will be programmed in a way that would make you notice her

A girl would change her lifestyle just to get your attention. If she is wild, she'll do things calmly. If she was calm and observed that you like wild girls, she would program herself to be that way.

She'll start living a good life, talking about it, and making it obvious to you, the changes she has tried to make in her life. She could even go as far as doing almost the same things you do, reading the kind of books you love reading, and relating with the people you love most.

18. She may delay responding to your messages, but she always will

Is there any girl you talk to who doesn't delay responding to your messages, but responds well with apologies when she does? You could even observe that if you tell her that you're tired of her delayed responses, she could apologize but won't change for the better.

If she doesn't apologize, she could try her best to respond quicker than she did at first. That's because she doesn't want to lose that connection or stop chatting with you. That's one of the signs that a girl likes you but wants to hide it.

19. You can count on her as your defender whether you’re there or not

Not all women who say they don't like you mean it. The most interesting thing about this part is that you may think she dislikes you, only to hear from others about how well she defends you when you're not around. 

She may pretend not to know any of those things when you ask her, but deep down, she'll be happy you're grateful for her effort. She'll also be happy that she could make you talk to her. That's one of the signs a girl secretly likes you even when she claims she doesn't.

20. She’ll tell you about the things you don’t need to know about her

If a girl claims to be uninterested in you but keeps telling you things about her family members or personal life, she may not be truthful. It takes a certain level of trust to open up to someone that way. 

So, if you observe her always opening up to you about her personal affairs, it means she has a soft spot for you somewhere. This is one of the signs you can use to know when a lady likes you but pretends she doesn't. You should look out for it.

21. Her level of pride will increase when she talks to you

You could be wondering what could make a woman's command of English suddenly become so good when she starts talking to you. If this happens when you're meeting for the first time, it's okay. But, if it's a woman you've known for a while, that may be her level of pride increasing.

You'll see it from her body language, facial expressions, and tone when she's responding to anything you say. She could pretend to be rude, but deep down the woman feels something good for you.

22. She’ll bring up discussions about you with other people

If a lady likes you but doesn't want to show it for some personal reasons, she could start gossiping about you unknowingly. Sometimes, it may be good, other times it could be bad. But, that could be because she's not getting the kind of attention she needs from you.

At the same time, she doesn't want to be the first to approach you or give you such attention. Because of that, she wouldn't mind discussing you with other people. This is one of the signs she likes secretly.

23. If you look sad, she’ll show some kindness in a nonchalant manner

Women who pretend to dislike you have a way of comforting you when you're sad. They don't do it like the rest of the people who care about you. They do it in ways that you can’t suspect their care but feel it lovingly.

So, they could offer you a drive home and when you show your gratitude, they either don't accept it or leave you hanging. This is one of the signs for you to know a woman likes you but doesn't want to show it.

24. She’ll be among the first to like your posts on social media

You know those times when you think you're posting crap on your social media accounts, but you keep getting likes from a particular girl even when she's mean to you in reality? You could be surprised to know that the same girl is interested in you.

You may not need to follow her back. She could follow you, like, and comment on your photos. Sometimes, she could go as far as sharing your posts on her wall or story to get your attention.

25. You may hear her ask other people about you

You'll hear questions like “is he married?” “Does he have a girlfriend?” At first, you may be wondering why a woman would ask those questions about you when she pretends to be uninterested in you.

The truth is, she may just want you to say hi first or recognize her as a person. When a girl shows such interest in you by asking other people about your life, it means she could like you even when she pretends not to. It's one of the signs you should look out for.

26. She would find pleasure in teasing you

If there's any woman or women out there who tend to tease you in different ways all the time, they could be interested in being in a relationship with you. She would do it to you whether it's on the phone or face-to-face.

You'll see her enjoying making fun of the things she finds attractive in you. He won't care if you like her gestures or not. This is one of the signs you can use to know when a lady likes you but pretends to dislike you.

27. Your presence would play a great role in her life

You may be surprised to know that a girl likes you so much that your presence makes her feel warm and accepted. She may not necessarily talk to you or she may sound mean when you try to talk to her.

But, you'll observe this sense of peace she gets when you step into the environment. If you get close to her and sit, she may say nothing harsh. This is one of the signs for you to know that a girl is interested in you, but pretends she's not.

28. She may pretend she’s too busy for you, but will always have time for you

If a woman shows you her busy side, but always has the time to listen to you or offer help whenever you need her, she's interested in you. Because of how proud she is, she may not want to let down her guards to say she's less busy for you, but if you ask, she’ll help.

Most women do this to avoid being taken for granted by men. They believe if they don't hide their feelings, they may fall into the category of women that men use in playing games. 

29. You may not know, but she’ll get jealous when you talk to other girls

When you and another girl laugh and she's around, she would be unable to ignore that happiness you have with another woman. She would feel she should be the one talking to you in such a relaxing and friendly manner. That's jealousy and it could make her do wrong things.

Some expressive women who find themselves in a situation like this would do everything to distract the girl you're talking to, just to interrupt the talk and laughter. This is one of the signs you get when a girl secretly likes you but shows she doesn't.

30. She tends to support you when others are against you

When a girl has strong feelings for you but refuses to admit it, she'll do her best to support you, whether you're there or not. She may not do it forcefully, but she'll find a way to pull strings to hide your bad deeds.

She could make excuses for you, especially when she's sure you didn't make mistakes intentionally. She will have your back and support you when you least expect. That's one of the signs you can use to know when a girl likes you but pretends not to.

31. She would go the extra mile to see you happy even when she claims she doesn’t care

If you feel a girl dislikes you, one thing you should look out for are the little things she does to help you. If she doesn't do anything to help you, then she doesn't care. But, if she does what other people can't do for you, it means she cares more than you can imagine.

Not every guy would do this, especially the one that is not interested in having anything to do with you. But, when a girl is interested in you, she'd do anything she can to make you happy.

32. Her body language will change whenever she sees you around

A girl’s body language will always change whenever she's around a guy she likes, whether she plans it or not. She'll be careful about how she talks to other men, relate with women, and try to make everything about her perfect.

If a girl shows her best behavior whenever you're around, it means she has strong feelings for you. She may not say this directly to you, but you'll see it in her attitude when you're around compared to other men. That's one of the signs a woman is interested in you.

33. She’ll feel insecure about any flaw you mention to her

When a woman likes you, she takes any and everything you say to heart. It doesn't matter if it's good or bad. When you say something good about her, it makes her smile. But, when it's something bad, it will make her feel insecure.

Whether you're joking or not, it'll go a long way to impact her positively or negatively. It's something that may hurt her for life. If you see any girl you affect this way, it's one of the signs she's interested in you but pretending not to be.

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In Conclusion

You should always remember that not all girls are the same. Depending on her personality, there are a thousand signs to know if a girl likes you but pretends to hate you. You could start with these 33 signs I've mentioned and see how things go. Don't forget to drop a comment and share this with others.

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Are you wondering whether there’s an appropriate time to do this, or maybe an appropriate manner to say it. 

Do you feel like it could be weird if you do it wrong? 

If so, this guide is here to help you. It is packed with useful advice for women who want to call their partner for the first time. 

But, first, here is a story that you’re likely to find incredibly useful. 

There is a little-known aspect of male psychology, which plays such a huge role as far as who they are attracted to. 

It is known as ‘The Hero’s Instinct’.

When activated, this part of the brain releases incredible feelings of purpose and power. These feelings are so powerful that a man can become OBSESSED with women who can make them feel like this.

I learned how to activate this part of a man’s mind, and I became incredibly good at it. Now, my relationships with men have become more meaningful and loving. For a similar result, click to read my personal log of what happened.

Needless to say, this can have a far bigger impact on men’s feelings than any sweet nickname you give him. How you make him feel is far more important than the words you say. Always remember that.  

Nevertheless, calling a man ‘Daddy’ can often do a lot to make him feel empowered. So, let’s now take a look at the best way to call him ‘Daddy’.

Calling Your Boyfriend 'Daddy'

There are different dynamics to different relationships. If you try to follow a common trend in other relationships that don’t apply to yours, you might regret it. The reason is, what works for your friends who are dating might not work for your relationship. 

For example, if your best friend swears that her boyfriend finds it sexy when she acts like the dominant person in the relationship, don’t assume the same thing would apply to you. If your man is the dominant person, he might prefer you calling him daddy than for him to call you mummy. Phew! Either of these nicknames sounds a bit weird, but it is what it is, right? 

Now, to the misconception that you only call your boyfriend daddy because you have daddy issues, it’s not completely true. Most women with daddy issues subconsciously sometimes, do their best to date men with opposite traits of what their daddies are. When they discover the man is just like their irresponsible daddy, they bail out on the guy. 

Also, no normal woman would want to give Freud’s weird theory full credit by thinking of her daddy while screaming the words “you’re my daddy" to her boyfriend. As such, the nickname ‘daddy’ doesn’t have to be weird if it’s something your boyfriend appreciates. 

Now that you know that calling your boyfriend daddy doesn’t need to have an inappropriate sexual connotation, how can you call him daddy in a sexy way? This article lists how to call your boyfriend daddy for the first time without grossing each other out.

25 Tips To Call Your Boyfriend Daddy 

1. Who initiated the idea?

The issue of calling a man who isn’t your dad daddy can range from being serious to ridiculous. Therefore, the initiator of the idea will determine how receptive the other person is to the idea. Who brought up the opinion of calling him that? 

Was it you because you like the different meanings in that one word? Was it him because he is dominant in every way that matters? If you initiated it, you might want to be sure your man likes being called daddy before you begin to use the nickname. 

2. Are you comfortable with using the nickname?

Before you begin to call your boyfriend that moniker, you should check yourself. Are okay with using the nickname? Does it trigger unpleasant memories due to your daddy issues? Or are you thrilled by the thought of using such a pleasantly weird name on your boyfriend? 

Guys don’t necessarily like being called daddy, except maybe when they’re in bed with their women. As such, if you’re not comfortable with using the nickname, you’ll only make the whole experience look silly. If you try to call him daddy once and you don’t like it, it’s alright to stop. You can try again when you’re ready, especially if he likes you calling him daddy.

3. Do you live together?

If you are going to call your boyfriend daddy, it will be less difficult doing so if you live together. You get to see either his acceptance or displeasure at the use of the word. Guys who like to be called daddy are usually controlling in a cute way, and need sufficient chances to express that part of themselves. 

If you don’t live with your boyfriend and call him daddy over the phone, it might be hard to gauge his initial reaction to being called daddy for the first time.

4. Try calling him daddy when he does something nice

The word daddy is deep, even for real fathers. A man can be a father by being a sperm donor, but he can only be called daddy when he has a great connection with his child. Guys who are real daddies are seen as heroes by their daughters, especially when they do unexpected nice things. 

When trying out the nickname daddy for the first time, time your usage of the word to just after your boyfriend does something nice for you. When you explain to him the reason for using that term, he’ll understand that you hold him in high esteem.

5. Test the nickname daddy in a text

If you’re skeptical about how your boyfriend will react to being called daddy, you can choose the coward’s way out for the first try. In place of his name or usual nickname, use the word, daddy. Then, hold on for his reaction. 

If he acts wigged out by the name, you can blame it on your keyboard’s autocorrect feature. If you’re lucky, your boyfriend’s name is Danny or begins with ‘Da'. If he fancies the nickname, you can give him a full context for calling him that. This will let him know why you chose the word ‘daddy’ and not ‘baby.’

6. Call your man daddy while flirting

Another perfect way to slip in the nickname daddy is while both of you are flirting with each other. He is relaxed and unaware of the word you’re about to sneak up on him, so you’ll catch him completely by surprise. 

You may start with other naughty nicknames, then say “you’re my naughty gummy daddy bear" (or something along that line). The fact that the word appears to slip out won’t make him suspect you’ve had the intention to do so all along. 

He might end up looking shocked, confused, or burst into laughter. What he wouldn’t look like, is weird. After the emotions or laughter slip off his face, he will let you know if he likes the moniker or not.

7. Call him baby daddy meaningfully

If you want your boyfriend to become your husband, calling him daddy can magnify that idea in his head. If you’ve both been dating for a long time and he already fills so many roles in your life, him being your baby daddy will be a delightful thought. 

Guys think they are in total control of their thoughts and decisions. However, they subconsciously yield to the desires of their women. By calling your boyfriend daddy in a meaningful way, you’re also telling him you’re ready for the next step. Note: don’t try this if your relationship is still at the getting-to-know-each other’s stage.

8. Only call him daddy in a happy mood

Using the moniker, daddy might not work in all situations. In fact, it can trigger or escalate unpleasant moments. For example, don’t use the word when you are mad at your boyfriend. If you throw the word around in anger, it will not retain its sweet meaning when you use it in a happy mood.

Therefore, ensure you don’t use the word as an insult, especially if the context has any connection with your real father’s bad behavior. If you use the moniker in an insulting manner, he might not appreciate you blurting it out during sex.

9. Use the nickname to make him take the dominant role

Another way to make the word daddy meaningful, even though you’re using it for the first time, is to do so just as you’re about to have sex with your boyfriend. If he has been hinting at taking the dominant role, calling him daddy will let him know you’ve ready to try the hot stuff.

Be sure to make him stop what you’re uncomfortable with. Calling him daddy doesn’t mean you should endure sex instead of enjoying it. If his idea of domination involves painful kinks and you don’t think you can take much pain, don’t let the term daddy get into his head. Also, you can use ‘daddy' as your safe word to make him stop at any point. 

10. Whisper the word daddy in his ear during sex

Another way to initiate the use of the word daddy is to say it in your boyfriend’s ear while you’re both doing the nasty. If he likes dirty talk during sex, throw in the moniker for the first time. He will be too hot for you and the sex to worry about why you’d call him daddy in the middle of lovemaking.

Lick his ear, then let out the sexy words that back up your context for calling him daddy. He might want to discuss the issue after sex, but you’ll be able to see how well he likes the term before then.

11. Use the nickname playfully

There is nothing wrong with calling your man daddy, especially if it’s in harmless jest. Both of you probably have other funny nicknames you call each other just to keep your relationship fun. Adding the moniker daddy to your list of fun things you do together might strengthen the bond both of you already share.

To avoid misunderstandings and misinterpretation, ensure your man is cool with the term. Guys aren’t naturally prickly and they can take a good ribbing without any offense. However, some guys with daddy issues can find the term triggering. If he doesn’t like the word, use another.

12. Use it to boost his ego

Most handsome guys know the power of their attraction and are willing to use their face or physique to get what they want. However, what boosts a real man’s ego is not his physical beauty. A man who isn’t all that physically appealing can make up for what he lacks by getting wealthy or being charismatic. 

Men value power and so, being called daddy can be exhilarating. Introduce the term as a representation of your man’s significance in your life and relationship. Rather than just using the word meaninglessly, ensure he knows you’re just boosting the confidence he already has. 

13. Call him daddy to show your vulnerability

As an independent woman, it can be a bit hard for you to relinquish authority or dominion to any man. No matter how much you love and respect your boyfriend, you still try to maintain control over most aspects of your life.

However, men thrive on the heady power that control gives them in relationships. Even an understanding pro-feminist man wants to exert a level of dominance on his woman. As such, using the moniker daddy for your boyfriend is one way to relinquish some control in the relationship. The word makes you vulnerable and at the mercy of his protection, in and out of bed. 

You’re saying you trust him with your body during sex and with other things. That is a big deal for a woman like you. If your man is worthy of such trust, he’ll appreciate the meaning behind the word. 

14. Use the pet name to arouse his hero instincts

One of the ways to best use the term daddy for your boyfriend is to do so to appeal to his hero instincts. The moment you use the term to indicate a measure of surrender to his love for you, your boyfriend’s hero instincts will kick in.

Guys are naturally protective. As a brother, a man wants to keep his sister from bad boys. As a husband, he wants to protect his family, and provide everything his wife and children need. As a boyfriend, he wants to assure his girlfriend that he’s everything she needs in a man. 

Arousing his hero instincts by calling him daddy will only reinforce his desire for you, especially if he likes the term.

15. Put some heat behind your voice

Using the word daddy isn’t enough, you need to let him hear how important you see him through the nickname. While you want to convey respect and honor through the term, you don’t want it to sound like you see him as a father figure. At least, not until he marries you.

As such, let the heat in your meaning be evident enough, so there’s no mistake who you are to him.

16. Drop the nickname during a steamy phone call

Phone sex gets better the naughtier it becomes. Depending on how far both go during steamy phone sex, you may or may not introduce the word daddy when things get heated. If the phone sex is more a teasing moment than a serious one heading for the climax, you can easily drop the term.

If it’s the latter, you don’t want to spoil the crucial moment by saying something that can deflate his erection. 

17. Avoid using the nickname when he's unhappy

Just like you shouldn’t use the nickname daddy when you’re upset with him, don’t use it when he’s in a bad mood. What he needs at that moment is either solid advice or cuddling. In either case, he isn’t in the best position to act the daddy role, especially if you’ve never called him that before.

Be supportive with whatever he needs at that point. If it means giving him space to get out of his head, do so. Unless he indicates he wants to channel his bad mood into roleplaying, it is not the best time to call him daddy.

18. Avoid calling your boyfriend daddy in the parents’ presence

There’s a place and time for spicing up your relationship. That opportunity isn’t when your parents or your boyfriend’s parents are around. You cannot just blurt out the term daddy and expect your parents to be cool with it.

Being called daddy or dad in front of either of your parents is unexplainable. No matter the direction you try to turn the meaning, the term will still sound sexual to them. If you don’t want your boyfriend to die of embarrassment, avoid using the term in the presence of his or your parents. 

19. Use the nickname to form a healthy emotional connection

Both of you know what the pet name daddy means to your relationship. The pet names ‘baby’ and ‘honey’ cause emotional and physical reactions in other couples. Why won’t the word daddy make you and your boyfriend feel the same thing?

If you consider the word meaningful, you’ll be able to use the term to build a better emotional connection. 

20. Use the nickname during foreplay

Foreplay is just as important as sex and so, it is a good moment to use the moniker for your boyfriend. Try staying on top while kissing and caressing him. Then call him daddy to see how he reacts. If he likes it, he will immediately flip you over in a show of dominance and increased sexual excitement.

If he doesn’t like it, his expression will tell you. Humorously say sorry so that the moment of intimacy doesn’t dissipate. 

21. Try not to make it sound awkward

The fact that you’ll be calling your boyfriend daddy for the first time means you might be nervous about what he will think. You’re worried that he’ll be thinking of your dad or his and freak out. However nervous you get, don’t awkwardly say the word.

When in doubt about how to call your boyfriend daddy, go for the sultry and sexy look. He is sure to get your meaning when you’re not looking like a cute girl in need of guidance from her dad. That will not only be a painful experience, but he’ll always have the wrong thoughts whenever he hears the word.

22. A hangout with friends is not the best place to use the nickname

Just as it will be embarrassing to call your man daddy in front of family, it’s also not ideal for him to hear you do that among his friends. Unlike his parents, his friends will not let him forget such an experience. They will make fun of him for a long time even though you mentioned it just once.

While they might mean it as a good-natured joke, it could lead to unnecessary quarrels. Unless your boyfriend initiates the idea in their presence, don’t do it.

23. Use the word daddy to show your appreciation

Gratitude does a lot for a relationship, especially when it is mutual. You can use your appreciation gesture as a chance to call your man daddy. Do something nice for him in appreciation of all he does in return.

Explain to him that calling him daddy is not to gross him out but to appreciate his roles as mentor, provider, lover, and friend. Of course, these might be the same things your dad does for your mom. However, your use of the nickname is just a sign of respect and love.

24. Wake him up with the nickname ‘daddy’

If your relationship has progressed to the stage where you’re both at home with each other, you can use the nickname daddy with your man. Try kissing him awake with the word daddy, as well as other sweet names that will start his day well.

Don’t use the word until you’re sure of how he feels about you, and how much you’re willing to entrust your whole life to him.

25. Keep using the nickname privately

You don’t want to make other people feel weird or anything. When you start calling your boyfriend daddy in public, people either assume you’re ready to tear each other’s clothes off or something equally public-inappropriate. 

The beauty of this nickname is in how much you can be open with each other in your private space. Your public interaction is an extension of your connection in private. So, use the moniker properly when you’re alone with him.

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In Conclusion

Nicknames are common in relationships because they make couples feel a special connection other people might not understand. Whether or not your man will like the nickname daddy depends on the meaning both of you give the name.

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But you are also only human, and worry just so happens to be part of the range of emotions you feel. If your girlfriend isn’t exactly doing something out of the ordinary at the party she’s attending, is it okay to have some reservations about it anyway? Is there a right or wrong way to act in such a situation? Let’s see, shall we?

13 Things to do When Your Girl Goes to a Party Without You

1. Find out what kind of party it is

Before losing your sh*t over your girlfriend going to a party without you, consider the fact that it may be one you have no business attending.

A girls-only affair, for instance, or an event she's only going to for work reasons. It could be a family thing, and your relationship isn't there yet, or she's saving you a couple of hours of snoozefest because she knows it's not your scene.

Also, consider who she's going with.

Familiar faces being there might help you realize it is harmless. Like going to a kickback with a sibling, work colleagues, or fellow boo 'd-up girls as opposed to a rave notorious for hooking up with single guy friends who evidently want her.

2. Appreciate her vibes

Another thing you can do is take a minute to appreciate the girl you are dating. An individual with a full life outside your relationship. Someone who doesn’t deem herself tethered to you so much that she can no longer make decisions for herself because there’s a significant other in the picture. She wanted to go to a party, so she did.

If she’s this kind of person, odds are her independence is part of the qualities that attracted you to her in the first place. If she hasn’t given you any reason to suspect foul play, then there’s no cause for alarm. It’ll probably make it an experience to talk about that you didn’t both live.

3. Check yourself for possible dependency issues

Conversely, you can take the time away from your girl to evaluate yourself frankly. Is it possible you’re taking things too far? Could your fixation on your girlfriend’s partying be stemming from an even bigger cause for concern? Is it just this particular party that worries you, or do you always get anxious whenever she’s out without you?

If you’ve had a previous relationship, were you like this with your ex as well, or has this particular babe done something to make you doubt her? Assuming the former, were you only concerned when your exes hung out with party girls and guys or whenever they were just out without you? 

Doting, inseparable love may be cute, but it’s a slippery slope from there to becoming overly dependent on your partner, you know?

4. Ask her why

Honestly, asking for clarification on what you don’t understand should be the most normalized thing in relationships. Not only is it the best way to go if you’re looking for the correct answer instead of just possibilities, but it also saves you a lot of time and guesswork.

Does she think you're a party pooper? Does your dress sense need work? Is it a girls' night out? Is she just trying to spend time apart from her boyfriend, which is perfectly normal? Is she going there to sleep with a bunch of randy guys? I don’t know, but she does. Even if she can’t tell you the truth, the way she answers might be a hint in itself.

5. Crash the party

Doing this may very well leave you single at the end of the day, but hey, maybe not. If your relationship isn’t long-distance and you happen to know the event's details, like the when and where you can decide to surprise her by showing up. Best if everyone knows everyone, so anyone could have “dragged” you along.

You can always put a romantic spin on why you didn’t tell her you’d be attending or hope to catch her two-timing so why you’re there is not the immediate concern. 

I should say, though, that if things aren’t rosy between you, it might come across as stalking her. And if you’re hoping to catch her red-handed, going about it this way lets her know you’re on to her, which will only make her more careful.

6. Express how it makes you feel after the party

A less volatile and certainly more mature alternative is to let her do her thing and then express yourself afterward. And I know this is easier said when your brain isn’t doing the most, filling gaps that aren’t there between the drinking and other men being around your girlfriend.

Concentrating on anything else at that time may be challenging, especially if you know your girlfriend to be reallyfun at parties. But try not to lose control. Instead, concentrate your energy on trying to communicate the range of emotions her going without you makes you feel without sounding controlling or condescending.

7. Do nothing

Except for maybe hope she has a good time. That is, after all, why most people party. Take things at face value instead of overthinking/connecting dots that aren’t there, and know peace. You can’t stop your mind from working overtime, but you have some power over what you choose to dwell on.

And even if you can’t help spiraling, all you have to do is not show it to her. She doesn’t always need to know how insecure her spending time around other guys makes you feel, trust me, no girl wants a boyfriend she constantly has to reassure. 

Let her have her few hours of drinking, dancing, and turning gross boys down undisturbed and chances are she’ll miss you after the party or perhaps even before it’s over.

8. Do your own thing

If being idle makes it harder to stay still, find something equally (or almost as) rewarding to fill your time while she’s out. Maybe go to a party of your own, make a TikTok or two, or get your guys together for a chill hang.

It doesn’t have to be a tit-for-tat thing, just something to distract you, so you have less time to think about random guys grinding your girlfriend.

9. Tell her you trust her

If your girlfriend tells you about the party, it’s probably because she knows you have faith in her and your relationship, even if she doesn’t ask you to come along. If you’re wondering what to do in that scenario, I think saying a simple “I trust you” says plenty.

It’s both affirming what she’s probably already banking on and a subtle reminder not to break your confidence. I’d work it into a conversation naturally, though, and not make a whole thing of it so she doesn’t go, “well, why wouldn’t you?” It’s a woman we’re talking about here; overthinking is kind of our thing.

10. If she doesn't tell you about it, examine why

It’s easy to climb a high horse and spin a sus move our partner makes, but it’s hardly ever an isolated event. It’s one thing for your girlfriend to go partying without you and another for her to go without even informing you. Naturally, the latter should raise more eyebrows.

But even if that’s your case, can you honestly say you don’t have a hand in it? Has she always been that way, or is this a recent development? Could you have reacted unreasonably to her partying without you in the past? Maybe you’re one of those guys with a double standard about things like this. 

So, to avoid drama, she goes about her business knowing she doesn’t plan on being unfaithful anyway.

11. Take it as a sign communication in your relationship could be better

If you agree there are things in your relationship your partner can’t bring up because it’s almost guaranteed you’ll take it the wrong way, then your communication isn’t great. I don’t know about you, but someone I love finding it hard to share even the most immaterial things with me sounds to me like a reason to talk more.

Maybe it’s just me, but I expect someone I talk to as often as a boyfriend to know something’s up if I continually don’t tell him what I’m up to. Yes, even when it’s as basic as parties. Not talking about things means filling in the gap by yourself, and that’s how discrepancies creep in between what happens and what’s understood.

12. Consider it a general wake-up call

Then again, the takeaway here might not just be a few communication gaps but holes worth checking in your relationship as a whole. For starters, consider how often concerns like this arise: once or twice now, or a lot more frequently? 

Also, what are you really worried about? Her safety or that she might cheat on you? If it’s the latter, doesn’t that imply a bigger issue worth addressing than just her affinity for parties?

13. Do something about it

Not to be the prophet of doom here, but you don’t need to be alerted to a satisfactory situation. Usually, when you relate to a wake-up call, it’s because your reality isn’t the quality you’d prefer. Have you tried all you can to express how it makes you feel a type of way that she parties without you? Do you suspect she's cheating or, worse, ashamed of being seen with you? 

Maybe your ideal night being logging some quality time with your partner and hers being a night out on the town with her babes means more than you’re both willing to admit. Maybe it means you need to talk to your girlfriend more, or for you to finally realize that this is only one of many symptoms of your real issue: incompatibility. 

Maybe the glaring difference in values and preferences means it’s time to find a more middle, middle ground, or finally do something more permanent about it.

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To Conclude

There is no one-size-fits-all approach to relationships, but good communication is pretty much a universal key, so, seriously, talk to your girlfriend. 

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